Guest guest Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 welcome connie.. you will find much understanding here, you are not alone in this.. we can help each other heal from the abuse of the past.. together we are stronger and better than before and knowledge is power. my nada was into trying to have herself by controlling me and i seemed to have gotten lost in all that. Â now i search for that self and grieve the loss of time when that self felt it couldn't exist. Â it is hard not to hate my nada and rage against fate at times but knowing there are others out there who are successfully fighting to make the boundaries that help gives me hope. i think you will find much help here.ann Subject: New to Community To: WTOAdultChildren1 Date: Wednesday, April 7, 2010, 5:12 PM Â Hello all, I've started to realize I think my mother may have bpd. It's an unbelievable realization to suddenly make sense of all the years of controlling, manipulation, and anger that has been directed at me. Just wanted to say hello and see who else is out there. Best, L Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 Hi , Welcome!! This is such a supportive group of people, all of us in your same boat. I started posting here after my mother did something (it's too long to go into right now!) she'd done dozens of times, except that day I became like that guy from the movie, " Network, " you know what I mean? I realized " " I'm as mad as hell, and I'm not going to take this anymore! " The button she'd installed and been pressing over and over finally blew up. I never knew so many people shared the same problem and have never felt so validated and heard. I hope you find that here as well. Fiona > > Hello all, > > I've started to realize I think my mother may have bpd. It's an unbelievable realization to suddenly make sense of all the years of controlling, manipulation, and anger that has been directed at me. > > Just wanted to say hello and see who else is out there. > > Best, > L > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 Hi , Welcome!! This is such a supportive group of people, all of us in your same boat. I started posting here after my mother did something (it's too long to go into right now!) she'd done dozens of times, except that day I became like that guy from the movie, " Network, " you know what I mean? I realized " " I'm as mad as hell, and I'm not going to take this anymore! " The button she'd installed and been pressing over and over finally blew up. I never knew so many people shared the same problem and have never felt so validated and heard. I hope you find that here as well. Fiona > > Hello all, > > I've started to realize I think my mother may have bpd. It's an unbelievable realization to suddenly make sense of all the years of controlling, manipulation, and anger that has been directed at me. > > Just wanted to say hello and see who else is out there. > > Best, > L > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.