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Dear Donna:

I am so sorry that you got bad news about having to use a power chair.

You probably don't know me, but my name is Trish Rodrigues. I am 53 years

old , have mitochondrial myopathy, Complexes I and III, and my son has

the same, he is 28, my other son is less affected, he is 30, and has

cluster headaches .

I just wanted to tell you that I am in an electric wheelchair and it is not

as bad as you think. I know it is hard for you to take and it seems that

this is a bad thing, but really it is not. will gain independence,

will conserve his energy so he can do other things, and he will feel a sense

of security, in that he won't fall. I , too, have a J tube for feeding, and

a G tube for drainage. I, too, do a lot of vomiting . I am allowed now to

eat by mouth and what does not digest goes out into the G Tube drainage bag.

If I don't get too overwhelming tired, and drain my G tube when I feel too

bloated, then I will not vomit.

You are the first one that I have seen, other than myself that has the G

tube for drainage.

It works for me and I vomit much less.

I just want to offer my experiences with you in order that it may help you

and make you feel at ease.

Life in a wheelchair is not so bad, it is the internal things you have to

worry about. If you don't feel well internally, then you cannot get along

at all. That wheelchair is only a tool for your son to get from one place

to another. That is his legs....that is his security that he will not fall

down. A wheelchair should never be a stigma, please don't think of it as

that. Wheelchairs are good things....just think....and tell him

this..... " You are just sitting down, and the rest of us are standing

up....there is no difference between you and I.....you are just a little

shorter! " That might make him smile a bit I hope. I just tell everyone

that I am short now, but I certainly have the " power " to get around.

I know this has been bad news for you and you feel that this is just

another step downhill, please don't think of it that way. Think....

will be more independent, will be safer..... is special......He has

not gone downhill.....he has gone forward.

I hope I have helped you somewhat.

Regards,

Trish

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> Hi all,

> Had an appointment for yesterday in the Physical medicine clinic. Got

bad news we were not expecting. She recommended that we look into a power

chair for . She said he is losing strength in his arms and his legs are

still under developed. Add to that that he needs to be connected to the TPN

for 22 hrs a day is stiffling his development. He doesn't have the strength

to pull or carry the bag. This was not what we wanted to hear. She also

suggested a helmet because he falls and does not put out his arms to stop

himself. I thought this was something that could be taught. The good news

was that his gait has improved so she knows that neurologically he is

normal.Because of this he can have a power chair to develop some

independence and age appropriate skills. Learning to come when called,

crossing the street,etc. Hopefully, he will not need it very much just when

he is sick or for trips.

> Sorry to vent when it's not directly related to TPN but I figured you

could all relate to getting unexpected bad news.

> We plan on going to the Oley Conference also with wildman in tow.

> Trying to convinve our nurse to come on our trip to Disney World this

summer.

> Question for a recent post- those of you who have children on gtube

straight drain do they still vomit? If so how much? has taken to

vomiting almost everyday. This had never been an issue before.

>

> Donna mom to 29 months on TPN due to mito complex1

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God do I know how you feel. I had some ob stick a wooded thing into

my uterus and basically tell me I am hopeless. I am so stressed I

can't even tell you. I won't give up and neither should you. Talk

to every doctor you can until someone will listen and try to help.

THere are to many success stories on this board. I post them and

reread them when I am down.

S.

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Hi everybody sorry it has been such a long time but I have been in hell. Last week I had a laparscopy to drain a bllod filled cyst. Sounds pretty easy well that wasn't the case. It was 4 days after surgey and I just wasn't feeling well. I was pale and sweaty and was having horrible pain in my side and leg. I called the doc who did the surgery and he brushed me off saying it was nothing and to drink alot of fluids and to take tynenol for the pain. The only problem was the pain got so bad that it kept me up all night it was awful. This went on for days and my doctor wouldn't run any test or give me anything for the pain. Finally yesterday I went to the emergency room. Come to find out i was bleeding internally. I had a clot of blood the size of my hand just sitting on top of my blaader. The ER doc said my doc probaly nicked a blood vesel during surgery and it has slowly been bleeding since. He kept me in the hispital for a while on demerol and monitered me. My doc who did the surgery was out of town so the let me leave but said if I felt faint or was in worse pain to call 911.

Im a lucky i feel and so mad at that stupid doc for brushing me off all week while i suffered. He is also the one that gave me Ahermans. Mon I am going to find a new obgyn since I already have a good RE. I cannot wait to sue this doc the lawyer said all this crap will really help are case.

i was just reading your email you shlold run from that doc and don't stop till you find a good one there out there. Sorry you had such bad luck and I hope your feeling better. I would still really love to here from you!

Thank you all for letting me unload. It nice to know thet you all care.

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Kelli,

I'm sorry to read of your cycle being cancelled. Isnt' it strange how all these women who eventually get their linings increased, have some other factor in the way to allow them to have their baby. I've always had some funny feeling that maybe there is some correlation between the estrogen or progesterone we take and bad eggs. I believe you are only 33 years old right? Your eggs should not be old at that young age.

Also, I have one thought about your surrogate that has no children. I've always thought that I may try to do surrogacy but one of the things I wanted from a surrogate would be that she has her own children. I guess this is a very selfish feeling that I have but I feel that if she does not have any children then she would not know what to expect when giving birth in terms of feelings and may not give me my baby if she is overwhealmed with motherhood feelings once she gave birth. My 2 cents.

Poly

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