- Re: hurtful comments discussion

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Hi ,

What a wonderful posting. Isn't it soooooooooooooo true. How we feel about

ourselves influences other people too and, in turn, how they see us. What a

wonderful 'new ' story to read - you are an inspiration to us all.

Cheers,

Marie

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Van: allison19752001

Aan: weightlossbuddies2 <weightlossbuddies2 >

Datum: dinsdag 25 maart 2003 20:45

Onderwerp: hurtful comments discussion

Remember we were talking about DH's insensitive comments and how they

keep digging themselves deeper. Well I had a conversation this

weekend with my hubby and it kinda went like this:

Terrill keeps telling me all day he can't keep his hands off me. I

said " careful, you're in dangerous comment land because it sounds

like i looked like crap before " and he told me it has nothing to do

with the weight. It's my new attitude. Smiling more, more positive,

more confident and more daring (like jumping in the shower with him

with the lights on). He said the lost weight is just a bonus, but

he'll take the changed attitude anyday! I thought that was pretty

nice and I thought it was a well put comment that maybe some of our

dh's might actually be getting at.

Hugs,