Guest guest Posted January 3, 2001 Report Share Posted January 3, 2001 This is so great. Here I am sitting in a little town in Germany not being able to share and be helped because the lack of my German knowledge and because the lack of openness in people but you, whom I've never seen in my life, there you are, helping me and helping others. This is really wonderful. Thank you for all your lettters and support. I have to tell you that I've learned a couple of things through the losses of my children. ONE: I've learned to live in the present! not in the past and not in the future, the PRESENT!to be happy for what I have now, and not what I could have had, or what I might have. My father used to say, (he's a great guy) that you can't reach your goal if you keep looking backwards, you'll stumble and fall. Keep your eyes ON the road. (sure, it's easy to say, but practice makes perfect) TWO: I've learned to be much more patient and to be less sensitive . I guess, because of the lack of knowledge, people sometimes seem to be elephants in a china shop. I certainly already encountered several herds of them in my china shop. And if people are insensitive just get up and leave. Nobody says that your nerves are supposed to be made of steel. And just because you are a women whose gone through hell doesn't necessarily mean that you also have to take crap from people. Move on. Ok, sorry to have gone on and on. I just wanted to share what I have learned and help the soul heal. The body will take its own route anyway, that we can't help. take care, bogi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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