- Re: hurtful comments discussion

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Well thank you, bowing and blushing. LOL actually I'm pretty darn

proud and greatful for my hubby.

> Hi ,

>

> What a wonderful posting. Isn't it soooooooooooooo true. How we

feel about ourselves influences other people too and, in turn, how

they see us. What a wonderful 'new ' story to read - you are

an inspiration to us all.

>

> Cheers,

>

> Marie

> -----Oorspronkelijk bericht-----

> Van: allison19752001 <trautmanfamily@s...>

> Aan: weightlossbuddies2

<weightlossbuddies2 >

> Datum: dinsdag 25 maart 2003 20:45

> Onderwerp: hurtful comments discussion

>

>

> Remember we were talking about DH's insensitive comments and how

they

> keep digging themselves deeper. Well I had a conversation this

> weekend with my hubby and it kinda went like this:

>

> Terrill keeps telling me all day he can't keep his hands off me.

I

> said " careful, you're in dangerous comment land because it sounds

> like i looked like crap before " and he told me it has nothing to

do

> with the weight. It's my new attitude. Smiling more, more

positive,

> more confident and more daring (like jumping in the shower with

him

> with the lights on). He said the lost weight is just a bonus,

but

> he'll take the changed attitude anyday! I thought that was pretty

> nice and I thought it was a well put comment that maybe some of

our

> dh's might actually be getting at.

>

> Hugs,

>

>

>

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