Akiba Update on me

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Fortunately, he had not turned in his notice. He is on temp disability due to the surgeries so will have to go back to the place he really cares nothing for until he can find something else local.Akiba wrote: Wow, You sure have been busy. Congrats on the "I am woman" attitude, that is often hard to do (personal experience talking here) So, I guess he has to stay at his old job? Or had he quit already? Are y'all doing Ok with all that? Hugs Akiba -- Update on me I have been lurking and not really posting not only to this group and all of my groups! Has been a rough week. Remember that I told you all that (DH) was trying to get that job overseas? Well, had to stop taking his meds in order to go. One of the meds was Prozac. Mistake from hell! I went to my mom's for Easter. I left on Friday and the whole trip up there was full of txt msgs and calls from making sure that I was ok. Sunday

morning I sent him a txt telling him we were on the way home. Not one txt or phone call came from him on the way home. That got me worried and I knew what was coming when I got home. Sure enough, he had decided once again while I was away that he was unhappy and wanted to move out. Those of you that know the whole story about us will understand this. I said ok. I did not cry. I did not beg him. I simply asked how fast he could be gone. I also told him that once he walked out the door that he would never be able to walk back through it. I was done and would see a lawyer the day after he left. Boy did that shock him! He expected, I suppose, that I would break down and beg and plead like the time 3 years ago. I didn't! I felt so empowered and so strong this time. Now, another woman was not involved so don't let your minds wonder. Well, the week went on and he slept on the couch and

I did my own things. Played with my son. Went shopping. Cooked wonderful dinners. Kept busy cleaning the house. What energy I had! And still do! I started taking some diet pills and yes my doctors all approved. They are giving me much energy! I love them. Started them the on Good Friday. Anyway, I just simply treated as though he were a roommate or house guest. He told me yesterday that he had gone back to taking his Prozac on Tues and was feeling a bit better than he had the past month or so. I said that was good and hoped he did well. He then said he was wrong and an ass and asked for my forgiveness for being that way. Of course I forgave him. He has decided that his family and staying healthy are better for him than the job overseas. He said he realized that he needed to stay on his meds in order to stay in control of his emotions. I was glad. So,

that is the story of my life the past week and why I have not been active in the group. I hope I didn't bore all of you half to death, but needed to tell my story to someone. I love you all! Tammy, Tx Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now.

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