Guest guest Posted March 17, 2003 Report Share Posted March 17, 2003 sorry to be a downer again tonight yall but i just feel like my heart is literally shattered. a very close friend of mine that i worked with (indirectly) died sunday nite very suddenly. went on vacation w/ his girlfriend and just dropped dead. it doesnt even feel real. i just....feel like i have a gaping hole inside me now and i haaaattttteeeeeee it. terry is (was?) such a great guy and i just love him so much. ugh i just want to screeaaaaaammm but i know it wont make the hurt go away. off to bed....5am comes early and its a school day shan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2003 Report Share Posted March 18, 2003 Oh, Shan, I'm so sorry. There are no words at a time like this to make the pain go away. ((((((Hugs)))))) You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. TTYL, D. in Dallas lisa@... " The man who removes a mountain begins by carrying away small stones. " -- Chinese Proverb -----Original Message----- From: girlnamedshannon@... sorry to be a downer again tonight yall but i just feel like my heart is literally shattered. a very close friend of mine that i worked with (indirectly) died sunday nite very suddenly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2003 Report Share Posted March 18, 2003 I' m sorry, Shan. TIme heals all wounds---you will be in my prayers. DEE ALL 4 E.f.P.E. (ELVIS fans PROTECTING ELVIS) GOD LOVES YOU!! my heart hurts sorry to be a downer again tonight yall but i just feel like my heart is literally shattered. a very close friend of mine that i worked with (indirectly) died sunday nite very suddenly. went on vacation w/ his girlfriend and just dropped dead. it doesnt even feel real. i just....feel like i have a gaping hole inside me now and i haaaattttteeeeeee it. terry is (was?) such a great guy and i just love him so much. ugh i just want to screeaaaaaammm but i know it wont make the hurt go away. off to bed....5am comes early and its a school day shan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2003 Report Share Posted March 18, 2003 shan, I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend. It's just not fair. Scream because it might make you feel better. Hugs, > sorry to be a downer again tonight yall but i just feel like my heart is > literally shattered. a very close friend of mine that i worked with > (indirectly) died sunday nite very suddenly. went on vacation w/ his > girlfriend and just dropped dead. it doesnt even feel real. > > i just....feel like i have a gaping hole inside me now and i > haaaattttteeeeeee it. terry is (was?) such a great guy and i just love him so > much. > > ugh i just want to screeaaaaaammm but i know it wont make the hurt go away. > > off to bed....5am comes early and its a school day > > shan > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2003 Report Share Posted March 18, 2003 Shan, You are in my thoughts today. I wish you the strength to cope with everything that is troubling you at the moment. It just doesn't seem fair that so much is being heaped on you all at once. I can quite imagine that it doesn't seem real or possible just yet. I imagine that Terry was a fairly young person and that his death was totally unexpected. He clearly meant so much to you and I can imagine that his loss leaves a gaping hole in your life. Take time to grieve for him and don't try to hide the hurt and pain. We all know how repressed feelings can cause us even more pain later. Allow yourself to grieve, to cry, to wonder 'why Terry' and ponder the unfairness of it all. There are so many unanswered questions right now. After the initial pain, emptiness, shock and disbelief have worn off try to remember what a positive contribution he made to your life and to others he toughed with his personality. Do also take time though to celebrate his life and to enjoy the wonderful memories he has left. Of course it is a difficult time for you and no-one would try to pretend otherwise but someday soon you will be able to look back with gratitude and fondness, remembering all the happiness he brought you. Hugs, Marie -----Oorspronkelijk bericht----- Van: girlnamedshannon@... Aan: weightlossbuddies2 <weightlossbuddies2 > CC: friendsanddepression <friendsanddepression > Datum: dinsdag 18 maart 2003 8:02 Onderwerp: my heart hurts sorry to be a downer again tonight yall but i just feel like my heart is literally shattered. a very close friend of mine that i worked with (indirectly) died sunday nite very suddenly. went on vacation w/ his girlfriend and just dropped dead. it doesnt even feel real. i just....feel like i have a gaping hole inside me now and i haaaattttteeeeeee it. terry is (was?) such a great guy and i just love him so much. ugh i just want to screeaaaaaammm but i know it wont make the hurt go away. off to bed....5am comes early and its a school day shan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2003 Report Share Posted March 18, 2003 > sorry to be a downer again tonight yall but i just feel like my heart is > literally shattered. a very close friend of mine that i worked with > (indirectly) died sunday nite very suddenly. went on vacation w/ his > girlfriend and just dropped dead. it doesnt even feel real. > > i just....feel like i have a gaping hole inside me now and i > haaaattttteeeeeee it. terry is (was?) such a great guy and i just love him so > much. > > ugh i just want to screeaaaaaammm but i know it wont make the hurt go away. > > off to bed....5am comes early and its a school day > > shan > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2003 Report Share Posted March 18, 2003 Shan, I am so sorry to hear, It hurts loosing people we care about. I lost 2 uncles last year one in Jan and one in Oct one to cancer and the other VERY unexpectedly, he was even told he'd be fine and will be able to go home from the hospital in a day or 2. (he went in thought he had a heart attack, turns out he had blood clots on his lungs and in his heart). We also almost lost my grandmother a few weeks ago, she was pretty much *on* her deathbed...but she miraculously pulled through. I know where you are right now and it's not a fun place to be. *hugs* we are here to help you, just remember you have friends in us! and though it doesnt seem like it, things WILL get better. me > sorry to be a downer again tonight yall but i just feel like my heart is > literally shattered. a very close friend of mine that i worked with > (indirectly) died sunday nite very suddenly. went on vacation w/ his > girlfriend and just dropped dead. it doesnt even feel real. > > i just....feel like i have a gaping hole inside me now and i > haaaattttteeeeeee it. terry is (was?) such a great guy and i just love him so > much. > > ugh i just want to screeaaaaaammm but i know it wont make the hurt go away. > > off to bed....5am comes early and its a school day > > shan > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2003 Report Share Posted March 18, 2003 my sincere sympathies are with you and i'll be thinking about you. remember you are not alone. we're all here for you for whatever you need. grieving is part of the process but be sure to remember all the good times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 18, 2003 Report Share Posted March 18, 2003 I'm so sorry for your loss Shan. my heart hurts sorry to be a downer again tonight yall but i just feel like my heart is literally shattered. a very close friend of mine that i worked with (indirectly) died sunday nite very suddenly. went on vacation w/ his girlfriend and just dropped dead. it doesnt even feel real. i just....feel like i have a gaping hole inside me now and i haaaattttteeeeeee it. terry is (was?) such a great guy and i just love him so much. ugh i just want to screeaaaaaammm but i know it wont make the hurt go away. off to bed....5am comes early and its a school day shan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2003 Report Share Posted March 19, 2003 Shan Sweetheart, I'm sooooo sorry to hear about your friends passing. I understand your heart hurting, you have had to go through so much lately, I feel for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Take care Sweetie, We love you. ((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))) Sue oxox __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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