Re: considering tubal reversal

February 26, 2003

Hello Mel,

I am having my reversal tomorrow morning with Dr. Levin in Louisville, KY. I

am 40, talk about biological clock, and we have 4 wonderful children. 12.5

years ago I was pressured by family and my own selfish desires to have a tubal

ligation. I regretted it soon after but resigned myself to the fact that it is

just what I was stuck with. I have mostly regretted that I took control from

God. Children are a blessing and we should have been willing to take whatever

He was to give us without controlling it. We are now ready to do that but who

knows what outcome there will be!

Emotionally I think I have suffered the most from feeling as if my womanhood had

been stolen. I am very anxious to be whole again and to know that I am back to

the original design that God intended, with the exception of missing a bit of my

fallopian tubes!

You will find wonderful, loving and helpful women on this email list!

Blessings,

Janice

TL 6/13/90

TR 2/27/03

{SPAM?} considering tubal reversal

Hi, I was just wanting to connect with some one to talk with about

TR. If you haven't had it yet or just had it done. I was just

wanting some personl insight to not only the physical aspects but the

emotional to yourself and family.

My family would think I am crazy for wanting another baby. I have 2

beautiful sons, 8 & 10 years old. I am almost 31 and I thought I

would have already done this by now. But it seems that time is

passing by at a very fast rate! I can feel my biological clock, I

have always wanted a girl, but after the birth of my second son, I

had by tubes tied. It wasn't long after I felt the regret.

Everyone, esp my Mom insisted that 2 kids were more than enough. I

have been married for 11 years to a wonderful man and father! We

have a great relationship and family life. We are not rich, but we

are comfortable in regard to out finances. I am a RN and my husband

is a teacher.

Sorry so long, just wanted to give a little background. Any info

would be greatly appreciated!

Thanks,

mel

February 26, 2003

I had instant regret when I had my tubal done, after the birth of my

daughter almost 5 yrs ago. My husband and I have talked about this

for the past 4 yrs, and are finally set to try it in Sept this year.

February 26, 2003

OMG, Mel... you sound just like me a year ago! I have 2 dds who are now 8 and

almost 11. (I just turned 32) After trying to adopt for years with many

problems, we decided to have the TR done. Everyone thought we were absolutely

out of our minds....needless to say.. they have changed their minds! We had the

TR done on April 1, 2002 and on Friday we are having a c-section to deliver our

first son..and everyone who said we are crazy(mostly my family) are just

thrilled and can't wait to meet him. It is very possible and been one of the

greatest gifts we were ever blessed with!

considering tubal reversal

Hi, I was just wanting to connect with some one to talk with about

TR. If you haven't had it yet or just had it done. I was just

wanting some personl insight to not only the physical aspects but the

emotional to yourself and family.

My family would think I am crazy for wanting another baby. I have 2

beautiful sons, 8 & 10 years old. I am almost 31 and I thought I

would have already done this by now. But it seems that time is

passing by at a very fast rate! I can feel my biological clock, I

have always wanted a girl, but after the birth of my second son, I

had by tubes tied. It wasn't long after I felt the regret.

Everyone, esp my Mom insisted that 2 kids were more than enough. I

have been married for 11 years to a wonderful man and father! We

have a great relationship and family life. We are not rich, but we

are comfortable in regard to out finances. I am a RN and my husband

is a teacher.

Sorry so long, just wanted to give a little background. Any info

would be greatly appreciated!

Thanks,

mel

February 26, 2003

Hello

I am also new to the group, so far i have read and learned a great

deal. I am hoping to get my done next month or at least sometime

before june. I have an 18 year old daughter a 9 year old son and 4

dogs I plan to be married to my highschool sweetheart on May 31.

he has 2 sons. long story short, i married my ex very young , he was

rotten to me but gave me 2 beatiful children. we divorced and i

reconnected with my HS honey via the internet (isnt it a great thing!)

and we want to have the life together that we missed out on years ago.

From what ive seen posted here, we all are so diverse, yet we have

this one want in common.

good luck to u

Laurie

> Hi, I was just wanting to connect with some one to talk with about

> TR. If you haven't had it yet or just had it done. I was just

> wanting some personl insight to not only the physical aspects but

the

> emotional to yourself and family.

> My family would think I am crazy for wanting another baby. I have

2

> beautiful sons, 8 & 10 years old. I am almost 31 and I thought I

> would have already done this by now. But it seems that time is

> passing by at a very fast rate! I can feel my biological clock, I

> have always wanted a girl, but after the birth of my second son, I

> had by tubes tied. It wasn't long after I felt the regret.

> Everyone, esp my Mom insisted that 2 kids were more than enough. I

> have been married for 11 years to a wonderful man and father! We

> have a great relationship and family life. We are not rich, but we

> are comfortable in regard to out finances. I am a RN and my

husband

> is a teacher.

> Sorry so long, just wanted to give a little background. Any info

> would be greatly appreciated!

> Thanks,

> mel

February 26, 2003