Guest guest Posted August 8, 2000 Report Share Posted August 8, 2000 Pam, Oh I'm so sorry, I was really hoping you would have great news this month. I wish you were here in Florida, I'd come give you a big hug. Good luck on Thursday! Again I'm so sorry. Kel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 8, 2000 Report Share Posted August 8, 2000 Pam, Oh I'm so sorry, I was really hoping you would have great news this month. I wish you were here in Florida, I'd come give you a big hug. Good luck on Thursday! Again I'm so sorry. Kel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 8, 2000 Report Share Posted August 8, 2000 Pam, I'm so sorry the old hag found you. I hope you and your dr can work out a plan. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love & hugs, Jo-Ann PAMELA GIGUERE wrote: > > Hi All > > Well AF showed this morning. I am totally devastated. I knew my > chances were slim. But I wasn't even expecting this until Friday. My > mom called last night and she asked me when I see the dr again and if > thats when I would know whats going on. I lied and said yes. I didn't > want to tell her last night until I was sure it was AF. She said I > have been praying every night that this is it. OMG I don't know how I > didn't start bawling on the phone. Anyway I can't stop crying. I > shouldn't even be at work today. I can't even funtion. I called my dr > office and the only good news is he has a cancelation for Thursday. I > really think I am going to talk about IVF. I can't handle this > anymore. But what is my alternative?? Not one I want. My dh is in > agreement w/whatever I want to do. > Pam > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 8, 2000 Report Share Posted August 8, 2000 Pam, I'm so sorry the old hag found you. I hope you and your dr can work out a plan. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love & hugs, Jo-Ann PAMELA GIGUERE wrote: > > Hi All > > Well AF showed this morning. I am totally devastated. I knew my > chances were slim. But I wasn't even expecting this until Friday. My > mom called last night and she asked me when I see the dr again and if > thats when I would know whats going on. I lied and said yes. I didn't > want to tell her last night until I was sure it was AF. She said I > have been praying every night that this is it. OMG I don't know how I > didn't start bawling on the phone. Anyway I can't stop crying. I > shouldn't even be at work today. I can't even funtion. I called my dr > office and the only good news is he has a cancelation for Thursday. I > really think I am going to talk about IVF. I can't handle this > anymore. But what is my alternative?? Not one I want. My dh is in > agreement w/whatever I want to do. > Pam > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 8, 2000 Report Share Posted August 8, 2000 Oh Pam, I am so sorry that AF is here!I know exactly how you feel I have been there so many times! We did 7 IUI w/ clomid that didn't work. Every time my hope were dashed. I know with me it took a day or two to regain compoture and focus on the cycles to come. You can do it too! You have such better odds of getting pg with IVF. I just wish you had insurance, it would make the decision easier.I am thinking of you, Pam. Don't give up, Love, Kim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2000 Report Share Posted August 9, 2000 Dear Pam, I am so sorry! I don't know what else to say except that I am really praying and hoping for you! What does your RE want you to do this next cycle? Sending you lots of hugs, " The first step is to say nice things about myself. The second, to do nice things for myself. The third, to find someone to buy me nice things. " Hope I could make you chuckle! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2000 Report Share Posted August 9, 2000 , You did make me chuckle. I have a dr appt tomorrow afternoon. This is a rest cycle anyway. Although we can ttc on our own. I am going to tell him I want to do IVF. I think doing another IUI is a waste of time, money and emotional stress. I am really scared to go this direction, but I don't see other choices. I will be 33 next month and ttc 2 1/2 years. I have to move on. Pam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2000 Report Share Posted August 9, 2000 Hi Pam. Glad I could make you chuckle. I'll dig up some more, my desk is filled with silly quotes and jokes etc! I think you a making a good choice. If you are going to spend the money --atleast the success rates are higher with IVF. I hate putting a dollar amount on it but it is sooo expensive. It really is so sad when you think about it and I have many times. I can't believe how expensive it is to adopt too! Sorry, I did't mean to make you more upset...I guess I am not very good at this! Just know that we will be here to support you in whichever direction you choose! Hey, here is a positive, you are at home and I am still at work...it is only 230pm here! You lucky duck! Post when you get back from the doctors! Take care, " I assume full responsibility for my actions, except the ones that are someone else's fault. " " I need not suffer in silence while I can still moan, whimper, and complain " . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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