Guest guest Posted August 22, 2002 Report Share Posted August 22, 2002 Danny has been doing much better since and I have started to reconcile it was really cute the other night when we were out playing in the yard. Danny said that Papa and him matched (because they are boys) and the Mama and Danny didn't match (because we are boy and girl) but then he said Mama and Papa match and then he added Mama, Papa and Danny match ..... Forever. Now you can't tell me that kid wasn't stressed while we were in the I hate you stage of our relationship (hubby and I). I didn't realized how much he was affected. I guess I know now. I am so sorry that I put him through that. Sharon - Mom to Danny (4) Aspergers, Motor Apraxia, Hyperlexia Sensory Integration Dysfunction Yorkville, IL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2002 Report Share Posted August 22, 2002 im so happy for your family...it sounds like things are really getting good again!!! what a cutie that danny is!!! i guess we don't realize what these kids actually go thru...most times im not sure what me and jenna's dad being broke up is doing to her....nancy (who is very happy for you...but feeling alittle jealous, wishing our family could do the same : ( -- - In parenting_autism@y..., " Sharon " <slsimmons1@m...> wrote: > Danny has been doing much better since and I have started to reconcile it was really cute the other night when we were out playing in the yard. Danny said that Papa and him matched (because they are boys) and the Mama and Danny didn't match (because we are boy and girl) but then he said Mama and Papa match and then he added Mama, Papa and Danny match ..... Forever. > > Now you can't tell me that kid wasn't stressed while we were in the I hate you stage of our relationship (hubby and I). I didn't realized how much he was affected. I guess I know now. I am so sorry that I put him through that. > > > Sharon - Mom to Danny (4) > Aspergers, Motor Apraxia, Hyperlexia > Sensory Integration Dysfunction > Yorkville, IL > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2002 Report Share Posted August 22, 2002 > Now you can't tell me that kid wasn't stressed while we were in the I hate you stage of our relationship (hubby and I). I didn't realized how much he was affected. I guess I know now. I am so sorry that I put him through that. > Sharon, try not to think of it as you putting him through that. You and had issues you NEEDED to deal with -- and had you not gone through all that you did, the three of you wouldn't be in this hopeful and wonderful place you are now. If you HADN'T made the moves toward divorce, instead laying low for the sake of Danny, then things would have just festered and gotten worse for all of you, not better. That period of hell was indeed hell on ALL of you -- but you NEEDED to go through it to get where you are now. Don't be sorry for what happened -- be glad that it brought you to a place where your son is so happy!!!!!!!!!!! Jacquie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2002 Report Share Posted August 22, 2002 Thanks Jacquie I just tend to take the blame for everything and I was the one who started the divorce proceedings. Sharon Re: Out of the mouths of Babe > Now you can't tell me that kid wasn't stressed while we were in the I hate you stage of our relationship (hubby and I). I didn't realized how much he was affected. I guess I know now. I am so sorry that I put him through that. > Sharon, try not to think of it as you putting him through that. You and had issues you NEEDED to deal with -- and had you not gone through all that you did, the three of you wouldn't be in this hopeful and wonderful place you are now. If you HADN'T made the moves toward divorce, instead laying low for the sake of Danny, then things would have just festered and gotten worse for all of you, not better. That period of hell was indeed hell on ALL of you -- but you NEEDED to go through it to get where you are now. Don't be sorry for what happened -- be glad that it brought you to a place where your son is so happy!!!!!!!!!!! Jacquie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2002 Report Share Posted August 22, 2002 I wish you and your family could be as fortunate as mine is. is trying very hard to understand how I got in the position I did. He is still having trouble with the high school sweetheart in the picture but he is trying to understand. We start marriage counseling in September so maybe that will help us even more. Sharon Re: Out of the mouths of Babe im so happy for your family...it sounds like things are really getting good again!!! what a cutie that danny is!!! i guess we don't realize what these kids actually go thru...most times im not sure what me and jenna's dad being broke up is doing to her....nancy (who is very happy for you...but feeling alittle jealous, wishing our family could do the same : ( -- - In parenting_autism@y..., " Sharon " <slsimmons1@m...> wrote: > Danny has been doing much better since and I have started to reconcile it was really cute the other night when we were out playing in the yard. Danny said that Papa and him matched (because they are boys) and the Mama and Danny didn't match (because we are boy and girl) but then he said Mama and Papa match and then he added Mama, Papa and Danny match ..... Forever. > > Now you can't tell me that kid wasn't stressed while we were in the I hate you stage of our relationship (hubby and I). I didn't realized how much he was affected. I guess I know now. I am so sorry that I put him through that. > > > Sharon - Mom to Danny (4) > Aspergers, Motor Apraxia, Hyperlexia > Sensory Integration Dysfunction > Yorkville, IL > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2002 Report Share Posted August 22, 2002 > Danny has been doing much better since and I have started to reconcile it was really cute the other night when we were out playing in the yard. Danny said that Papa and him matched (because they are boys) and the Mama and Danny didn't match (because we are boy and girl) but then he said Mama and Papa match and then he added Mama, Papa and Danny match ..... Forever. > > Now you can't tell me that kid wasn't stressed while we were in the I hate you stage of our relationship (hubby and I). I didn't realized how much he was affected. I guess I know now. I am so sorry that I put him through that. > > > Sharon - Mom to Danny (4) Wow - that's great. Now I have to go back and look for that reconciliation post. Wow - I missed a lot!!! Kerri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2002 Report Share Posted August 22, 2002 Wow, that almost made me cry. That is so sweet. maybe what you went through helped Danny appreicate the two of you more!? Maybe??? Tina W. >>>>>Mama and Papa match and then he added Mama, Papa and Danny match ..... Forever.<<<<<<<< > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2002 Report Share Posted August 22, 2002 Oh, Sharon!!! Don't feel to awful!!! You didn't do it intentionally!!! Danny will be fine...as he has so cleverly demonstrated!!! " It is a curious thought, but it is only when you see people looking ridiculous that you realize just how much you love them. " - Agatha Christie , frazzled mom to: , PDD-NOS, ADHD, Mixed Expressive/Receptive Language Disorder, 4 , NT, Terrible Twos, but adorable none-the-less, 2 Out of the mouths of Babe Danny has been doing much better since and I have started to reconcile it was really cute the other night when we were out playing in the yard. Danny said that Papa and him matched (because they are boys) and the Mama and Danny didn't match (because we are boy and girl) but then he said Mama and Papa match and then he added Mama, Papa and Danny match ..... Forever. Now you can't tell me that kid wasn't stressed while we were in the I hate you stage of our relationship (hubby and I). I didn't realized how much he was affected. I guess I know now. I am so sorry that I put him through that. Sharon - Mom to Danny (4) Aspergers, Motor Apraxia, Hyperlexia Sensory Integration Dysfunction Yorkville, IL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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