Re: Shamiso - Another Ectopic

[Guest guest]

Oh, Shamiso!!! I'm soooo sorry. I cannot believe what you are going thru!

I do hope you keep us updated on your progress. So, do you think you'll try

IVF? I hope you can. It's about time things turned around for you.

(((HUGS)))

M

>

> Hi Guys

>

> You have not heard from me in a while because a lot has been happening to me

> and i have not been able to post. I had my D & C last week Friday and the gyn

> confirmed that i had miscarried and that he had taken out the tissue. After

> the op I still had the pain on my right side and it persisted over the

> weekend. On Sunday i started bleeding again, thats when i started getting

> worried. I called my gyn first thing Monday morning and i was rushed to the

> hospital for an emergency op. Well it turns out i had an ectopic and it was

> about the size of his thumb, but it was difficult to tell how old it was. I

> was confused, hurt and cant believe this happened again. It looks like i had

> twins, one it the uterus that miscarried and another in the tube. Anyway he

> said that the chances of that tube ever working again are very slim, i guess i

> knew this, but just hearing him confirm it made it worse. If i could not

> conceive with the tube after one op what are the chances of conceiving with it

> af!

> ter another.

>

> I know now that i will only be able to conceive with an IVF, and because of

> the way i am feelin right now i will not be very active to the group. I never

> thought i would say this but i am going to unsubscibe tomorrow.

>

> I will miss you guys so much and i love you all.

>

> I wish all those that are ttc the very best and hope you will be pg SOON....I

> am sending you all baby dust. To those that are pg, i wish you a lovely pg and

> and the very best.

>

> If anyone wants to write to me privately my add is: shamisos@...

>

>

> Love you all

>

> Shamiso

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Oh Shamiso,

I am so sorry that all this has happened to you!!!! We will miss you and

when you do have your baby (and I know you will!!!) please jump back on

and let us know ok??? You have been through so much in such a short

period of time, my heart goes out to you. You are a strong woman and

will make it through this though. Take care of yourself.

Vicki

Shamiso Sithole wrote:

>

> Hi Guys

>

> You have not heard from me in a while because a lot has been happening to me

and i have not been able to post. I had my D & C last week Friday and the gyn

confirmed that i had miscarried and that he had taken out the tissue. After the

op I still had the pain on my right side and it persisted over the weekend. On

Sunday i started bleeding again, thats when i started getting worried. I called

my gyn first thing Monday morning and i was rushed to the hospital for an

emergency op. Well it turns out i had an ectopic and it was about the size of

his thumb, but it was difficult to tell how old it was. I was confused, hurt and

cant believe this happened again. It looks like i had twins, one it the uterus

that miscarried and another in the tube. Anyway he said that the chances of that

tube ever working again are very slim, i guess i knew this, but just hearing him

confirm it made it worse. If i could not conceive with the tube after one op

what are the chances of conceiving with it after another.

>

> I know now that i will only be able to conceive with an IVF, and because of

the way i am feelin right now i will not be very active to the group. I never

thought i would say this but i am going to unsubscibe tomorrow.

>

> I will miss you guys so much and i love you all.

>

> I wish all those that are ttc the very best and hope you will be pg SOON....I

am sending you all baby dust. To those that are pg, i wish you a lovely pg and

and the very best.

>

> If anyone wants to write to me privately my add is: shamisos@...

>

> Love you all

>

> Shamiso

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Shamiso,

I'm am so sorry to hear this news. I wish I could say something to

make the hurt go away, but I don't think that anything could do that

right now. I'm sad to see you leave the group too. Please come back

and join if you ever feel the need. We'll still be here. Take care

of yourself.

-Amy

[Guest guest]

Shamiso,

I'm so sorry! I can't imagine what you're going through. I'll be totally

selfish and say that I wish you wouldn't leave the group - but you have to

do what's best for you. Good luck and if you need to talk you can email me

directly at

marriaaa@...

++++++thoughts and {{{{{{hugs}}}}}

maria

Shamiso - Another Ectopic

> Hi Guys

>

> You have not heard from me in a while because a lot has been happening to

me and i have not been able to post. I had my D & C last week Friday and the

gyn confirmed that i had miscarried and that he had taken out the tissue.

After the op I still had the pain on my right side and it persisted over

the weekend. On Sunday i started bleeding again, thats when i started

getting worried. I called my gyn first thing Monday morning and i was rushed

to the hospital for an emergency op. Well it turns out i had an ectopic and

it was about the size of his thumb, but it was difficult to tell how old it

was. I was confused, hurt and cant believe this happened again. It looks

like i had twins, one it the uterus that miscarried and another in the tube.

Anyway he said that the chances of that tube ever working again are very

slim, i guess i knew this, but just hearing him confirm it made it worse. If

i could not conceive with the tube after one op what are the chances of

conceiving with it after another.

>

> I know now that i will only be able to conceive with an IVF, and because

of the way i am feelin right now i will not be very active to the group. I

never thought i would say this but i am going to unsubscibe tomorrow.

>

> I will miss you guys so much and i love you all.

>

> I wish all those that are ttc the very best and hope you will be pg

SOON....I am sending you all baby dust. To those that are pg, i wish you a

lovely pg and and the very best.

>

> If anyone wants to write to me privately my add is: shamisos@...

>

>

> Love you all

>

> Shamiso

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Shamiso,

I am sooo sorry. Word can't even express what I am feeling for you. We

will miss you but totally understand if you need to go. You and DH are in

my prayers .

lisa r

T.T.F.N.