Guest guest Posted March 30, 2008 Report Share Posted March 30, 2008 SGIO Well, you are INSANE, but thats not relevant to this issue....lol I'd just recognize the risks and take any precautions that can easily be taken. That's part of what we all face, determining what risks to take and how to minimize them without giving up those things important to us. For me, vacuuming was easy to give up...lol Pest control comes monthly. It's needed but the fresh spray isn't something I want to inhale. So, when he walks in, I walk out and go run errands and things for a few hours. I always plan that day that way. I was trying to think of times I've forgotten all the rules and one comes to mind. Not long after my surgery and move, stopped by to pick up boxes I had emptied for her move. As we were carrying boxes out (me wearing oxygen), she took a shortcut and fell face down in a flower bed (within inches of concrete on two sides). I ran to check on her, forgetting any and all about my health. I'd do the same again as I think most of us would. Amazingly, she was ok. I'm not sure how. I can only imagine how far my sats dropped and I then did turn up the oxygen and sit until I was ok. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Babs...poetry has such a way of speaking directly to the > > > > heart, > > > > > > > > doesn't it. Your poem surely speaks of love. > > > > > > > > > I'm sorry you're having trouble sleeping. It's sooooo > > > > frustrating > > > > > > > > when we can't sleep! > > > > > > > > > Sounds like you have tried the 'usual' things. Could it > be > > a > > > > med > > > > > > > you > > > > > > > > are taking late in the day? I've never taken > Lunesta...took > > > > Ambien > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > couple years back but no more. > > > > > > > > > I started sleeping better when I started using the CPAP > > > > machine. > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > can't remember...do you have sleep apnea? > > > > > > > > > I tell myself every night that I'm going to walk a ways > in > > > the > > > > > > > > morning and every morning I do not. Mornings are my > hardest > > > part > > > > of > > > > > > > > the day. So walk later?? Yes! Why don't I??? > > > > > > > > > I know you'll keep us posted after you see the Dr. > > > > > > > > > It's still early enough for you to go walk now.....can > you > > > go > > > > > > > now? > > > > > > > > > Have a good day. > > > > > > > > > Mama-Sher, age 69. IPF 3-06, OR. > > > > > > > > > Don't fret about tomorrow, God is already there! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Off topic/kinda, but not > > > > > > > really...poem > > > > > > > > for my daughter > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Reading the posts about children made me think about > this > > > poem > > > > > > > by > > > > > > > > > e.e.cummings that I want read to my daughter, h, at > > my > > > > > > > life > > > > > > > > > celebration after I pass away. It is probably geared > more > > to > > > > > > > lovers, > > > > > > > > > but then, who loves our children more than we do? Those > > > > > > > familiar with > > > > > > > > > his work will know that I've written it out exactly as > he > > > > > > > wrote it. > > > > > > > > > When I read this I always think of how much I love my > > child, > > > > > > > and how > > > > > > > > > whenever she leaves me a part of my heart goes out the > > door > > > > > > > with her. > > > > > > > > > I once heard that having children meant living with your > > > heart > > > > > > > outside > > > > > > > > > your chest for the rest of your life. I understood this > > > fully > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > first time I was called because h had been in a > > wreck. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > i carry your heart with me ( i carry it in > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > i carry your heart with me ( i carry it in > > > > > > > > > my heart) i am never without it (anywhere > > > > > > > > > i go you go, my dear;and whatever is done > > > > > > > > > by only me is your doing, my darling) > > > > > > > > > i fear > > > > > > > > > no fate (for you are my fate, my sweet)i want > > > > > > > > > no world (for beautiful you are my world, my true) > > > > > > > > > and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant > > > > > > > > > and whatever a sun will always sing is you > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > here is the deepest secret nobody knows > > > > > > > > > (here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud > > > > > > > > > and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which > grows > > > > > > > > > higher than soul can hope or mind can hide) > > > > > > > > > and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > i carry your heart (i carry it in my heart) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > e.e.cummings > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2008 Report Share Posted March 30, 2008 SGIO Well, you are INSANE, but thats not relevant to this issue....lol I'd just recognize the risks and take any precautions that can easily be taken. That's part of what we all face, determining what risks to take and how to minimize them without giving up those things important to us. For me, vacuuming was easy to give up...lol Pest control comes monthly. It's needed but the fresh spray isn't something I want to inhale. So, when he walks in, I walk out and go run errands and things for a few hours. I always plan that day that way. I was trying to think of times I've forgotten all the rules and one comes to mind. Not long after my surgery and move, stopped by to pick up boxes I had emptied for her move. As we were carrying boxes out (me wearing oxygen), she took a shortcut and fell face down in a flower bed (within inches of concrete on two sides). I ran to check on her, forgetting any and all about my health. I'd do the same again as I think most of us would. Amazingly, she was ok. I'm not sure how. I can only imagine how far my sats dropped and I then did turn up the oxygen and sit until I was ok. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Babs...poetry has such a way of speaking directly to the > > > > heart, > > > > > > > > doesn't it. Your poem surely speaks of love. > > > > > > > > > I'm sorry you're having trouble sleeping. It's sooooo > > > > frustrating > > > > > > > > when we can't sleep! > > > > > > > > > Sounds like you have tried the 'usual' things. Could it > be > > a > > > > med > > > > > > > you > > > > > > > > are taking late in the day? I've never taken > Lunesta...took > > > > Ambien > > > > > > > a > > > > > > > > couple years back but no more. > > > > > > > > > I started sleeping better when I started using the CPAP > > > > machine. > > > > > > > I > > > > > > > > can't remember...do you have sleep apnea? > > > > > > > > > I tell myself every night that I'm going to walk a ways > in > > > the > > > > > > > > morning and every morning I do not. Mornings are my > hardest > > > part > > > > of > > > > > > > > the day. So walk later?? Yes! Why don't I??? > > > > > > > > > I know you'll keep us posted after you see the Dr. > > > > > > > > > It's still early enough for you to go walk now.....can > you > > > go > > > > > > > now? > > > > > > > > > Have a good day. > > > > > > > > > Mama-Sher, age 69. IPF 3-06, OR. > > > > > > > > > Don't fret about tomorrow, God is already there! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Off topic/kinda, but not > > > > > > > really...poem > > > > > > > > for my daughter > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Reading the posts about children made me think about > this > > > poem > > > > > > > by > > > > > > > > > e.e.cummings that I want read to my daughter, h, at > > my > > > > > > > life > > > > > > > > > celebration after I pass away. It is probably geared > more > > to > > > > > > > lovers, > > > > > > > > > but then, who loves our children more than we do? Those > > > > > > > familiar with > > > > > > > > > his work will know that I've written it out exactly as > he > > > > > > > wrote it. > > > > > > > > > When I read this I always think of how much I love my > > child, > > > > > > > and how > > > > > > > > > whenever she leaves me a part of my heart goes out the > > door > > > > > > > with her. > > > > > > > > > I once heard that having children meant living with your > > > heart > > > > > > > outside > > > > > > > > > your chest for the rest of your life. I understood this > > > fully > > > > > > > the > > > > > > > > > first time I was called because h had been in a > > wreck. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > i carry your heart with me ( i carry it in > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > i carry your heart with me ( i carry it in > > > > > > > > > my heart) i am never without it (anywhere > > > > > > > > > i go you go, my dear;and whatever is done > > > > > > > > > by only me is your doing, my darling) > > > > > > > > > i fear > > > > > > > > > no fate (for you are my fate, my sweet)i want > > > > > > > > > no world (for beautiful you are my world, my true) > > > > > > > > > and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant > > > > > > > > > and whatever a sun will always sing is you > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > here is the deepest secret nobody knows > > > > > > > > > (here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud > > > > > > > > > and the sky of the sky of a tree called life; which > grows > > > > > > > > > higher than soul can hope or mind can hide) > > > > > > > > > and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > i carry your heart (i carry it in my heart) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > e.e.cummings > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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