Guest guest Posted August 24, 2009 Report Share Posted August 24, 2009 I have struggled so long with maintaining relationships with unhealthy people in my life. Unfortunately these people not only have a huge impact on my life- they are significant in my life because they are my parents and husband. The physically/emotional and mental toll these relationship have had in my life is over the top. I can't do this anymore. It is not only about boundaries- it is about saving me. I have literally become lost in these relationships- the verbal/emotional abuse and lack of boundaries had been so hard. I think there just comes a point where we have to take our life in our own hands. I am a spiritual person- and I believe that God or any other name you know him by- doesn't want us to suffer or be in pain. I believe the universe provides us with wonderful people and places like here to help us relieve that pain and provide hope. We ultimately must decide for ourselves what it means to live a more authentic life. I have chosen after so much thought, prayers and guidance of my soul to go LC with my parents and to finally divorce my husband. I just so appreciate ALL of you for helping me to remember despite our childhoods, we can survive and thrive. There were days I truly didn't think I would make it, and now all I can think about how wonderful my life is and will be. Our journeys are at different places- but our journeys are blessed with experiences that bring such gifts into our lives- all of you are wonderful gifts to my journey. Thank you, malinda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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