Guest guest Posted April 24, 2010 Report Share Posted April 24, 2010 Oh Yea, baby. I am a fudge demi god! I am all about the fudge. But , cravings? Should we worry? Doug > > did you inherit this fudge making ability ?? I've really had strong > cravings for fudge or brownies :-) > > Jackie > > > > > > We are all about healing. Fleas are a part of our existance, but as we > see them and recognize them, we work to try and get past them. We may, > among ourselves, gently point out when we see one. > > We do a lot of discussion that is problem oriented. I find that a great > deal of this comes from the fact that for so very much of our lives, our > pains and problems are not validated, by nada, or foo, or even > therapists. Here, as we share a problem or pain, we get a huge > validation of Ah Ha! Others lived it too. Suddenly another VERY SMART > person hears our story and says, YES! Wow! Me too! > > And yes, we all needed this a LONG time ago. But we have it now. And it > is a part of our healing. There IS a lot of anger, and even rage among > us. We had it built up inside us for a long time. We have to learn to > be gentle with ourselves, and with one another. Some of the anger comes > out , at times, in hearing any of the positive. > > There were positives for most of us. Unlike our BP s, we can come to > see that there are shades of gray. Not everything is all black and > white. Certainly no person is black or white, good or evil. In the > worst, there is a spark of good. In the best, there are feet of clay. I > dont have to invalidate everything about my mom and her life in order to > say she was a very sick woman, and her BPD caused me grave harm and > wounding. > > She made great fudge! > > May we all heal! > > Doug > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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