Oh for Crying out Loud, What the heck is wrong with people. 's schooling

August 14, 2002

I " m sorry I'm still a bit steamed. I'm down at my dad's today because

I had an perinatologist appointment. I just called home to see how

everything was going and Mark read me 's notebook from school.

They are changing his teacher and room in 2 weeks.. I only know this

because his teacher said she'd miss him. What the hell do they think

they are doing? Why wasn't I told by the school this was going to

happen. Yes my personal life and the fact that I've now spent 3 days

in the hospital and might have to spend more time in or at least down

here visiting the specialists does effect sean. Now in 2 weeks

without warning to him or me they are going to do this huge transition

with him. Trust me this is going to be hell on earth. Not only is his

momma not able to be his mommma the way he's use too, but now school

is changing also with no notice and no help with transistion. I " m

really ticked about that. I can't in good thought put him on that

bus in 2 weeks knowing what he is going to go through. When they try

and take him in a diffrent direction he's going to flip. He's going

to have an all out breakdown. I know this for a fact.

Oh I " m so upset. I don't need this now. I'm sick and need to take it

super easy to save this little one and myself from early birth and I

now aggrevated beyond repair.

Love

August 14, 2002

Oh !!!

>>I can't in good thought put him on that

bus in 2 weeks knowing what he is going to go through. When they try

and take him in a diffrent direction he's going to flip. He's going

to have an all out breakdown. I know this for a fact.

What happens if you tell the school that?

What happens if you tell them you need more time to help him transition?

Can they start transitioning him now?

(You don't need to answer these questions; they not for me to know but for

you to think about what to do.)

>>Oh I " m so upset. I don't need this now. I'm sick and need to take it

super easy to save this little one and myself from early birth and I

now aggrevated beyond repair.

Oh no oh no oh no. ((

Cry on the nurses, it's one of the many many things they're there for. Ask

them for something to help you calm down, if you really need it. At least

get a cup of hot tea! They may not understand autism but they will

understand that you're upset and they will do what they can for you and your

little one.

Thinking of and praying for you.

-Sara.

August 14, 2002

: I hope things work out with the school.

What is their reasoning behind moving him to a

different classroom? Could you get them to wait until

you are able to be more there for him? Sorry!

Take care of yourself and the little one.....

Tamara

--- hrajnert wrote:

> I " m sorry I'm still a bit steamed. I'm down at my

> dad's today because

> I had an perinatologist appointment. I just called

> home to see how

> everything was going and Mark read me 's

> notebook from school.

> They are changing his teacher and room in 2 weeks..

> I only know this

> because his teacher said she'd miss him. What the

> hell do they think

> they are doing? Why wasn't I told by the school

> this was going to

> happen. Yes my personal life and the fact that I've

> now spent 3 days

> in the hospital and might have to spend more time in

> or at least down

> here visiting the specialists does effect sean. Now

> in 2 weeks

> without warning to him or me they are going to do

> this huge transition

> with him. Trust me this is going to be hell on

> earth. Not only is his

> momma not able to be his mommma the way he's use

> too, but now school

> is changing also with no notice and no help with

> transistion. I " m

> really ticked about that. I can't in good thought

> put him on that

> bus in 2 weeks knowing what he is going to go

> through. When they try

> and take him in a diffrent direction he's going to

> flip. He's going

> to have an all out breakdown. I know this for a

> fact.

>

> Oh I " m so upset. I don't need this now. I'm sick and

> need to take it

> super easy to save this little one and myself from

> early birth and I

> now aggrevated beyond repair.

>

> Love

>

=====

Tamara

mom to :

Ebony, 4 yrs -- asd, ADHD, bi-polar

, 1 year

wife to:

Terry, love of my life

__________________________________________________

August 14, 2002

> What is their reasoning behind moving him to a

> different classroom?

I'm not sure. I didn't even know they were moving him till today. In

his notebook is a note from his teacher saying how much she will miss

him because he will not be in his room when he goes back in two weeks.

I had no prior knowledge to this. I will call them tomorrow and ask

for some answers. Why is it that 2 days before the summer session ends

was I not made aware of the fact that when he goes back in september

he'll be going through a huge transition. I just know he won't handle

it well.

This poor kids has broken out in a rash from the stress of what's

going on at home. You know he acts like he doesn't notice but then

things like this and the geographic tongue acts up, so then I know

he's stressed.

I'm able to be home for him now ,which is great. My dad is coming up

daily to watch the boys, at least for this week and next. After that

I haven't figured that much out. School starts in 2 weeks so If I can

get through this period then I think we'll be great. If nothing

happens we are only talking 7 more weeks if I start passing protein or

the babies scores go down then they will take her between 36 and 37

weeks. At least that's what we were told today.

I go back to the perinatologist in two weeks and my regular ob weekly

for urine, ultrasound and NST till this little one arrives safe and

sound. I'm going to drown in medical bills.

I feel horrible because this is haveing an effect on . I was super

lucky he was in school last week when I was in the hospital. He never

really knew I was gone till the day he came to get me with Mark.

I just don't want any undue stress for him when I can't be there to

help.

Thanks

August 14, 2002

Oh, ,

That's unbelievable. I'm so sorry -- you've got too much to deal with

already.

They should have been prepping him (and you) for this.

Sissi

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http://www.isoa.net/~nitetrax/dillon.htm

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http://www.isoa.net/~nitetrax/bart.htm

August 15, 2002

,

I'd tell them now that they had better start transitioning him immediately

or they had better wait to move him!

Sue

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August 16, 2002

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Is there any way you can contact an advocate to go to the school and help

you out with this one?

The school needs to call an IEP in order to make these changes. He MUST be

transitioned correctly. Someone needs to call the school and tell them you

need an emergency IEP to transition, OR keep him where he is.

Is he moving grades???

Penny

August 21, 2002

Oh, !! I wish I had something important and inspiring to say, but I

don't!! Hopefully, the school will be reasonable, and work something out!! Keep

us updated, and good luck with all the docs!! I hope you get home soon!!

" It is a curious thought, but it is only when you see people looking ridiculous

that you realize just how much you love them. "

- Agatha Christie

, frazzled mom to:

, PDD-NOS, ADHD, Mixed Expressive/Receptive Language Disorder, 4

, NT, Terrible Twos, but adorable none-the-less, 2

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