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a,

You are so nice. I think I might have to keep you close to me. I did

have a very specific goal in the beginning of the whole thing. It was, I

wanted to be in a size 16 or 18, I told (the shrink) I would be

very happy if I was still in plus size clothes but I wanted to be in the

smallest ones at Lane . but I was hopeing a 16. Well, I have

without even trying passed that. I totally missed wearing the 16's. I

went from an 18 to a 14. I thought I was in those 18's for a while but

didn't think I could go down a size just yet. WOW!!! was I shocked. It

was my Mom who got me to try on the 14's,( that's what she is). This

whole thing has been very overwhelming for myself also. I'm learning so

much about myself, With my own shrink. It's been a wonderful thing for

me, and my family. It's funny how much people enjoy looking at my book.

I had no idea that would happen. I did it so my children can see what I

did and I could go back and see how far I've come also. Now they just

like to look at Mommy's boo-boo. My oldest asks me why I have the big

boo-boo on my belly. I tell her Mommy's tummy didn't work right and I

had to get it fixed.

Anyway, I could not tell you were nurvous at the meeting. You should put

that surgery time line you made in a book form. People come up to me and

ask if they can look at my book, I'm sure they would want to see your

progress too. I think the most inportant part of it is the writing, I

hope people read that part.

You look great!! keep up the good work. Pam

On Mon, 09 Oct 2000 20:23:39 -0000 rheaumepaula@... writes:

> Thanks for thoughts on last week's meeting. I was nervous during the

> beginning of the meeting, but then I managed to calm down a bit. My

> only hope is that I was able to shed some light on this

> (overwhelming)

> process for all those newcomers and preops and share my experience

> with

> other postops. (I got a hug from Dr. Reines, so that counts for

> something.)

>

> Every time I see you I am amazed at your " petiteness. " Do you have a

>

> specific goal weight or BMI you are aiming for? The famous book you

> pass around during meetings is a wonderful thing; it allows people a

>

> window into how this process happens...visually of course!

>

> Although I am still loosing weight and exercising (and using Jergens

>

> FIRMING lotion religiously), I have this fear that I'm NOT going to

> loose weight equally all around and I'm going to look like a freak

> when

> all is said and done. Did you or do you ever have random thoughts

> like

> that?

>

> Anyone else out there have those thoughts?

>

> --a

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Hey a-I just want to say again that you did an awesome job at last week's

NWH meeting and you look great! I've been in Woodstock, VT looking at the

foliage. It was beautiful. Very cold, though. It even snowed on the way

home today. Anyway, I am afraid I will NEVER like the way my body looks. I

wonder if too much damage has been done to ever " get it back " . I've lost

about 60 lbs and would like to lose another 60. I work out, but some body

parts just don't firm up (my boobs and arms). I really am so sick of hating

my body though. It makes me so sad. It's really taken a lot of abuse over

the years and still keeps ticking! LOL! I think I'll have to start seeing

someone to work on the body image stuff. That and start my plastic surgery

fund! Thanks for speaking at the meeting!

Steph

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