Re: BPD Mother and Mother In Law

[Guest guest]

Jeeeeezussss,

Hi its Terry s hub 2b , and heres me thinking my empathy skills where

phenomenal lol, its only that i was also off to see the wizard that i picked up

on s pain..... Anyway, ive now been NC 2 wks and all things considered I

actually feel a little better, probably due to being certified sane yesterday

after years thinking i was seriously mentally ill....OMG the irony ...me seeing

a shrink pmsl !!!!

Terry

________________________________

To: WTOAdultChildren1

Sent: Fri, April 9, 2010 7:22:46 PM

Subject: Re: BPD Mother and Mother In Law

Hi ,

I'm sorry you're experiencing this. I don't have any real advice for you,

but my mother was and mother-in-law is BPD too so I can relate to how you

feel. It is a trapped and helpless feeling. I wonder if some of us kids of

bpd's are drawn together as partners sometimes. I have heard of lots of

people who marry into families of BPD too.

In a message dated 4/9/2010 1:39:07 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

clairenewton49@ yahoo.com writes:

Hi All,

Sorry I have not posted in a while, its been a terrible few months for me.

I am nearly a year NC from my nada, it was my hubby to be when we first

met who recognised my nada etc, and since then ive been healing and seeing

professionals etc regarding my situation.

However, over the last couple of months my hubby has had a breakdown, and

himself been to see professionals etc, and it turns out that his mom has

also severely emotionally abused him all his life too.

By reading the literature on BPD she seems to be the " Queen " , my hubby

tried to take his life last week, as he couldnt understand were his emotional

pain has been coming from, even though he is very happy with me, he has

this voice inside him telling him he is a fake, he is bad, he will never

amount to anything etc, it all got on top of him last week, luckily now he is

now getting all the support he needs and uncovering alot about his mom with

the help of shrinks etc.

He is currently being given the silent treatment by her, as I am too, she

called the other night " drunk " , but nothing since, I just feel so hurt for

him and myself and my son, as I was hoovered in by her niceness to me and

my son, and really thought everything was ok. It was only when my hubby was

in hospital after trying to take his life, that I spent time at his moms

house, and wow did I see what I feared I would see, verbal abuse to his

father, controlling, name calling, everything you can imagine, she was not even

at her sons bedside when he came round. I feel so stuck in this, I should

know better really with having my own mother similar but thats it the but I

just dont know.

Anyway, thanks for reading this post, any feedback thoughts would be

really appreciated at this very stressful and emotional time.

Love x

[Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

[Guest guest]

Jeeeeezussss,

Hi its Terry s hub 2b , and heres me thinking my empathy skills where

phenomenal lol, its only that i was also off to see the wizard that i picked up

on s pain..... Anyway, ive now been NC 2 wks and all things considered I

actually feel a little better, probably due to being certified sane yesterday

after years thinking i was seriously mentally ill....OMG the irony ...me seeing

a shrink pmsl !!!!

Terry

________________________________

To: WTOAdultChildren1

Sent: Fri, April 9, 2010 7:22:46 PM

Subject: Re: BPD Mother and Mother In Law

Hi ,

I'm sorry you're experiencing this. I don't have any real advice for you,

but my mother was and mother-in-law is BPD too so I can relate to how you

feel. It is a trapped and helpless feeling. I wonder if some of us kids of

bpd's are drawn together as partners sometimes. I have heard of lots of

people who marry into families of BPD too.

In a message dated 4/9/2010 1:39:07 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

clairenewton49@ yahoo.com writes:

Hi All,

Sorry I have not posted in a while, its been a terrible few months for me.

I am nearly a year NC from my nada, it was my hubby to be when we first

met who recognised my nada etc, and since then ive been healing and seeing

professionals etc regarding my situation.

However, over the last couple of months my hubby has had a breakdown, and

himself been to see professionals etc, and it turns out that his mom has

also severely emotionally abused him all his life too.

By reading the literature on BPD she seems to be the " Queen " , my hubby

tried to take his life last week, as he couldnt understand were his emotional

pain has been coming from, even though he is very happy with me, he has

this voice inside him telling him he is a fake, he is bad, he will never

amount to anything etc, it all got on top of him last week, luckily now he is

now getting all the support he needs and uncovering alot about his mom with

the help of shrinks etc.

He is currently being given the silent treatment by her, as I am too, she

called the other night " drunk " , but nothing since, I just feel so hurt for

him and myself and my son, as I was hoovered in by her niceness to me and

my son, and really thought everything was ok. It was only when my hubby was

in hospital after trying to take his life, that I spent time at his moms

house, and wow did I see what I feared I would see, verbal abuse to his

father, controlling, name calling, everything you can imagine, she was not even

at her sons bedside when he came round. I feel so stuck in this, I should

know better really with having my own mother similar but thats it the but I

just dont know.

Anyway, thanks for reading this post, any feedback thoughts would be

really appreciated at this very stressful and emotional time.

Love x

[Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

[Guest guest]

Thanks Jackie,

Hi its Terry, it was only that i was in oz too that i felt s pain soo

badly and i didnt even know, gee whizz she is good i'll give her that (nada)...

Anyway im 2 wks Nc certified sane yesterday and all things considered im not too

bad.. I was in a very very dark place ive thought i was fraudulent all my life

and as me and claire have grown closer nada rejected me yet again All My Life

now makes sense im sure with the excellent free therapy the health service

provides ill b ok in a yr or so....but NC 4 me and thats a given as she is the

queen character and i believe thats pretty bad...

Thanks Terry

________________________________

To: WTOAdultChildren1

Sent: Fri, April 9, 2010 7:56:55 PM

Subject: Re: BPD Mother and Mother In Law

Oh, , I'm so sorry this is happening to you and your family, and SO

happy your hubby was unsuccessful !! I do hope he never tries this again !!

I have gotten the silent treatment a lot from my nada...she's the

queen/witch. ..and as an adult, it's really a blessing to not have to deal

with her LOL

Jackie

Hi All,

Sorry I have not posted in a while, its been a terrible few months for me.

I am nearly a year NC from my nada, it was my hubby to be when we first met

who recognised my nada etc, and since then ive been healing and seeing

professionals etc regarding my situation.

However, over the last couple of months my hubby has had a breakdown, and

himself been to see professionals etc, and it turns out that his mom has

also severely emotionally abused him all his life too.

By reading the literature on BPD she seems to be the " Queen " , my hubby tried

to take his life last week, as he couldnt understand were his emotional pain

has been coming from, even though he is very happy with me, he has this

voice inside him telling him he is a fake, he is bad, he will never amount

to anything etc, it all got on top of him last week, luckily now he is now

getting all the support he needs and uncovering alot about his mom with the

help of shrinks etc.

He is currently being given the silent treatment by her, as I am too, she

called the other night " drunk " , but nothing since, I just feel so hurt for

him and myself and my son, as I was hoovered in by her niceness to me and my

son, and really thought everything was ok. It was only when my hubby was in

hospital after trying to take his life, that I spent time at his moms house,

and wow did I see what I feared I would see, verbal abuse to his father,

controlling, name calling, everything you can imagine, she was not even at

her sons bedside when he came round. I feel so stuck in this, I should know

better really with having my own mother similar but thats it the but I just

dont know.

Anyway, thanks for reading this post, any feedback thoughts would be really

appreciated at this very stressful and emotional time.

Love x

[Guest guest]

Thanks Jackie,

Hi its Terry, it was only that i was in oz too that i felt s pain soo

badly and i didnt even know, gee whizz she is good i'll give her that (nada)...

Anyway im 2 wks Nc certified sane yesterday and all things considered im not too

bad.. I was in a very very dark place ive thought i was fraudulent all my life

and as me and claire have grown closer nada rejected me yet again All My Life

now makes sense im sure with the excellent free therapy the health service

provides ill b ok in a yr or so....but NC 4 me and thats a given as she is the

queen character and i believe thats pretty bad...

Thanks Terry

________________________________

To: WTOAdultChildren1

Sent: Fri, April 9, 2010 7:56:55 PM

Subject: Re: BPD Mother and Mother In Law

Oh, , I'm so sorry this is happening to you and your family, and SO

happy your hubby was unsuccessful !! I do hope he never tries this again !!

I have gotten the silent treatment a lot from my nada...she's the

queen/witch. ..and as an adult, it's really a blessing to not have to deal

with her LOL

Jackie

Hi All,

Sorry I have not posted in a while, its been a terrible few months for me.

I am nearly a year NC from my nada, it was my hubby to be when we first met

who recognised my nada etc, and since then ive been healing and seeing

professionals etc regarding my situation.

However, over the last couple of months my hubby has had a breakdown, and

himself been to see professionals etc, and it turns out that his mom has

also severely emotionally abused him all his life too.

By reading the literature on BPD she seems to be the " Queen " , my hubby tried

to take his life last week, as he couldnt understand were his emotional pain

has been coming from, even though he is very happy with me, he has this

voice inside him telling him he is a fake, he is bad, he will never amount

to anything etc, it all got on top of him last week, luckily now he is now

getting all the support he needs and uncovering alot about his mom with the

help of shrinks etc.

He is currently being given the silent treatment by her, as I am too, she

called the other night " drunk " , but nothing since, I just feel so hurt for

him and myself and my son, as I was hoovered in by her niceness to me and my

son, and really thought everything was ok. It was only when my hubby was in

hospital after trying to take his life, that I spent time at his moms house,

and wow did I see what I feared I would see, verbal abuse to his father,

controlling, name calling, everything you can imagine, she was not even at

her sons bedside when he came round. I feel so stuck in this, I should know

better really with having my own mother similar but thats it the but I just

dont know.

Anyway, thanks for reading this post, any feedback thoughts would be really

appreciated at this very stressful and emotional time.

Love x

[Guest guest]

Thanks Jackie,

Hi its Terry, it was only that i was in oz too that i felt s pain soo

badly and i didnt even know, gee whizz she is good i'll give her that (nada)...

Anyway im 2 wks Nc certified sane yesterday and all things considered im not too

bad.. I was in a very very dark place ive thought i was fraudulent all my life

and as me and claire have grown closer nada rejected me yet again All My Life

now makes sense im sure with the excellent free therapy the health service

provides ill b ok in a yr or so....but NC 4 me and thats a given as she is the

queen character and i believe thats pretty bad...

Thanks Terry

________________________________

To: WTOAdultChildren1

Sent: Fri, April 9, 2010 7:56:55 PM

Subject: Re: BPD Mother and Mother In Law

Oh, , I'm so sorry this is happening to you and your family, and SO

happy your hubby was unsuccessful !! I do hope he never tries this again !!

I have gotten the silent treatment a lot from my nada...she's the

queen/witch. ..and as an adult, it's really a blessing to not have to deal

with her LOL

Jackie

Hi All,

Sorry I have not posted in a while, its been a terrible few months for me.

I am nearly a year NC from my nada, it was my hubby to be when we first met

who recognised my nada etc, and since then ive been healing and seeing

professionals etc regarding my situation.

However, over the last couple of months my hubby has had a breakdown, and

himself been to see professionals etc, and it turns out that his mom has

also severely emotionally abused him all his life too.

By reading the literature on BPD she seems to be the " Queen " , my hubby tried

to take his life last week, as he couldnt understand were his emotional pain

has been coming from, even though he is very happy with me, he has this

voice inside him telling him he is a fake, he is bad, he will never amount

to anything etc, it all got on top of him last week, luckily now he is now

getting all the support he needs and uncovering alot about his mom with the

help of shrinks etc.

He is currently being given the silent treatment by her, as I am too, she

called the other night " drunk " , but nothing since, I just feel so hurt for

him and myself and my son, as I was hoovered in by her niceness to me and my

son, and really thought everything was ok. It was only when my hubby was in

hospital after trying to take his life, that I spent time at his moms house,

and wow did I see what I feared I would see, verbal abuse to his father,

controlling, name calling, everything you can imagine, she was not even at

her sons bedside when he came round. I feel so stuck in this, I should know

better really with having my own mother similar but thats it the but I just

dont know.

Anyway, thanks for reading this post, any feedback thoughts would be really

appreciated at this very stressful and emotional time.

Love x

[Guest guest]

Hi Terry,

just remember, you have , a son, and us here on this list who care

about you...

Jackie

Thanks Jackie,

Hi its Terry, it was only that i was in oz too that i felt s pain soo

badly and i didnt even know, gee whizz she is good i'll give her that

(nada)... Anyway im 2 wks Nc certified sane yesterday and all things

considered im not too bad.. I was in a very very dark place ive thought i

was fraudulent all my life and as me and claire have grown closer nada

rejected me yet again All My Life now makes sense im sure with the excellent

free therapy the health service provides ill b ok in a yr or so....but NC 4

me and thats a given as she is the queen character and i believe thats

pretty bad...

Thanks Terry

[Guest guest]

Hi Terry,

just remember, you have , a son, and us here on this list who care

about you...

Jackie

Thanks Jackie,

Hi its Terry, it was only that i was in oz too that i felt s pain soo

badly and i didnt even know, gee whizz she is good i'll give her that

(nada)... Anyway im 2 wks Nc certified sane yesterday and all things

considered im not too bad.. I was in a very very dark place ive thought i

was fraudulent all my life and as me and claire have grown closer nada

rejected me yet again All My Life now makes sense im sure with the excellent

free therapy the health service provides ill b ok in a yr or so....but NC 4

me and thats a given as she is the queen character and i believe thats

pretty bad...

Thanks Terry

[Guest guest]

Terry - I'm so sorry you and have had such a hard time these past months.

It DOES make a difference when there's somebody around who sees through the FOG

(fear, obligation and guilt) that our parents have used to manipulate us. You

and can be sounding boards, do reality checks, and have each other's

backs. That's a very good thing in itself. And as Jackie said, come hang out

with us here. I've been reading and posting for several months now, and the

insights that come along are very helpful. Sometimes we're sad, sometimes we

laugh, and sometimes we bicker, but we all GET IT. It's a journey - you may hit

one step forward/two steps back, but once you know all this has a name, and that

you haven't been imagining it, you can start seeing life much more clearly.

Y'all take care of each other.

>

> Hi Terry,

>

> just remember, you have , a son, and us here on this list who care

> about you...

>

> Jackie

>

>

>

> Thanks Jackie,

>

> Hi its Terry, it was only that i was in oz too that i felt s pain soo

> badly and i didnt even know, gee whizz she is good i'll give her that

> (nada)... Anyway im 2 wks Nc certified sane yesterday and all things

> considered im not too bad.. I was in a very very dark place ive thought i

> was fraudulent all my life and as me and claire have grown closer nada

> rejected me yet again All My Life now makes sense im sure with the excellent

> free therapy the health service provides ill b ok in a yr or so....but NC 4

> me and thats a given as she is the queen character and i believe thats

> pretty bad...

> Thanks Terry

>

[Guest guest]

Terry - I'm so sorry you and have had such a hard time these past months.

It DOES make a difference when there's somebody around who sees through the FOG

(fear, obligation and guilt) that our parents have used to manipulate us. You

and can be sounding boards, do reality checks, and have each other's

backs. That's a very good thing in itself. And as Jackie said, come hang out

with us here. I've been reading and posting for several months now, and the

insights that come along are very helpful. Sometimes we're sad, sometimes we

laugh, and sometimes we bicker, but we all GET IT. It's a journey - you may hit

one step forward/two steps back, but once you know all this has a name, and that

you haven't been imagining it, you can start seeing life much more clearly.

Y'all take care of each other.

>

> Hi Terry,

>

> just remember, you have , a son, and us here on this list who care

> about you...

>

> Jackie

>

>

>

> Thanks Jackie,

>

> Hi its Terry, it was only that i was in oz too that i felt s pain soo

> badly and i didnt even know, gee whizz she is good i'll give her that

> (nada)... Anyway im 2 wks Nc certified sane yesterday and all things

> considered im not too bad.. I was in a very very dark place ive thought i

> was fraudulent all my life and as me and claire have grown closer nada

> rejected me yet again All My Life now makes sense im sure with the excellent

> free therapy the health service provides ill b ok in a yr or so....but NC 4

> me and thats a given as she is the queen character and i believe thats

> pretty bad...

> Thanks Terry

>

[Guest guest]

Hi ,

Yeah as I said she is bloody good (nada), in some ways i feel such a fool as I

am a Mental Health Professional and with being in denial just labelled it as a

mom who wants the best for her son. It was only when I calculated the last ten

years and MY so called EPISODES which eventually lead to my breakdown, that I

realised this occurrs when My life is going so well. Many a time the rug has

been pulled from under me leading to that negative voice in my head eventually

telling me to pull it from under myself, as I am useless and unworthy of any

happiness. It is sad it has came to this, however, 4 hours with a shrink and

already that FOG which I did not think was prevalent in my (perfect) family,

began to lift.......jeeeezzzussssss I AM SANE, its not me after all!!!! What a

relief.....thanks for your support.

Speak soon

Terry

________________________________

To: WTOAdultChildren1

Sent: Fri, April 9, 2010 9:28:58 PM

Subject: Re: BPD Mother and Mother In Law

Terry - I'm so sorry you and have had such a hard time these past months.

It DOES make a difference when there's somebody around who sees through the FOG

(fear, obligation and guilt) that our parents have used to manipulate us. You

and can be sounding boards, do reality checks, and have each other's

backs. That's a very good thing in itself. And as Jackie said, come hang out

with us here. I've been reading and posting for several months now, and the

insights that come along are very helpful. Sometimes we're sad, sometimes we

laugh, and sometimes we bicker, but we all GET IT. It's a journey - you may hit

one step forward/two steps back, but once you know all this has a name, and that

you haven't been imagining it, you can start seeing life much more clearly.

Y'all take care of each other.

>

> Hi Terry,

>

> just remember, you have , a son, and us here on this list who care

> about you...

>

> Jackie

>

>

>

> Thanks Jackie,

>

> Hi its Terry, it was only that i was in oz too that i felt s pain soo

> badly and i didnt even know, gee whizz she is good i'll give her that

> (nada)... Anyway im 2 wks Nc certified sane yesterday and all things

> considered im not too bad.. I was in a very very dark place ive thought i

> was fraudulent all my life and as me and claire have grown closer nada

> rejected me yet again All My Life now makes sense im sure with the excellent

> free therapy the health service provides ill b ok in a yr or so....but NC 4

> me and thats a given as she is the queen character and i believe thats

> pretty bad...

> Thanks Terry

>

[Guest guest]

Hi ,

Yeah as I said she is bloody good (nada), in some ways i feel such a fool as I

am a Mental Health Professional and with being in denial just labelled it as a

mom who wants the best for her son. It was only when I calculated the last ten

years and MY so called EPISODES which eventually lead to my breakdown, that I

realised this occurrs when My life is going so well. Many a time the rug has

been pulled from under me leading to that negative voice in my head eventually

telling me to pull it from under myself, as I am useless and unworthy of any

happiness. It is sad it has came to this, however, 4 hours with a shrink and

already that FOG which I did not think was prevalent in my (perfect) family,

began to lift.......jeeeezzzussssss I AM SANE, its not me after all!!!! What a

relief.....thanks for your support.

Speak soon

Terry

________________________________

To: WTOAdultChildren1

Sent: Fri, April 9, 2010 9:28:58 PM

Subject: Re: BPD Mother and Mother In Law

Terry - I'm so sorry you and have had such a hard time these past months.

It DOES make a difference when there's somebody around who sees through the FOG

(fear, obligation and guilt) that our parents have used to manipulate us. You

and can be sounding boards, do reality checks, and have each other's

backs. That's a very good thing in itself. And as Jackie said, come hang out

with us here. I've been reading and posting for several months now, and the

insights that come along are very helpful. Sometimes we're sad, sometimes we

laugh, and sometimes we bicker, but we all GET IT. It's a journey - you may hit

one step forward/two steps back, but once you know all this has a name, and that

you haven't been imagining it, you can start seeing life much more clearly.

Y'all take care of each other.

>

> Hi Terry,

>

> just remember, you have , a son, and us here on this list who care

> about you...

>

> Jackie

>

>

>

> Thanks Jackie,

>

> Hi its Terry, it was only that i was in oz too that i felt s pain soo

> badly and i didnt even know, gee whizz she is good i'll give her that

> (nada)... Anyway im 2 wks Nc certified sane yesterday and all things

> considered im not too bad.. I was in a very very dark place ive thought i

> was fraudulent all my life and as me and claire have grown closer nada

> rejected me yet again All My Life now makes sense im sure with the excellent

> free therapy the health service provides ill b ok in a yr or so....but NC 4

> me and thats a given as she is the queen character and i believe thats

> pretty bad...

> Thanks Terry

>

[Guest guest]

Hi ,

Yeah as I said she is bloody good (nada), in some ways i feel such a fool as I

am a Mental Health Professional and with being in denial just labelled it as a

mom who wants the best for her son. It was only when I calculated the last ten

years and MY so called EPISODES which eventually lead to my breakdown, that I

realised this occurrs when My life is going so well. Many a time the rug has

been pulled from under me leading to that negative voice in my head eventually

telling me to pull it from under myself, as I am useless and unworthy of any

happiness. It is sad it has came to this, however, 4 hours with a shrink and

already that FOG which I did not think was prevalent in my (perfect) family,

began to lift.......jeeeezzzussssss I AM SANE, its not me after all!!!! What a

relief.....thanks for your support.

Speak soon

Terry

________________________________

To: WTOAdultChildren1

Sent: Fri, April 9, 2010 9:28:58 PM

Subject: Re: BPD Mother and Mother In Law

Terry - I'm so sorry you and have had such a hard time these past months.

It DOES make a difference when there's somebody around who sees through the FOG

(fear, obligation and guilt) that our parents have used to manipulate us. You

and can be sounding boards, do reality checks, and have each other's

backs. That's a very good thing in itself. And as Jackie said, come hang out

with us here. I've been reading and posting for several months now, and the

insights that come along are very helpful. Sometimes we're sad, sometimes we

laugh, and sometimes we bicker, but we all GET IT. It's a journey - you may hit

one step forward/two steps back, but once you know all this has a name, and that

you haven't been imagining it, you can start seeing life much more clearly.

Y'all take care of each other.

>

> Hi Terry,

>

> just remember, you have , a son, and us here on this list who care

> about you...

>

> Jackie

>

>

>

> Thanks Jackie,

>

> Hi its Terry, it was only that i was in oz too that i felt s pain soo

> badly and i didnt even know, gee whizz she is good i'll give her that

> (nada)... Anyway im 2 wks Nc certified sane yesterday and all things

> considered im not too bad.. I was in a very very dark place ive thought i

> was fraudulent all my life and as me and claire have grown closer nada

> rejected me yet again All My Life now makes sense im sure with the excellent

> free therapy the health service provides ill b ok in a yr or so....but NC 4

> me and thats a given as she is the queen character and i believe thats

> pretty bad...

> Thanks Terry

>

[Guest guest]

Hi ,

Just want to say to take care of yourselves at this very difficult time. You

are both lucky in that you have each other that understand. On the other hand

you both are in need of healing. All you can do is support each other and love

each other. Both my husband and I have dysfunctional families. We had to move

so far away having NC with some family and LC with others. Our marriage

wouldn't have survived had we not done this.

Love will get you through. Unfortunately we have to hit rock bottom before we

start to look to heal and it is a long journey.

It is well worth all the hard work.

I have an amazing life with my husband and our Daughter. It hasn't been easy

though. My husband also had a break down many years ago now too. I have also

had my fair share of depression and anxiety isues to work on. We are on the

other side now. So just wanted to give you some hope. We love and respect each

other so much and helped each other heal.

We also knew we couldn't do it for each other and had to put in the hard work of

soul searching on our own. It is much easier to do though when you have love

and support from each other.

I hope today finds you stronger and remember it is one day at a time. Keep

posting and know that people here understand and care.

Wishing all the best for you and your husband,

Kazam x

>

> Hi All,

>

> Sorry I have not posted in a while, its been a terrible few months for me. I

am nearly a year NC from my nada, it was my hubby to be when we first met who

recognised my nada etc, and since then ive been healing and seeing professionals

etc regarding my situation.

>

> However, over the last couple of months my hubby has had a breakdown, and

himself been to see professionals etc, and it turns out that his mom has also

severely emotionally abused him all his life too.

>

> By reading the literature on BPD she seems to be the " Queen " , my hubby tried

to take his life last week, as he couldnt understand were his emotional pain has

been coming from, even though he is very happy with me, he has this voice inside

him telling him he is a fake, he is bad, he will never amount to anything etc,

it all got on top of him last week, luckily now he is now getting all the

support he needs and uncovering alot about his mom with the help of shrinks etc.

>

> He is currently being given the silent treatment by her, as I am too, she

called the other night " drunk " , but nothing since, I just feel so hurt for him

and myself and my son, as I was hoovered in by her niceness to me and my son,

and really thought everything was ok. It was only when my hubby was in hospital

after trying to take his life, that I spent time at his moms house, and wow did

I see what I feared I would see, verbal abuse to his father, controlling, name

calling, everything you can imagine, she was not even at her sons bedside when

he came round. I feel so stuck in this, I should know better really with having

my own mother similar but thats it the but I just dont know.

>

> Anyway, thanks for reading this post, any feedback thoughts would be really

appreciated at this very stressful and emotional time.

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> Love x

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