Re: now after .

[Guest guest]

Hi , I am sorry for your loss. I can understand what you are going

through. If you need help in any way, feel free to call me, even if you need

someone to talk to. If I or my wife Vicki are not in, leave a number where we

can get back to you.

Pastor Darryl Breffe

now after .

Hi all:

Well I am really sorry that I have not written to the list for a while. I have

replied to a few, but I just have not had the heart

to write much about what is going on. My spirits are a little higher this

morning so I thought I would write a quick note to let

you know how I am doing.

's memorial service was very beautiful. and I had already picked out

the scriptures and music that he wanted and it all

dovetailed in to a very smooth and beautiful service. Apparently the ushers

did a head count, and sixty people came to the service

and about forty people came to the luncheon afterwards. 's brothers Don,

and Ron and his ister Ellen came as well. The

only one that did not show up was Audrey but I guess she could not help that.

In a couple of weeks, 's brother Don is going to

arrange to rent a twelve people canoe from a friend of his and we are going to

paddle out to Metla Catla pass which is where

would like his ashes scattered. It is a very beautiful spot. I am happy to do

that. At first I thought I would like to safe a

small erne of his ashes where I can visit but then I thought, they are only

ashes after all. He is not there. He is home with our

Lord. But there is so much stuff to do right now. My love was a pack rat I

have to admit and a lot of his stuff just has to go.

Of course I am saving the things that and I enjoyed together especially,

but he had thousands of books literally. a lot of

them were not stored properly so got moldy and can't be saved. I would

eventually like to sell this mobile home so I just cannot

keep everything. But of course there are things that I just cannot part with

right now. Evertything makes me cry. I just can't

help it. I will be ok for a while and then I run into something and start just

crying and crying. I know that I have to take the

time to grieve, but oh this is so hard. I just wish I could be with him so

much. But then what would my daughter and grand kids

and all I left behind do? I could never do anything foolish. And would

not like that anyways. I will see him soon enough I

guess. There is just so much I don't know what to do with. He downloaded so

many tv shows and movies and put them on to cd but I

cannot access our dvd player to play them. I hahave kept some of our favorites

and some of the old vcr tapes since I don't have any

trouble with the vcr machine. Talk about old technology ay? I just feel like I

am in despair this morning and I have so much to

do. My sister is helpig me fill out the papers to send in to the government

but I have to go back to the funeral home and get some

more original coppies of the death sertificate because there are so many

places that don't want coppies. Oh well. I didn't mean to

bring everyone down. My friends and family have been wonderful support. 's

sister Ellen stayed with me for a couple of days

and so did his brother Don. My daughter Grace also stayed a couple of nights

and now my grandson stayed with me the night

before last and last night as well. They are all so wonderful. also the ladies

from our church have been dropping by with meals

and that helps tremendously. I know i am going to have to resume normal

activities though pretty quick, and that should help some.

Well I have rambled enough and I appreciate it if you are still reading. I

just thank God for my family. My daughter and grandkids

really came through as well as my sister Bonny and my Mom and stepdad.

don't let your worries get the best of you. Remember Moses started out as a

basket case.

Love and hugs,

and her furry companions.

[Guest guest]

Hi , I am sorry for your loss. I can understand what you are going

through. If you need help in any way, feel free to call me, even if you need

someone to talk to. If I or my wife Vicki are not in, leave a number where we

can get back to you.

Pastor Darryl Breffe

now after .

Hi all:

Well I am really sorry that I have not written to the list for a while. I have

replied to a few, but I just have not had the heart

to write much about what is going on. My spirits are a little higher this

morning so I thought I would write a quick note to let

you know how I am doing.

's memorial service was very beautiful. and I had already picked out

the scriptures and music that he wanted and it all

dovetailed in to a very smooth and beautiful service. Apparently the ushers

did a head count, and sixty people came to the service

and about forty people came to the luncheon afterwards. 's brothers Don,

and Ron and his ister Ellen came as well. The

only one that did not show up was Audrey but I guess she could not help that.

In a couple of weeks, 's brother Don is going to

arrange to rent a twelve people canoe from a friend of his and we are going to

paddle out to Metla Catla pass which is where

would like his ashes scattered. It is a very beautiful spot. I am happy to do

that. At first I thought I would like to safe a

small erne of his ashes where I can visit but then I thought, they are only

ashes after all. He is not there. He is home with our

Lord. But there is so much stuff to do right now. My love was a pack rat I

have to admit and a lot of his stuff just has to go.

Of course I am saving the things that and I enjoyed together especially,

but he had thousands of books literally. a lot of

them were not stored properly so got moldy and can't be saved. I would

eventually like to sell this mobile home so I just cannot

keep everything. But of course there are things that I just cannot part with

right now. Evertything makes me cry. I just can't

help it. I will be ok for a while and then I run into something and start just

crying and crying. I know that I have to take the

time to grieve, but oh this is so hard. I just wish I could be with him so

much. But then what would my daughter and grand kids

and all I left behind do? I could never do anything foolish. And would

not like that anyways. I will see him soon enough I

guess. There is just so much I don't know what to do with. He downloaded so

many tv shows and movies and put them on to cd but I

cannot access our dvd player to play them. I hahave kept some of our favorites

and some of the old vcr tapes since I don't have any

trouble with the vcr machine. Talk about old technology ay? I just feel like I

am in despair this morning and I have so much to

do. My sister is helpig me fill out the papers to send in to the government

but I have to go back to the funeral home and get some

more original coppies of the death sertificate because there are so many

places that don't want coppies. Oh well. I didn't mean to

bring everyone down. My friends and family have been wonderful support. 's

sister Ellen stayed with me for a couple of days

and so did his brother Don. My daughter Grace also stayed a couple of nights

and now my grandson stayed with me the night

before last and last night as well. They are all so wonderful. also the ladies

from our church have been dropping by with meals

and that helps tremendously. I know i am going to have to resume normal

activities though pretty quick, and that should help some.

Well I have rambled enough and I appreciate it if you are still reading. I

just thank God for my family. My daughter and grandkids

really came through as well as my sister Bonny and my Mom and stepdad.

don't let your worries get the best of you. Remember Moses started out as a

basket case.

Love and hugs,

and her furry companions.

[Guest guest]

This is tought time for you . So gald you have such a wonderful,

supportive family. Hang in there girl, things will slowly get better.s

now after .

Hi all:

Well I am really sorry that I have not written to the list for a while. I

have replied to a few, but I just have not had the heart

to write much about what is going on. My spirits are a little higher this

morning so I thought I would write a quick note to let

you know how I am doing.

's memorial service was very beautiful. and I had already picked

out the scriptures and music that he wanted and it all

dovetailed in to a very smooth and beautiful service. Apparently the ushers

did a head count, and sixty people came to the service

and about forty people came to the luncheon afterwards. 's brothers Don,

and Ron and his ister Ellen came as well. The

only one that did not show up was Audrey but I guess she could not help

that. In a couple of weeks, 's brother Don is going to

arrange to rent a twelve people canoe from a friend of his and we are going

to paddle out to Metla Catla pass which is where

would like his ashes scattered. It is a very beautiful spot. I am happy to

do that. At first I thought I would like to safe a

small erne of his ashes where I can visit but then I thought, they are only

ashes after all. He is not there. He is home with our

Lord. But there is so much stuff to do right now. My love was a pack rat I

have to admit and a lot of his stuff just has to go.

Of course I am saving the things that and I enjoyed together

especially, but he had thousands of books literally. a lot of

them were not stored properly so got moldy and can't be saved. I would

eventually like to sell this mobile home so I just cannot

keep everything. But of course there are things that I just cannot part with

right now. Evertything makes me cry. I just can't

help it. I will be ok for a while and then I run into something and start

just crying and crying. I know that I have to take the

time to grieve, but oh this is so hard. I just wish I could be with him so

much. But then what would my daughter and grand kids

and all I left behind do? I could never do anything foolish. And would

not like that anyways. I will see him soon enough I

guess. There is just so much I don't know what to do with. He downloaded so

many tv shows and movies and put them on to cd but I

cannot access our dvd player to play them. I hahave kept some of our

favorites and some of the old vcr tapes since I don't have any

trouble with the vcr machine. Talk about old technology ay? I just feel like

I am in despair this morning and I have so much to

do. My sister is helpig me fill out the papers to send in to the government

but I have to go back to the funeral home and get some

more original coppies of the death sertificate because there are so many

places that don't want coppies. Oh well. I didn't mean to

bring everyone down. My friends and family have been wonderful support.

's sister Ellen stayed with me for a couple of days

and so did his brother Don. My daughter Grace also stayed a couple of nights

and now my grandson stayed with me the night

before last and last night as well. They are all so wonderful. also the

ladies from our church have been dropping by with meals

and that helps tremendously. I know i am going to have to resume normal

activities though pretty quick, and that should help some.

Well I have rambled enough and I appreciate it if you are still reading. I

just thank God for my family. My daughter and grandkids

really came through as well as my sister Bonny and my Mom and stepdad.

don't let your worries get the best of you. Remember Moses started out as a

basket case.

Love and hugs,

and her furry companions.

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[Guest guest]

This is tought time for you . So gald you have such a wonderful,

supportive family. Hang in there girl, things will slowly get better.s

now after .

Hi all:

Well I am really sorry that I have not written to the list for a while. I

have replied to a few, but I just have not had the heart

to write much about what is going on. My spirits are a little higher this

morning so I thought I would write a quick note to let

you know how I am doing.

's memorial service was very beautiful. and I had already picked

out the scriptures and music that he wanted and it all

dovetailed in to a very smooth and beautiful service. Apparently the ushers

did a head count, and sixty people came to the service

and about forty people came to the luncheon afterwards. 's brothers Don,

and Ron and his ister Ellen came as well. The

only one that did not show up was Audrey but I guess she could not help

that. In a couple of weeks, 's brother Don is going to

arrange to rent a twelve people canoe from a friend of his and we are going

to paddle out to Metla Catla pass which is where

would like his ashes scattered. It is a very beautiful spot. I am happy to

do that. At first I thought I would like to safe a

small erne of his ashes where I can visit but then I thought, they are only

ashes after all. He is not there. He is home with our

Lord. But there is so much stuff to do right now. My love was a pack rat I

have to admit and a lot of his stuff just has to go.

Of course I am saving the things that and I enjoyed together

especially, but he had thousands of books literally. a lot of

them were not stored properly so got moldy and can't be saved. I would

eventually like to sell this mobile home so I just cannot

keep everything. But of course there are things that I just cannot part with

right now. Evertything makes me cry. I just can't

help it. I will be ok for a while and then I run into something and start

just crying and crying. I know that I have to take the

time to grieve, but oh this is so hard. I just wish I could be with him so

much. But then what would my daughter and grand kids

and all I left behind do? I could never do anything foolish. And would

not like that anyways. I will see him soon enough I

guess. There is just so much I don't know what to do with. He downloaded so

many tv shows and movies and put them on to cd but I

cannot access our dvd player to play them. I hahave kept some of our

favorites and some of the old vcr tapes since I don't have any

trouble with the vcr machine. Talk about old technology ay? I just feel like

I am in despair this morning and I have so much to

do. My sister is helpig me fill out the papers to send in to the government

but I have to go back to the funeral home and get some

more original coppies of the death sertificate because there are so many

places that don't want coppies. Oh well. I didn't mean to

bring everyone down. My friends and family have been wonderful support.

's sister Ellen stayed with me for a couple of days

and so did his brother Don. My daughter Grace also stayed a couple of nights

and now my grandson stayed with me the night

before last and last night as well. They are all so wonderful. also the

ladies from our church have been dropping by with meals

and that helps tremendously. I know i am going to have to resume normal

activities though pretty quick, and that should help some.

Well I have rambled enough and I appreciate it if you are still reading. I

just thank God for my family. My daughter and grandkids

really came through as well as my sister Bonny and my Mom and stepdad.

don't let your worries get the best of you. Remember Moses started out as a

basket case.

Love and hugs,

and her furry companions.

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This message was checked by NOD32 antivirus system.

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[Guest guest]

wendy, my husband past away thirteen years ago and just this year i got around

to dealing with his music collection. just to show you when the love is so deep

stuff gets put off. it takes as long as it takes. dont rush yourself but be

thankful for the love you had some people go thru live and never find a

wonderful love. you will get just to get comfort in the memories. god bless you

and yours, karen, one who has been there.

now after .

Hi all:

Well I am really sorry that I have not written to the list for a while. I have

replied to a few, but I just have not had the heart

to write much about what is going on. My spirits are a little higher this

morning so I thought I would write a quick note to let

you know how I am doing.

's memorial service was very beautiful. and I had already picked out

the scriptures and music that he wanted and it all

dovetailed in to a very smooth and beautiful service. Apparently the ushers

did a head count, and sixty people came to the service

and about forty people came to the luncheon afterwards. 's brothers Don,

and Ron and his ister Ellen came as well. The

only one that did not show up was Audrey but I guess she could not help that.

In a couple of weeks, 's brother Don is going to

arrange to rent a twelve people canoe from a friend of his and we are going to

paddle out to Metla Catla pass which is where

would like his ashes scattered. It is a very beautiful spot. I am happy to do

that. At first I thought I would like to safe a

small erne of his ashes where I can visit but then I thought, they are only

ashes after all. He is not there. He is home with our

Lord. But there is so much stuff to do right now. My love was a pack rat I

have to admit and a lot of his stuff just has to go.

Of course I am saving the things that and I enjoyed together especially,

but he had thousands of books literally. a lot of

them were not stored properly so got moldy and can't be saved. I would

eventually like to sell this mobile home so I just cannot

keep everything. But of course there are things that I just cannot part with

right now. Evertything makes me cry. I just can't

help it. I will be ok for a while and then I run into something and start just

crying and crying. I know that I have to take the

time to grieve, but oh this is so hard. I just wish I could be with him so

much. But then what would my daughter and grand kids

and all I left behind do? I could never do anything foolish. And would

not like that anyways. I will see him soon enough I

guess. There is just so much I don't know what to do with. He downloaded so

many tv shows and movies and put them on to cd but I

cannot access our dvd player to play them. I hahave kept some of our favorites

and some of the old vcr tapes since I don't have any

trouble with the vcr machine. Talk about old technology ay? I just feel like I

am in despair this morning and I have so much to

do. My sister is helpig me fill out the papers to send in to the government

but I have to go back to the funeral home and get some

more original coppies of the death sertificate because there are so many

places that don't want coppies. Oh well. I didn't mean to

bring everyone down. My friends and family have been wonderful support. 's

sister Ellen stayed with me for a couple of days

and so did his brother Don. My daughter Grace also stayed a couple of nights

and now my grandson stayed with me the night

before last and last night as well. They are all so wonderful. also the ladies

from our church have been dropping by with meals

and that helps tremendously. I know i am going to have to resume normal

activities though pretty quick, and that should help some.

Well I have rambled enough and I appreciate it if you are still reading. I

just thank God for my family. My daughter and grandkids

really came through as well as my sister Bonny and my Mom and stepdad.

don't let your worries get the best of you. Remember Moses started out as a

basket case.

Love and hugs,

and her furry companions.

[Guest guest]

wendy, my husband past away thirteen years ago and just this year i got around

to dealing with his music collection. just to show you when the love is so deep

stuff gets put off. it takes as long as it takes. dont rush yourself but be

thankful for the love you had some people go thru live and never find a

wonderful love. you will get just to get comfort in the memories. god bless you

and yours, karen, one who has been there.

now after .

Hi all:

Well I am really sorry that I have not written to the list for a while. I have

replied to a few, but I just have not had the heart

to write much about what is going on. My spirits are a little higher this

morning so I thought I would write a quick note to let

you know how I am doing.

's memorial service was very beautiful. and I had already picked out

the scriptures and music that he wanted and it all

dovetailed in to a very smooth and beautiful service. Apparently the ushers

did a head count, and sixty people came to the service

and about forty people came to the luncheon afterwards. 's brothers Don,

and Ron and his ister Ellen came as well. The

only one that did not show up was Audrey but I guess she could not help that.

In a couple of weeks, 's brother Don is going to

arrange to rent a twelve people canoe from a friend of his and we are going to

paddle out to Metla Catla pass which is where

would like his ashes scattered. It is a very beautiful spot. I am happy to do

that. At first I thought I would like to safe a

small erne of his ashes where I can visit but then I thought, they are only

ashes after all. He is not there. He is home with our

Lord. But there is so much stuff to do right now. My love was a pack rat I

have to admit and a lot of his stuff just has to go.

Of course I am saving the things that and I enjoyed together especially,

but he had thousands of books literally. a lot of

them were not stored properly so got moldy and can't be saved. I would

eventually like to sell this mobile home so I just cannot

keep everything. But of course there are things that I just cannot part with

right now. Evertything makes me cry. I just can't

help it. I will be ok for a while and then I run into something and start just

crying and crying. I know that I have to take the

time to grieve, but oh this is so hard. I just wish I could be with him so

much. But then what would my daughter and grand kids

and all I left behind do? I could never do anything foolish. And would

not like that anyways. I will see him soon enough I

guess. There is just so much I don't know what to do with. He downloaded so

many tv shows and movies and put them on to cd but I

cannot access our dvd player to play them. I hahave kept some of our favorites

and some of the old vcr tapes since I don't have any

trouble with the vcr machine. Talk about old technology ay? I just feel like I

am in despair this morning and I have so much to

do. My sister is helpig me fill out the papers to send in to the government

but I have to go back to the funeral home and get some

more original coppies of the death sertificate because there are so many

places that don't want coppies. Oh well. I didn't mean to

bring everyone down. My friends and family have been wonderful support. 's

sister Ellen stayed with me for a couple of days

and so did his brother Don. My daughter Grace also stayed a couple of nights

and now my grandson stayed with me the night

before last and last night as well. They are all so wonderful. also the ladies

from our church have been dropping by with meals

and that helps tremendously. I know i am going to have to resume normal

activities though pretty quick, and that should help some.

Well I have rambled enough and I appreciate it if you are still reading. I

just thank God for my family. My daughter and grandkids

really came through as well as my sister Bonny and my Mom and stepdad.

don't let your worries get the best of you. Remember Moses started out as a

basket case.

Love and hugs,

and her furry companions.

[Guest guest]

, DON't DO anything during the time YOU are grieving because it will be

that much harder TO DO. DON't even think OF TOSSING stuff OUT because YOU are

NOT ready TO DO that at this POINT in time. IF YOU DO YOU are GOING TO make it

that much MORE difficult. DO it when it is NOT GOING TO make YOU cry SO easily.

Try TO wait at least a year. I KNOW YOU want TO get stuff cleaned up and

cleaned OUT, but DON't DO it till YOU are ready TO DO it. Because YOU will feel

like YOU are GOING 5 steps FORWARD and 9 steps backwards. Waiat till YOU feel

like YOU are strONGER>

Be mORE gentle with YOURSELF.

LOVE and hugs TO YOU and YOUR furry ONES FROM Jade, Bunny and I, Terrie.

now after .

Hi all:

Well I am really sorry that I have not written to the list for a while. I have

replied to a few, but I just have not had the heart

to write much about what is going on. My spirits are a little higher this

morning so I thought I would write a quick note to let

you know how I am doing.

's memorial service was very beautiful. and I had already picked out

the scriptures and music that he wanted and it all

dovetailed in to a very smooth and beautiful service. Apparently the ushers

did a head count, and sixty people came to the service

and about forty people came to the luncheon afterwards. 's brothers Don,

and Ron and his ister Ellen came as well. The

only one that did not show up was Audrey but I guess she could not help that.

In a couple of weeks, 's brother Don is going to

arrange to rent a twelve people canoe from a friend of his and we are going to

paddle out to Metla Catla pass which is where

would like his ashes scattered. It is a very beautiful spot. I am happy to do

that. At first I thought I would like to safe a

small erne of his ashes where I can visit but then I thought, they are only

ashes after all. He is not there. He is home with our

Lord. But there is so much stuff to do right now. My love was a pack rat I

have to admit and a lot of his stuff just has to go.

Of course I am saving the things that and I enjoyed together especially,

but he had thousands of books literally. a lot of

them were not stored properly so got moldy and can't be saved. I would

eventually like to sell this mobile home so I just cannot

keep everything. But of course there are things that I just cannot part with

right now. Evertything makes me cry. I just can't

help it. I will be ok for a while and then I run into something and start just

crying and crying. I know that I have to take the

time to grieve, but oh this is so hard. I just wish I could be with him so

much. But then what would my daughter and grand kids

and all I left behind do? I could never do anything foolish. And would

not like that anyways. I will see him soon enough I

guess. There is just so much I don't know what to do with. He downloaded so

many tv shows and movies and put them on to cd but I

cannot access our dvd player to play them. I hahave kept some of our favorites

and some of the old vcr tapes since I don't have any

trouble with the vcr machine. Talk about old technology ay? I just feel like I

am in despair this morning and I have so much to

do. My sister is helpig me fill out the papers to send in to the government

but I have to go back to the funeral home and get some

more original coppies of the death sertificate because there are so many

places that don't want coppies. Oh well. I didn't mean to

bring everyone down. My friends and family have been wonderful support. 's

sister Ellen stayed with me for a couple of days

and so did his brother Don. My daughter Grace also stayed a couple of nights

and now my grandson stayed with me the night

before last and last night as well. They are all so wonderful. also the ladies

from our church have been dropping by with meals

and that helps tremendously. I know i am going to have to resume normal

activities though pretty quick, and that should help some.

Well I have rambled enough and I appreciate it if you are still reading. I

just thank God for my family. My daughter and grandkids

really came through as well as my sister Bonny and my Mom and stepdad.

don't let your worries get the best of you. Remember Moses started out as a

basket case.

Love and hugs,

and her furry companions.