Guest guest Posted May 3, 2008 Report Share Posted May 3, 2008 Becky, I am ao sad to hear and FEEL your pain. I know these days are tough and trying to search for the reason why only seems to make it worse. I know how you feel about feeling bad for your husband. I have and have had the very same thoughts when it comes to mine. He also has to jump in as " mom " to our children when things go haywire with me. I have asked him what can I do to make this up to him and his reply is always, just rest and try to feel better. I give him all the respect that I have for a man and I feel the same for your husband. You are truly blessed to have him. He cares, he worries, and he helps you find your peace. Give him a big hug and accept his back and you will feel so much better. Call your Doctor and let him know what is going on PLEASE! A flare up is an indication and THIS is when he need to see you, like this, in pain and unable to move. I always made a point of making it in on my worst days so that everything was visually evident. I wish you the best and send you a warm, gentle hug! Oh and yes, it is okay to vent, it is what were are " hear " for ya know!? Sincerely, Janeene Becky wrote: I have been in so much pain the last week. It hurts to sit, and when I did anything, I could not get the pain out of my back. I hurt so bad and do not know what cause the pain to flare up, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 3, 2008 Report Share Posted May 3, 2008 Hi Becky, I am so very sorry you are in so much pain! It's ok to vent, that's one of the reasons we are here. My husband also feels powerless when I end up in so much pain I can barely handle it. My doctor made me start walking with my cane again. I don't want to, but I will listen. Sometimes anyway, ha ha. I really hope and pray your pain eases up soon! Love, Becky in SD Becky wrote: I have been in so much pain the last week. I am still new to this group, so I hope I am ok venting about this. I feel for my husband when I'm like this, because he just feels powerless over it. --------------------------------- Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 3, 2008 Report Share Posted May 3, 2008 > > I have been in so much pain the last week. It hurts to sit, and when I > did anything, I could not get the pain out of my back. I hurt so bad and > do not know what cause the pain to flare up, but it did. I checked my > meds and did not find any that I have missed. But, I am unable to sit > here with no pain. > > >Becky I feel so bad for you and feel your pain. This is the best place to vent because we will listen. Even my husband is helpless when I'm in pain like you, so your not alone. What is wrong with you back? I would check in with your doctor is these medications are not working for you during your worse level of pain. Good luck and hope for pain free days. Toni Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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