Re: WTF????

[Guest guest]

Next time you talk to your fada, maybe you should tell him that maybe God should

cast HIM into the " Sea of Forgetfulness " along with his sins! That would clean

things up nicely.

You're right - totally nutty. And I do despise those who cast their actions " as

doing God's work. " My grandfather was a minister and an humble, honorable,

faithful man. He never cited doing anything " in God's name " - he didn't need

to. It came through in his actions.

Suzy

[Guest guest]

oh, geeze !!! well, your fada is true to BPD, it's not HIS fault, it's gods

fault !!

Jackie

Okay, I got off the phone with Fada not too long ago and he calls to say

that I should " at least " let the children (mine) call him and his wife some

evenings because children know who is " there for them " and it will help them

grow. I'm silent through all of this until he starts to tell me what my

kids need to grow.

I already gave up on the relationship but decided to take my birthday gift

from him (we needed transportation) without any FOG. Ironic how I turned it

around. We are LC and he keeps trying to test the boundaries, but I've

stated the consequences, so everything was chill until this phone call.

His response to trying to take my oldest son from me last year and his smear

campaign was that it was God working through him. He said that he knew the

night that my oldest son was born what needed to happen in the future. He

fought it and tried to work his way around it every way he could to no

avail. In other words God ordained him to DESTROY my life.

As hard as it is to admit, this is the nuttiest thing I have ever heard come

from his mouth and I told him God must have had an entity possess him as

well, since there was no way he could've done this with a right mind. He

also admitted this excuse to why he won't admit his wrongs because he

doesn't " live in the past " and he's gotten his " heart right with God " and I

should pray and do the same. He also says that I should forgive AND forget

because God forgives us thens casts all our sins into the Sea of

Forgetfulness (sounds like a freakin' fairytale, LOL!)

Sorry this was so long. I haven't posted in a while and I wanted to share

this and get some feedback. I'm not angry or upset, but rather amused.

Especially after yesterday when I found out that my fiancee's family had a

family breakfast where I was the topic of the morning. They were trying to

turn the last family member against me that still cares, it didn't work.

She came right back and told me everything.

What is it with these people and isn't it strange how we attract them into

our lives?

Alana

[Guest guest]

Well said, Suzy. One of my pet peeves is when these whack jobs assume they are

doing 'God's work' to justify their awful, hurtful actions. As a Christian

myself, it offends me deeply. I think I am a relatively compassionate person,

but when people do harm using that excuse, my patience is sorely tested. Actions

really do speak louder than words, as your grandfather so wonderfully showed.

Thx for the good words.

take care,

> You're right - totally nutty. And I do despise those who cast their actions

" as doing God's work. " My grandfather was a minister and an humble, honorable,

faithful man. He never cited doing anything " in God's name " - he didn't need

to. It came through in his actions.

>

> Suzy

>

[Guest guest]

Wow! Thats original, the God's work through me garbage, gimmie a break. Please

consider no contact with this loon.

>

> Okay, I got off the phone with Fada not too long ago and he calls to say that

I should " at least " let the children (mine) call him and his wife some evenings

because children know who is " there for them " and it will help them grow. I'm

silent through all of this until he starts to tell me what my kids need to grow.

>

> I already gave up on the relationship but decided to take my birthday gift

from him (we needed transportation) without any FOG. Ironic how I turned it

around. We are LC and he keeps trying to test the boundaries, but I've stated

the consequences, so everything was chill until this phone call.

>

> His response to trying to take my oldest son from me last year and his smear

campaign was that it was God working through him. He said that he knew the

night that my oldest son was born what needed to happen in the future. He

fought it and tried to work his way around it every way he could to no avail.

In other words God ordained him to DESTROY my life.

>

> As hard as it is to admit, this is the nuttiest thing I have ever heard come

from his mouth and I told him God must have had an entity possess him as well,

since there was no way he could've done this with a right mind. He also

admitted this excuse to why he won't admit his wrongs because he doesn't " live

in the past " and he's gotten his " heart right with God " and I should pray and

do the same. He also says that I should forgive AND forget because God forgives

us thens casts all our sins into the Sea of Forgetfulness (sounds like a

freakin' fairytale, LOL!)

>

> Sorry this was so long. I haven't posted in a while and I wanted to share

this and get some feedback. I'm not angry or upset, but rather amused.

Especially after yesterday when I found out that my fiancee's family had a

family breakfast where I was the topic of the morning. They were trying to turn

the last family member against me that still cares, it didn't work. She came

right back and told me everything.

>

> What is it with these people and isn't it strange how we attract them into our

lives?

>

> Alana

>