Guest guest Posted August 24, 2004 Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 Can anyone tell me how long it takes for the guardianship process? I contacted an attorney and he is trying to find one in our county. turns 18 on Sept. 11. Yesterday when I was checking her in, they Dean of girls asked if I had guardianship of her yet because once she turns 18, if I don't already have it, she can't contact me for any reason. Am I going to have enough time to get this done? Do I need to be doing something? I'm sure things might vary from state to state, but anyone had experience with this? Thanks so much, Sheryl Mom to Mitch 18 and 17 CHARGE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 24, 2004 Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 Sheryl, Applying for guardianship is so easy to do. All I had to do was to go to the town hall and meet with the Judge of Probate. I did it a little differently though. You can sign for guardianship right there and then. I found out though that you can also be signed over as a conservator. This is something that is voluntary and Patty can undo that any time she wants. With that she also is responsible for her own life. I am notified of things and help her where she needs it. Really though it decisions for themselves and a guardian is to protect those decisions or override them if they are unsafe... Whatever you do it is really easy. Do it quickly though. If you have to take her to a doctor, or anywhere else for that matter no one can talk to you unless gives you permission. I know you are missing being at school now but it is something wonderful at the same time. Isn't it funny how many different feelings you can have all at once. I am so glad to hear how well is doing. It sounds like her life is on the right path now. That is all because of you. You are such a strong mother and woman. What a role model you are for others. I hope everything else is well with you and your family. Take care, Bonnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 24, 2004 Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 Sheryl, Applying for guardianship is so easy to do. All I had to do was to go to the town hall and meet with the Judge of Probate. I did it a little differently though. You can sign for guardianship right there and then. I found out though that you can also be signed over as a conservator. This is something that is voluntary and Patty can undo that any time she wants. With that she also is responsible for her own life. I am notified of things and help her where she needs it. Really though it decisions for themselves and a guardian is to protect those decisions or override them if they are unsafe... Whatever you do it is really easy. Do it quickly though. If you have to take her to a doctor, or anywhere else for that matter no one can talk to you unless gives you permission. I know you are missing being at school now but it is something wonderful at the same time. Isn't it funny how many different feelings you can have all at once. I am so glad to hear how well is doing. It sounds like her life is on the right path now. That is all because of you. You are such a strong mother and woman. What a role model you are for others. I hope everything else is well with you and your family. Take care, Bonnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 24, 2004 Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 Sheryl, Applying for guardianship is so easy to do. All I had to do was to go to the town hall and meet with the Judge of Probate. I did it a little differently though. You can sign for guardianship right there and then. I found out though that you can also be signed over as a conservator. This is something that is voluntary and Patty can undo that any time she wants. With that she also is responsible for her own life. I am notified of things and help her where she needs it. Really though it decisions for themselves and a guardian is to protect those decisions or override them if they are unsafe... Whatever you do it is really easy. Do it quickly though. If you have to take her to a doctor, or anywhere else for that matter no one can talk to you unless gives you permission. I know you are missing being at school now but it is something wonderful at the same time. Isn't it funny how many different feelings you can have all at once. I am so glad to hear how well is doing. It sounds like her life is on the right path now. That is all because of you. You are such a strong mother and woman. What a role model you are for others. I hope everything else is well with you and your family. Take care, Bonnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 24, 2004 Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 I would just like to add to what Martha and Bonnie said about guardianship--it is a fairly easy process. Of course, each state is different and with that there are different ways to deal with the lawyer/paperwork. Your daughter's school can probably help do this, too, as I am sure they have people they deal with. The School Psychologist at ISD can probably sign off as can the Social Worker and then all you need is a lawyer for the last part. For us at Perkins, for the MA. kids, I can sign off as can the Social Worker, so there are two fees that are " waived " , and parents, then, only have to pay the lawyer ( I don't think it is a lot of money, but I can't say right now). Bonnie and Martha are right--the process is simple, but the emotional/psychological ramifications can be the hard part for parents--trying to do the right thing and make sure protections and safeguards are in place. Good luck, but you really won't need it--it is a routine thing! pam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 24, 2004 Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 I would just like to add to what Martha and Bonnie said about guardianship--it is a fairly easy process. Of course, each state is different and with that there are different ways to deal with the lawyer/paperwork. Your daughter's school can probably help do this, too, as I am sure they have people they deal with. The School Psychologist at ISD can probably sign off as can the Social Worker and then all you need is a lawyer for the last part. For us at Perkins, for the MA. kids, I can sign off as can the Social Worker, so there are two fees that are " waived " , and parents, then, only have to pay the lawyer ( I don't think it is a lot of money, but I can't say right now). Bonnie and Martha are right--the process is simple, but the emotional/psychological ramifications can be the hard part for parents--trying to do the right thing and make sure protections and safeguards are in place. Good luck, but you really won't need it--it is a routine thing! pam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 24, 2004 Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 I would just like to add to what Martha and Bonnie said about guardianship--it is a fairly easy process. Of course, each state is different and with that there are different ways to deal with the lawyer/paperwork. Your daughter's school can probably help do this, too, as I am sure they have people they deal with. The School Psychologist at ISD can probably sign off as can the Social Worker and then all you need is a lawyer for the last part. For us at Perkins, for the MA. kids, I can sign off as can the Social Worker, so there are two fees that are " waived " , and parents, then, only have to pay the lawyer ( I don't think it is a lot of money, but I can't say right now). Bonnie and Martha are right--the process is simple, but the emotional/psychological ramifications can be the hard part for parents--trying to do the right thing and make sure protections and safeguards are in place. Good luck, but you really won't need it--it is a routine thing! pam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 1, 2004 Report Share Posted September 1, 2004 Pam, Martha, Bonnie & Debra, Thank you for the information about guardianship. I had contacted our legal aid center and filled out the paperwork to get an attorney. However after returning the paperwork, I have been unable to get any phone calls returned or my questions answered. I also tried to contact attorneys directly and found that my time frame was just too short for them to be able to help. So, today I called our local probate clerk and she said I just needed to fill out the paperwork she had and then send it back so it can be presented to the judge that will be in town on Tuesday of next week. She did say that someone would need to interview . When I explained that she would not understand what was going on and would not have any input, she just told me to document her disabilities and the judge should have no problem signing off on it. Documentation..now that is something I have and can do. It sounds like now I will be able to get this done before she turns 18. I will still have some reservation until I have papers in hand but I am not quite as nervous as I had been. Again, thank you all for your help. Sheryl Mom to Mitch 18 and 17 CHARGE > I would just like to add to what Martha and Bonnie said about guardianship--it is a fairly easy process. Of course, each state is different and with that there are different ways to deal with the lawyer/paperwork. Your daughter's school can probably help do this, too, as I am sure they have people they deal with. The School Psychologist at ISD can probably sign off as can the Social Worker and then all you need is a lawyer for the last part. For us at Perkins, for the MA. kids, I can sign off as can the Social Worker, so there are two fees that are " waived " , and parents, then, only have to pay the lawyer ( I don't think it is a lot of money, but I can't say right now). > > Bonnie and Martha are right--the process is simple, but the emotional/psychological ramifications can be the hard part for parents--trying to do the right thing and make sure protections and safeguards are in place. Good luck, but you really won't need it--it is a routine thing! > > pam > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 1, 2004 Report Share Posted September 1, 2004 Pam, Martha, Bonnie & Debra, Thank you for the information about guardianship. I had contacted our legal aid center and filled out the paperwork to get an attorney. However after returning the paperwork, I have been unable to get any phone calls returned or my questions answered. I also tried to contact attorneys directly and found that my time frame was just too short for them to be able to help. So, today I called our local probate clerk and she said I just needed to fill out the paperwork she had and then send it back so it can be presented to the judge that will be in town on Tuesday of next week. She did say that someone would need to interview . When I explained that she would not understand what was going on and would not have any input, she just told me to document her disabilities and the judge should have no problem signing off on it. Documentation..now that is something I have and can do. It sounds like now I will be able to get this done before she turns 18. I will still have some reservation until I have papers in hand but I am not quite as nervous as I had been. Again, thank you all for your help. Sheryl Mom to Mitch 18 and 17 CHARGE > I would just like to add to what Martha and Bonnie said about guardianship--it is a fairly easy process. Of course, each state is different and with that there are different ways to deal with the lawyer/paperwork. Your daughter's school can probably help do this, too, as I am sure they have people they deal with. The School Psychologist at ISD can probably sign off as can the Social Worker and then all you need is a lawyer for the last part. For us at Perkins, for the MA. kids, I can sign off as can the Social Worker, so there are two fees that are " waived " , and parents, then, only have to pay the lawyer ( I don't think it is a lot of money, but I can't say right now). > > Bonnie and Martha are right--the process is simple, but the emotional/psychological ramifications can be the hard part for parents--trying to do the right thing and make sure protections and safeguards are in place. Good luck, but you really won't need it--it is a routine thing! > > pam > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 1, 2004 Report Share Posted September 1, 2004 Pam, Martha, Bonnie & Debra, Thank you for the information about guardianship. I had contacted our legal aid center and filled out the paperwork to get an attorney. However after returning the paperwork, I have been unable to get any phone calls returned or my questions answered. I also tried to contact attorneys directly and found that my time frame was just too short for them to be able to help. So, today I called our local probate clerk and she said I just needed to fill out the paperwork she had and then send it back so it can be presented to the judge that will be in town on Tuesday of next week. She did say that someone would need to interview . When I explained that she would not understand what was going on and would not have any input, she just told me to document her disabilities and the judge should have no problem signing off on it. Documentation..now that is something I have and can do. It sounds like now I will be able to get this done before she turns 18. I will still have some reservation until I have papers in hand but I am not quite as nervous as I had been. Again, thank you all for your help. Sheryl Mom to Mitch 18 and 17 CHARGE > I would just like to add to what Martha and Bonnie said about guardianship--it is a fairly easy process. Of course, each state is different and with that there are different ways to deal with the lawyer/paperwork. Your daughter's school can probably help do this, too, as I am sure they have people they deal with. The School Psychologist at ISD can probably sign off as can the Social Worker and then all you need is a lawyer for the last part. For us at Perkins, for the MA. kids, I can sign off as can the Social Worker, so there are two fees that are " waived " , and parents, then, only have to pay the lawyer ( I don't think it is a lot of money, but I can't say right now). > > Bonnie and Martha are right--the process is simple, but the emotional/psychological ramifications can be the hard part for parents--trying to do the right thing and make sure protections and safeguards are in place. Good luck, but you really won't need it--it is a routine thing! > > pam > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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