What do we do about our Children asking after Nada?

[Guest guest]

Tonight for the first time my 7 year ols daughter asked why her Nanny hadn't

been ringing and begged me to ring her with tears to see she was alright. I

nearly gave in to her but my husband stopped me. We have had LC and Nada is

giving me the silent treatment after me setting some boundries. I know my Nada

would be just be thrilled that her grandchild was upset about no contact lately.

I feel guity keeping my daughter from talking to her and ringing as it looks

like it is me using her to make contact again and give in to the games.

Has anyone found this difficult with their younger children that have trouble

understanding? I told my daughter that Nanny isn't feeling too well at the

moment and needs some space and we will still see her at xmas and hopefully she

will be feeling better.

Kazam