Guest guest Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 Michele, I am so glad the visit went so well. I am sure the evaluation will provide countless ideas and strategies to help Aubrie at school. With their evaluation and a receptive team at home, a lot of good can happen! Kim > > Ok-- I'm going to try to tell you about our visit. I have some kind of > head cold with dizziness that is interfering with my typing. We had > such a great time that I hate to tell you about it when I'm not feeling > that enthusiasm -- but I can't stand waiting to feel better! > > We arrived on Monday afternoon, met Underwood (the eval team > spvr), and went to our house. The guest houses were not available so we > stayed in a beautiful home that will soon be home to the president of > the school. It was in a bit of disarray as they prepare to remodel or > whatever, but it was comfortable and relaxing to have it all to ourselves. > > Monday night we went for dinner with Bonnie and Patty. Oh, my -- I > can't even describe it! Patty is as wonderful as I remember her- and > Bonnie -- well-- she's definitely a kindred spirit. Patty and Aubrie > sat together in the backseat and in the booth at the restaurant. They > could be twins 13 years removed. For me, I wanted to cry with joy at > seeing my daughter fast-forward 13 years. After all that time in > infancy of worry and concern at not having a vision of her future, there > it was -- right before my eyes. And it's definitely a future I can look > forward to and rejoice in. For Bonnie, she wanted to cry at feeling > brought back in time to Patty's childhood. It was a wonderful > experience for us all, I think. > > One funny thing -- during dinner Patty was telling us something. Then > Aubrie asks me, " Mom, why does she have that voice? " . Apparently, > Aubrie doesn't have a clue that her voice is different as well. I > explained that Patty's voice was hers all grown up! > > Aubrie had noticed all the white canes at Perkins right away. Then > Patty used hers to walk from the car into the restaurant and Aubrie was > able to see first hand how it can help a person to manage without having > to hold mommy's hand -- fine for a 6-yr-old but not so great at 20. > > My only regret is that I didn't get a picture of the girls together that > night. Sorry Patty, I'm old enough that you'll always be " the girls " to > me even when you're Kay's age!! (Smile, Kay!) > > Tuesday was nonstop evals for Aubrie. As usual, she came through with > flying colors living up to my expectations. She kept at it all day > without complaint -- enjoying the attention and giving it her best > effort. Every professional was wonderful. I was talking with Martha > (the DB program spvr) later about how great everyone is. Apparently > they screen well in the hiring process to get folks who are there for > the children -- and it shows when you are there. Everyone was pleasant > and cheerful and exceptionally caring to the children. Each child is > truly valued for who they are. > > I wish every parent of the resident children could be a fly on the wall > and see what I saw. The kids arrived for breakfast dressed as cute as > their moms would have dressed them. The staff would gush over them, > " Oh, aren't you so pretty today!! " and " Oh, you're in such a good mood > today! " , etc. If a child didn't like what was served for a meal, there > was always a supply of favorites on hand to substitute. Each child has > their own space -- chair, utensils, whatever they need. And when a > newcomer walks into a room, the first question is what you need to join > in -- special chair, whatever. We didn't see the sleeping areas, but we > had meals in the dining area and visited in the family room one evening > as well. I was impressed with the cleanliness too. I mean, it's > institutional (things labeled etc) but it still has a family feel to it > -- as much as you can within the confines of a residential institution. > > Oh, and the " cottages " -- nothing cottage-like at all! The campus is > like an ivy-league college! Beautiful stone buildings, rich woodwork, > gorgeous landscaping, etc. Of course, Aubrie has amazing karma so we > were there during wonderful fall weather. Warm enough to enjoy the > sunshine but cool enough to not overheat as we would have in the > summer. We were able to walk everywhere easily. And what other kid > just happens to be there for the annual " Fun Day " ?? > > On Wed, we had more evals til noon and then joined in the festivities > for the afternoon. It was a huge carnival with food, music, pony rides, > petting zoo, etc. Aubrie had spent an hour on Tues afternoon in the > elementary DB classroom so we hung out with those kids for the fest. > Aubrie felt right at home with her new friends. " A CHARGE classroom, > Mom!! " The teacher was delightful -- of course! As soon as that was > over, it was time to head to the train. We were lucky to have a ride > with Bonnie again for a bit for time together. Unfortunately, there > wasn't time for Bonnie to leave work, go back home for Patty, and still > get to us again so we missed out on Patty that day. > > Ok, so it was great fun. But what about the evals? We talked with each > specialist as we went along. Plus we had ongoing conversations with Pam > and Martha to try to combine all the info together. I didn't take notes > so now I need to try to recall everything to discuss with Aubrie's > school team until we get the report in a few months. The Perkins team > met on Friday but I haven't had a chance to call to get the update on > that yet. After Boston, we went directly to CT for a wedding. That was > a whirlwind of nonstop fun and catching up with DJ's extended family so > Perkins seems like it happened a year ago! > > Let's see if I can think out loud and recall the major highlights of the > evals-- > PT-- 1) They couldn't do too much due to the recent hip surgery. But > they suggested kinsethetic taping for Aubrie's shoulders. I need to > look it up on the 'net and find a practitioner near us. It's a new > therapy from Japan that uses tape placed strategically on the muscles to > stimulate the contraction you need for improvement. The tape is left > on a week at a time for several weeks. It could help strengthen > Aubrie's shoulders. And I think I could use it for improved posture! > 2) They use lycra skirts for hip stability. The skirt is worn for an > hour or so a day. It's like a tube skirt that gives proprioceptive > feedback to the whole hip joint as well as providing and promoting > stability and proper alignment. It's something I can make at home with > the right instructions. > OT -- 1) They did an eval and found that Aubrie is lacking some of the > basic pre-writing skills. So we need to back up and work on those basic > strokes (diagonal line, box, etc) before continuing with letter > writing. They agreed with continuing with HWOT but I think we need to > use the full curriculum rather than just haphazardly using the materials. > Speech -- Did 2 sessions of full eval which we don't have results of yet. > O & M -- was able to do limited work given that Aubrie can't get around > independently yet. > Pam's Psych -- results of 2 sessions of testing to come later... > Tech -- suggested use of Intellikeys rather than the traditional > keyboard we were going to use plus Clicker4 for wordprocessing. > Suggested traditional keyboarding instruction later. > Audio -- agreed that bone conduction may be a good option and we should > explore that. > Sign language -- we all agreed that it would be a good thing, but not so > critical as to upset the world by demanding it in the IEP. A thought > was to develop a sign language club with Aubrie, friends, and others > from the community. We have a deaf high schooler who could be a > facilitator. > General -- a general thought that will help us was to really break down > the purpose of each activity. For example, we have spelling, > handwriting, and computers all interrealated. For spelling, the goal is > to spell the words which can probably be best met with oral testing. > For handwriting, take it back to the basics and start over. For > computers, we have two goals -- school work and creative > writing/literacy exploration. For school work, intellikeys can help to > get the worksheets etc done by computer. For creative writing, Clicker4 > helps to write easily and keep the creative thoughts flowing. We > thought we were breaking down the purposes, but I think we have to get > even more elemental than we were doing. > > Enough already! I'm sure there's more to say. You know me... I really > could go on forever. Later... > > Michele W > Aubrie's mom 6 yrs > > > > > > > > > Membership of this email support groups does not constitute membership in the > CHARGE Syndrome Foundation. > For information about the CHARGE Syndrome > Foundation or to become a member (and get the newsletter) > please contact marion@... or visit > the CHARGE Syndrome Foundation web page > at http://www.chargesyndrome.org > 7th International > CHARGE Syndrome Conference, Miami Beach, Florida, July 22-24, 2005. > Information will be available at our website > www.chargesyndrome.org or by calling 1-. In Canada, you may > contact CHARGE Syndrome Canada at 1- (families), visit > www.chargesyndrome.ca, or email info@.... Thank you! > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 13, 2004 Report Share Posted October 13, 2004 Michele, Oh my. I don't know how to say what my heart wants to. I think you know without my words. I do have a video of when Patty was about 4 or 5. It would give you chills if you saw it. What amazes me the most is that although Patty and Aubrie are from different families, different experiences, different lives, our two girls are more similar than Patty is to her own sister. And by that I don't mean just physically either. They have the same mannerisms, same likes/dislikes, same sense of humor, same intuition of people, and same joy. And- I did see myself in you. I saw my emotions and feelings when Patty was such a young girl. Don't worry. Aubrie is as determined as Patty. She'll make it. The two of you are amazing and special people. It was an honor. I just wish we had more time and that Patty could have somehow made it to you. BUT !!! We will be out to Illinois soon I hope! Thanks for the fun. Bonnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 Wow, Sounds like a wonderful trip all around. I know how Bonnie feels " looking back " I felt that way at the last conference. Glad things are going so well for Aubrie. Lynn perkins visit -- long Ok-- I'm going to try to tell you about our visit. I have some kind of head cold with dizziness that is interfering with my typing. We had such a great time that I hate to tell you about it when I'm not feeling that enthusiasm -- but I can't stand waiting to feel better! We arrived on Monday afternoon, met Underwood (the eval team spvr), and went to our house. The guest houses were not available so we stayed in a beautiful home that will soon be home to the president of the school. It was in a bit of disarray as they prepare to remodel or whatever, but it was comfortable and relaxing to have it all to ourselves. Monday night we went for dinner with Bonnie and Patty. Oh, my -- I can't even describe it! Patty is as wonderful as I remember her- and Bonnie -- well-- she's definitely a kindred spirit. Patty and Aubrie sat together in the backseat and in the booth at the restaurant. They could be twins 13 years removed. For me, I wanted to cry with joy at seeing my daughter fast-forward 13 years. After all that time in infancy of worry and concern at not having a vision of her future, there it was -- right before my eyes. And it's definitely a future I can look forward to and rejoice in. For Bonnie, she wanted to cry at feeling brought back in time to Patty's childhood. It was a wonderful experience for us all, I think. One funny thing -- during dinner Patty was telling us something. Then Aubrie asks me, " Mom, why does she have that voice? " . Apparently, Aubrie doesn't have a clue that her voice is different as well. I explained that Patty's voice was hers all grown up! Aubrie had noticed all the white canes at Perkins right away. Then Patty used hers to walk from the car into the restaurant and Aubrie was able to see first hand how it can help a person to manage without having to hold mommy's hand -- fine for a 6-yr-old but not so great at 20. My only regret is that I didn't get a picture of the girls together that night. Sorry Patty, I'm old enough that you'll always be " the girls " to me even when you're Kay's age!! (Smile, Kay!) Tuesday was nonstop evals for Aubrie. As usual, she came through with flying colors living up to my expectations. She kept at it all day without complaint -- enjoying the attention and giving it her best effort. Every professional was wonderful. I was talking with Martha (the DB program spvr) later about how great everyone is. Apparently they screen well in the hiring process to get folks who are there for the children -- and it shows when you are there. Everyone was pleasant and cheerful and exceptionally caring to the children. Each child is truly valued for who they are. I wish every parent of the resident children could be a fly on the wall and see what I saw. The kids arrived for breakfast dressed as cute as their moms would have dressed them. The staff would gush over them, " Oh, aren't you so pretty today!! " and " Oh, you're in such a good mood today! " , etc. If a child didn't like what was served for a meal, there was always a supply of favorites on hand to substitute. Each child has their own space -- chair, utensils, whatever they need. And when a newcomer walks into a room, the first question is what you need to join in -- special chair, whatever. We didn't see the sleeping areas, but we had meals in the dining area and visited in the family room one evening as well. I was impressed with the cleanliness too. I mean, it's institutional (things labeled etc) but it still has a family feel to it -- as much as you can within the confines of a residential institution. Oh, and the " cottages " -- nothing cottage-like at all! The campus is like an ivy-league college! Beautiful stone buildings, rich woodwork, gorgeous landscaping, etc. Of course, Aubrie has amazing karma so we were there during wonderful fall weather. Warm enough to enjoy the sunshine but cool enough to not overheat as we would have in the summer. We were able to walk everywhere easily. And what other kid just happens to be there for the annual " Fun Day " ?? On Wed, we had more evals til noon and then joined in the festivities for the afternoon. It was a huge carnival with food, music, pony rides, petting zoo, etc. Aubrie had spent an hour on Tues afternoon in the elementary DB classroom so we hung out with those kids for the fest. Aubrie felt right at home with her new friends. " A CHARGE classroom, Mom!! " The teacher was delightful -- of course! As soon as that was over, it was time to head to the train. We were lucky to have a ride with Bonnie again for a bit for time together. Unfortunately, there wasn't time for Bonnie to leave work, go back home for Patty, and still get to us again so we missed out on Patty that day. Ok, so it was great fun. But what about the evals? We talked with each specialist as we went along. Plus we had ongoing conversations with Pam and Martha to try to combine all the info together. I didn't take notes so now I need to try to recall everything to discuss with Aubrie's school team until we get the report in a few months. The Perkins team met on Friday but I haven't had a chance to call to get the update on that yet. After Boston, we went directly to CT for a wedding. That was a whirlwind of nonstop fun and catching up with DJ's extended family so Perkins seems like it happened a year ago! Let's see if I can think out loud and recall the major highlights of the evals-- PT-- 1) They couldn't do too much due to the recent hip surgery. But they suggested kinsethetic taping for Aubrie's shoulders. I need to look it up on the 'net and find a practitioner near us. It's a new therapy from Japan that uses tape placed strategically on the muscles to stimulate the contraction you need for improvement. The tape is left on a week at a time for several weeks. It could help strengthen Aubrie's shoulders. And I think I could use it for improved posture! 2) They use lycra skirts for hip stability. The skirt is worn for an hour or so a day. It's like a tube skirt that gives proprioceptive feedback to the whole hip joint as well as providing and promoting stability and proper alignment. It's something I can make at home with the right instructions. OT -- 1) They did an eval and found that Aubrie is lacking some of the basic pre-writing skills. So we need to back up and work on those basic strokes (diagonal line, box, etc) before continuing with letter writing. They agreed with continuing with HWOT but I think we need to use the full curriculum rather than just haphazardly using the materials. Speech -- Did 2 sessions of full eval which we don't have results of yet. O & M -- was able to do limited work given that Aubrie can't get around independently yet. Pam's Psych -- results of 2 sessions of testing to come later... Tech -- suggested use of Intellikeys rather than the traditional keyboard we were going to use plus Clicker4 for wordprocessing. Suggested traditional keyboarding instruction later. Audio -- agreed that bone conduction may be a good option and we should explore that. Sign language -- we all agreed that it would be a good thing, but not so critical as to upset the world by demanding it in the IEP. A thought was to develop a sign language club with Aubrie, friends, and others from the community. We have a deaf high schooler who could be a facilitator. General -- a general thought that will help us was to really break down the purpose of each activity. For example, we have spelling, handwriting, and computers all interrealated. For spelling, the goal is to spell the words which can probably be best met with oral testing. For handwriting, take it back to the basics and start over. For computers, we have two goals -- school work and creative writing/literacy exploration. For school work, intellikeys can help to get the worksheets etc done by computer. For creative writing, Clicker4 helps to write easily and keep the creative thoughts flowing. We thought we were breaking down the purposes, but I think we have to get even more elemental than we were doing. Enough already! I'm sure there's more to say. You know me... I really could go on forever. Later... Michele W Aubrie's mom 6 yrs Membership of this email support groups does not constitute membership in the CHARGE Syndrome Foundation. For information about the CHARGE Syndrome Foundation or to become a member (and get the newsletter) please contact marion@... or visit the CHARGE Syndrome Foundation web page at http://www.chargesyndrome.org 7th International CHARGE Syndrome Conference, Miami Beach, Florida, July 22-24, 2005. Information will be available at our website www.chargesyndrome.org or by calling 1-. In Canada, you may contact CHARGE Syndrome Canada at 1- (families), visit www.chargesyndrome.ca, or email info@.... Thank you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 Bonnie- I would love to see that video. Bring it with you when you come this way. Do you have photos that you could photocopy or scan? I'd love to see Patty as a child. It is so interesting that they have so many similarities, as you said, coming from different families, etc. Already I'd noticed that Aubrie and her CHARGE peers are really like CHARGE " siblings " -- but with Patty it is almost freaky. I'm sure it's so much more intense for you because you knew Patty as a child and I'm just comparing them now. Michele Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 Michele, I enjoyed reading all about Aubrie's Perkins adventure, thanks for sharing. It sounds very similar to the evaluations they do at the APSEA school up here. We had CHARGE week with three of them the same age heading to school for evaluation, it was so great, we all lived together in the same apartment for a week. I'm glad it was a positive experience, I'm jealous you got to see Patty & Bonnie again - I'm not sure if we'll make the conference next year and I can't even dwell on it because it's just too upsetting thinking I " m not going to get to see you guys all next year....! take care and give Aubrie a hug! , Mom to Kennedy 6 yr old with CHARGE, 15, 13, and wife to Graeme New Brunswick, CANADA Visit the Weir family at: http://ca.geocities.com/weirfamilyrogers lisaweir@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 14, 2004 Report Share Posted October 14, 2004 - Your week of evals together sounds really fun! I hope you make it next summer -- but I wonder too if I'll get funding together in time. It's coming so fast and I haven't started -- nor do I have the energy to think about it right now. I am hoping for the best and hoping you find a way too. Michele Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 15, 2004 Report Share Posted October 15, 2004 Michele, After reading that, the only thing I can say is what an experience! Sheryl Mom to Mitch 18 & 18 > Ok-- I'm going to try to tell you about our visit. I have some kind of > head cold with dizziness that is interfering with my typing. We had > such a great time that I hate to tell you about it when I'm not feeling > that enthusiasm -- but I can't stand waiting to feel better! > > We arrived on Monday afternoon, met Underwood (the eval team > spvr), and went to our house. The guest houses were not available so we > stayed in a beautiful home that will soon be home to the president of > the school. It was in a bit of disarray as they prepare to remodel or > whatever, but it was comfortable and relaxing to have it all to ourselves. > > Monday night we went for dinner with Bonnie and Patty. Oh, my -- I > can't even describe it! Patty is as wonderful as I remember her- and > Bonnie -- well-- she's definitely a kindred spirit. Patty and Aubrie > sat together in the backseat and in the booth at the restaurant. They > could be twins 13 years removed. For me, I wanted to cry with joy at > seeing my daughter fast-forward 13 years. After all that time in > infancy of worry and concern at not having a vision of her future, there > it was -- right before my eyes. And it's definitely a future I can look > forward to and rejoice in. For Bonnie, she wanted to cry at feeling > brought back in time to Patty's childhood. It was a wonderful > experience for us all, I think. > > One funny thing -- during dinner Patty was telling us something. Then > Aubrie asks me, " Mom, why does she have that voice? " . Apparently, > Aubrie doesn't have a clue that her voice is different as well. I > explained that Patty's voice was hers all grown up! > > Aubrie had noticed all the white canes at Perkins right away. Then > Patty used hers to walk from the car into the restaurant and Aubrie was > able to see first hand how it can help a person to manage without having > to hold mommy's hand -- fine for a 6-yr-old but not so great at 20. > > My only regret is that I didn't get a picture of the girls together that > night. Sorry Patty, I'm old enough that you'll always be " the girls " to > me even when you're Kay's age!! (Smile, Kay!) > > Tuesday was nonstop evals for Aubrie. As usual, she came through with > flying colors living up to my expectations. She kept at it all day > without complaint -- enjoying the attention and giving it her best > effort. Every professional was wonderful. I was talking with Martha > (the DB program spvr) later about how great everyone is. Apparently > they screen well in the hiring process to get folks who are there for > the children -- and it shows when you are there. Everyone was pleasant > and cheerful and exceptionally caring to the children. Each child is > truly valued for who they are. > > I wish every parent of the resident children could be a fly on the wall > and see what I saw. The kids arrived for breakfast dressed as cute as > their moms would have dressed them. The staff would gush over them, > " Oh, aren't you so pretty today!! " and " Oh, you're in such a good mood > today! " , etc. If a child didn't like what was served for a meal, there > was always a supply of favorites on hand to substitute. Each child has > their own space -- chair, utensils, whatever they need. And when a > newcomer walks into a room, the first question is what you need to join > in -- special chair, whatever. We didn't see the sleeping areas, but we > had meals in the dining area and visited in the family room one evening > as well. I was impressed with the cleanliness too. I mean, it's > institutional (things labeled etc) but it still has a family feel to it > -- as much as you can within the confines of a residential institution. > > Oh, and the " cottages " -- nothing cottage-like at all! The campus is > like an ivy-league college! Beautiful stone buildings, rich woodwork, > gorgeous landscaping, etc. Of course, Aubrie has amazing karma so we > were there during wonderful fall weather. Warm enough to enjoy the > sunshine but cool enough to not overheat as we would have in the > summer. We were able to walk everywhere easily. And what other kid > just happens to be there for the annual " Fun Day " ?? > > On Wed, we had more evals til noon and then joined in the festivities > for the afternoon. It was a huge carnival with food, music, pony rides, > petting zoo, etc. Aubrie had spent an hour on Tues afternoon in the > elementary DB classroom so we hung out with those kids for the fest. > Aubrie felt right at home with her new friends. " A CHARGE classroom, > Mom!! " The teacher was delightful -- of course! As soon as that was > over, it was time to head to the train. We were lucky to have a ride > with Bonnie again for a bit for time together. Unfortunately, there > wasn't time for Bonnie to leave work, go back home for Patty, and still > get to us again so we missed out on Patty that day. > > Ok, so it was great fun. But what about the evals? We talked with each > specialist as we went along. Plus we had ongoing conversations with Pam > and Martha to try to combine all the info together. I didn't take notes > so now I need to try to recall everything to discuss with Aubrie's > school team until we get the report in a few months. The Perkins team > met on Friday but I haven't had a chance to call to get the update on > that yet. After Boston, we went directly to CT for a wedding. That was > a whirlwind of nonstop fun and catching up with DJ's extended family so > Perkins seems like it happened a year ago! > > Let's see if I can think out loud and recall the major highlights of the > evals-- > PT-- 1) They couldn't do too much due to the recent hip surgery. But > they suggested kinsethetic taping for Aubrie's shoulders. I need to > look it up on the 'net and find a practitioner near us. It's a new > therapy from Japan that uses tape placed strategically on the muscles to > stimulate the contraction you need for improvement. The tape is left > on a week at a time for several weeks. It could help strengthen > Aubrie's shoulders. And I think I could use it for improved posture! > 2) They use lycra skirts for hip stability. The skirt is worn for an > hour or so a day. It's like a tube skirt that gives proprioceptive > feedback to the whole hip joint as well as providing and promoting > stability and proper alignment. It's something I can make at home with > the right instructions. > OT -- 1) They did an eval and found that Aubrie is lacking some of the > basic pre-writing skills. So we need to back up and work on those basic > strokes (diagonal line, box, etc) before continuing with letter > writing. They agreed with continuing with HWOT but I think we need to > use the full curriculum rather than just haphazardly using the materials. > Speech -- Did 2 sessions of full eval which we don't have results of yet. > O & M -- was able to do limited work given that Aubrie can't get around > independently yet. > Pam's Psych -- results of 2 sessions of testing to come later... > Tech -- suggested use of Intellikeys rather than the traditional > keyboard we were going to use plus Clicker4 for wordprocessing. > Suggested traditional keyboarding instruction later. > Audio -- agreed that bone conduction may be a good option and we should > explore that. > Sign language -- we all agreed that it would be a good thing, but not so > critical as to upset the world by demanding it in the IEP. A thought > was to develop a sign language club with Aubrie, friends, and others > from the community. We have a deaf high schooler who could be a > facilitator. > General -- a general thought that will help us was to really break down > the purpose of each activity. For example, we have spelling, > handwriting, and computers all interrealated. For spelling, the goal is > to spell the words which can probably be best met with oral testing. > For handwriting, take it back to the basics and start over. For > computers, we have two goals -- school work and creative > writing/literacy exploration. For school work, intellikeys can help to > get the worksheets etc done by computer. For creative writing, Clicker4 > helps to write easily and keep the creative thoughts flowing. We > thought we were breaking down the purposes, but I think we have to get > even more elemental than we were doing. > > Enough already! I'm sure there's more to say. You know me... I really > could go on forever. Later... > > Michele W > Aubrie's mom 6 yrs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 15, 2004 Report Share Posted October 15, 2004 > We will be out to Illinois soon I hope! > > > Thanks for the fun. > > Bonnie > > Bonnie, When will you be coming this way? I met you at the Indy conference and would love to meet up with you if you had some time. You and Patty give me the inspiration that I need more often than you probably know. Sheryl Mom to Mitch 18 & 18 CHARGE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 15, 2004 Report Share Posted October 15, 2004 Oh I'm so excited about your trip. I wish I had been there too! Patty was an inspiration to me at the CHARGE conference. I know you all had a great time. I'm glad you found out what to do about the writing. I hope it helps her. This is great. Kay perkins visit -- long > > Ok-- I'm going to try to tell you about our visit. I have some kind of > head cold with dizziness that is interfering with my typing. We had > such a great time that I hate to tell you about it when I'm not feeling > that enthusiasm -- but I can't stand waiting to feel better! > > We arrived on Monday afternoon, met Underwood (the eval team > spvr), and went to our house. The guest houses were not available so we > stayed in a beautiful home that will soon be home to the president of > the school. It was in a bit of disarray as they prepare to remodel or > whatever, but it was comfortable and relaxing to have it all to ourselves. > > Monday night we went for dinner with Bonnie and Patty. Oh, my -- I > can't even describe it! Patty is as wonderful as I remember her- and > Bonnie -- well-- she's definitely a kindred spirit. Patty and Aubrie > sat together in the backseat and in the booth at the restaurant. They > could be twins 13 years removed. For me, I wanted to cry with joy at > seeing my daughter fast-forward 13 years. After all that time in > infancy of worry and concern at not having a vision of her future, there > it was -- right before my eyes. And it's definitely a future I can look > forward to and rejoice in. For Bonnie, she wanted to cry at feeling > brought back in time to Patty's childhood. It was a wonderful > experience for us all, I think. > > One funny thing -- during dinner Patty was telling us something. Then > Aubrie asks me, " Mom, why does she have that voice? " . Apparently, > Aubrie doesn't have a clue that her voice is different as well. I > explained that Patty's voice was hers all grown up! > > Aubrie had noticed all the white canes at Perkins right away. Then > Patty used hers to walk from the car into the restaurant and Aubrie was > able to see first hand how it can help a person to manage without having > to hold mommy's hand -- fine for a 6-yr-old but not so great at 20. > > My only regret is that I didn't get a picture of the girls together that > night. Sorry Patty, I'm old enough that you'll always be " the girls " to > me even when you're Kay's age!! (Smile, Kay!) > > Tuesday was nonstop evals for Aubrie. As usual, she came through with > flying colors living up to my expectations. She kept at it all day > without complaint -- enjoying the attention and giving it her best > effort. Every professional was wonderful. I was talking with Martha > (the DB program spvr) later about how great everyone is. Apparently > they screen well in the hiring process to get folks who are there for > the children -- and it shows when you are there. Everyone was pleasant > and cheerful and exceptionally caring to the children. Each child is > truly valued for who they are. > > I wish every parent of the resident children could be a fly on the wall > and see what I saw. The kids arrived for breakfast dressed as cute as > their moms would have dressed them. The staff would gush over them, > " Oh, aren't you so pretty today!! " and " Oh, you're in such a good mood > today! " , etc. If a child didn't like what was served for a meal, there > was always a supply of favorites on hand to substitute. Each child has > their own space -- chair, utensils, whatever they need. And when a > newcomer walks into a room, the first question is what you need to join > in -- special chair, whatever. We didn't see the sleeping areas, but we > had meals in the dining area and visited in the family room one evening > as well. I was impressed with the cleanliness too. I mean, it's > institutional (things labeled etc) but it still has a family feel to it > -- as much as you can within the confines of a residential institution. > > Oh, and the " cottages " -- nothing cottage-like at all! The campus is > like an ivy-league college! Beautiful stone buildings, rich woodwork, > gorgeous landscaping, etc. Of course, Aubrie has amazing karma so we > were there during wonderful fall weather. Warm enough to enjoy the > sunshine but cool enough to not overheat as we would have in the > summer. We were able to walk everywhere easily. And what other kid > just happens to be there for the annual " Fun Day " ?? > > On Wed, we had more evals til noon and then joined in the festivities > for the afternoon. It was a huge carnival with food, music, pony rides, > petting zoo, etc. Aubrie had spent an hour on Tues afternoon in the > elementary DB classroom so we hung out with those kids for the fest. > Aubrie felt right at home with her new friends. " A CHARGE classroom, > Mom!! " The teacher was delightful -- of course! As soon as that was > over, it was time to head to the train. We were lucky to have a ride > with Bonnie again for a bit for time together. Unfortunately, there > wasn't time for Bonnie to leave work, go back home for Patty, and still > get to us again so we missed out on Patty that day. > > Ok, so it was great fun. But what about the evals? We talked with each > specialist as we went along. Plus we had ongoing conversations with Pam > and Martha to try to combine all the info together. I didn't take notes > so now I need to try to recall everything to discuss with Aubrie's > school team until we get the report in a few months. The Perkins team > met on Friday but I haven't had a chance to call to get the update on > that yet. After Boston, we went directly to CT for a wedding. That was > a whirlwind of nonstop fun and catching up with DJ's extended family so > Perkins seems like it happened a year ago! > > Let's see if I can think out loud and recall the major highlights of the > evals-- > PT-- 1) They couldn't do too much due to the recent hip surgery. But > they suggested kinsethetic taping for Aubrie's shoulders. I need to > look it up on the 'net and find a practitioner near us. It's a new > therapy from Japan that uses tape placed strategically on the muscles to > stimulate the contraction you need for improvement. The tape is left > on a week at a time for several weeks. It could help strengthen > Aubrie's shoulders. And I think I could use it for improved posture! > 2) They use lycra skirts for hip stability. The skirt is worn for an > hour or so a day. It's like a tube skirt that gives proprioceptive > feedback to the whole hip joint as well as providing and promoting > stability and proper alignment. It's something I can make at home with > the right instructions. > OT -- 1) They did an eval and found that Aubrie is lacking some of the > basic pre-writing skills. So we need to back up and work on those basic > strokes (diagonal line, box, etc) before continuing with letter > writing. They agreed with continuing with HWOT but I think we need to > use the full curriculum rather than just haphazardly using the materials. > Speech -- Did 2 sessions of full eval which we don't have results of yet. > O & M -- was able to do limited work given that Aubrie can't get around > independently yet. > Pam's Psych -- results of 2 sessions of testing to come later... > Tech -- suggested use of Intellikeys rather than the traditional > keyboard we were going to use plus Clicker4 for wordprocessing. > Suggested traditional keyboarding instruction later. > Audio -- agreed that bone conduction may be a good option and we should > explore that. > Sign language -- we all agreed that it would be a good thing, but not so > critical as to upset the world by demanding it in the IEP. A thought > was to develop a sign language club with Aubrie, friends, and others > from the community. We have a deaf high schooler who could be a > facilitator. > General -- a general thought that will help us was to really break down > the purpose of each activity. For example, we have spelling, > handwriting, and computers all interrealated. For spelling, the goal is > to spell the words which can probably be best met with oral testing. > For handwriting, take it back to the basics and start over. For > computers, we have two goals -- school work and creative > writing/literacy exploration. For school work, intellikeys can help to > get the worksheets etc done by computer. For creative writing, Clicker4 > helps to write easily and keep the creative thoughts flowing. We > thought we were breaking down the purposes, but I think we have to get > even more elemental than we were doing. > > Enough already! I'm sure there's more to say. You know me... I really > could go on forever. Later... > > Michele W > Aubrie's mom 6 yrs > > > > > > > > > Membership of this email support groups does not constitute membership in > the CHARGE Syndrome Foundation. > For information about the CHARGE Syndrome > Foundation or to become a member (and get the newsletter) > please contact marion@... or visit > the CHARGE Syndrome Foundation web page > at http://www.chargesyndrome.org > 7th International > CHARGE Syndrome Conference, Miami Beach, Florida, July 22-24, 2005. > Information will be available at our website > www.chargesyndrome.org or by calling 1-. In Canada, you may > contact CHARGE Syndrome Canada at 1- (families), visit > www.chargesyndrome.ca, or email info@.... Thank you! > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 15, 2004 Report Share Posted October 15, 2004 Kay- Thanks for sharing in our excitement. I will let you guys know how things go as we put into practice some of the suggestions from Perkins. Right now, we're getting ready for weekend guests and fall color festival so it'll be a while before I can get on top of things again. Michele W Aubrie's mom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2004 Report Share Posted October 18, 2004 Please, do not send me any more e-mails Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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