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Thank you for sharing this with me. I'm confused though.They surgically implanted pins for 6 wks then removedthem? Can you explain the procedure please? I'm hopingher's heals without surgical intervention of any type!Your son sounds like a riot! How funny!blessings and love, Kate my daughter...> > > > Hi all,> > My 20 year old, daughter, Kara, no sooner came home from> college(Arcadia U.,Philly),> > and went to play with her siblings on our trampoline. She fell > through a> hole in the net onto> > our driveway. I rushed her to the ER. She has a broken humerous. > Though they> think it> > should heal with a hard plastic shell, after 1 wk. of a splint, > it may need> surgery, if it doesn't> > heal properly.> > We are trying to remain calm, and keep our wits. So our 2 > funnies are these:> she's put the> > 'break' in spring break; and having a broken humerous is not > very humorous!> She won't be able > > to drive for 3 mos., and I'll need to drive back and forth once > a week or> every 2 wks. to have> > it checked and x-rayed. Life is so unpredicatable. I know this > is terrible> trauma for her, but> > as a mother, it did a number on me emotionally also. Just > filling ya all in> on my household drama...love, Kate> > > >

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The head of his humerus was broken. They

used the pins—inserted into the bone surgically – to hold the bone

in place until it healed. After 6 weeks, then they pulled the pins out. Yes, it

hurt L but he hasn’t had any problems with his elbow since.

Hopefully your daughter will heal without any surgery.

Take care,

Connie

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Sent: Wednesday, March 18, 2009

10:13 PM

To: MSersLife

Subject: Re: RE: my

daughter...

Thank you for sharing this with me. I'm confused

though.

They surgically implanted

pins for 6 wks then removed

them? Can you explain the

procedure please? I'm hoping

her's heals without

surgical intervention of any type!

Your son sounds like a

riot! How funny!

blessings and love, Kate

my daughter...

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> Hi all,

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> My 20 year old, daughter, Kara, no sooner came home from

> college(Arcadia

U.,Philly),

>

> and went to play with her siblings on our trampoline. She fell

> through a

> hole in the net onto

>

> our driveway. I rushed her to the ER. She has a broken humerous.

> Though they

> think it

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> should heal with a hard plastic shell, after 1 wk. of a splint,

> it may need

> surgery, if it doesn't

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> heal properly.

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> We are trying to remain calm, and keep our wits. So our 2

> funnies are these:

> she's put the

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> 'break' in spring break; and having a broken humerous is not

> very humorous!

> She won't be able

>

> to drive for 3 mos., and I'll need to drive back and forth once

> a week or

> every 2 wks. to have

>

> it checked and x-rayed. Life is so unpredicatable. I know this

> is terrible

> trauma for her, but

>

> as a mother, it did a number on me emotionally also. Just

> filling ya all in

> on my household drama...love, Kate

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Kate, I'm real sorry to hear that. What a way to start off Spring break. Let your daughter know that I am praying that she heals quickly, and soon she'll be doing all she used to do.

And Kate, I am lifting you too. I know what this does to mothers. As if we don't have enough caos to deal with. I guess we can be thankful that it wasn't any more serious than breaking her humorous. She could have broken her neck!

Love and blessings to you all...

Valene

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To: MSersLife Sent: Wednesday, March 18, 2009 4:09:58 PMSubject: my daughter...

Hi all,

My 20 year old, daughter, Kara, no sooner came home from college(Arcadia U.,Philly),

and went to play with her siblings on our trampoline. She fell through a hole in the net onto

our driveway. I rushed her to the ER. She has a broken humerous. Though they think it

should heal with a hard plastic shell, after 1 wk. of a splint, it may need surgery, if it doesn't

heal properly.

We are trying to remain calm, and keep our wits.. So our 2 funnies are these: she's put the

'break' in spring break; and having a broken humerous is not very humorous! She won't be able

to drive for 3 mos., and I'll need to drive back and forth once a week or every 2 wks. to have

it checked and x-rayed. Life is so unpredicatable. I know this is terrible trauma for her, but

as a mother, it did a number on me emotionally also. Just filling ya all in on my household drama...love, Kate

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Hi Kate! Of course! I can only imagine how upsetting it was and still

is. Many yrs ago Pay broke her collar bone and the worse part was I was

at my gmas and we had just got there after a 14 hr drive so I couldnt

just turn around and go back. I felt awful and I know she did too. She

had to be in a sling for awile,she hated it and the pain was pretty

bad. I hope the pain isnt to bad on Kara. Im sure it is helping her

alot knowing you guys are being there for her. Lots of prayers and

hugzzz. Luv u bunches!

cassy

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Thank you so much, Cassy. I really appreciate your words andyour

sentiments to me, Karaand the whole family! It was/isupsetting to the

sibsas well, as they were the onesencouraging her to join them! love

you, Cassy,Kate

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Hi Kate,

This happened many years ago with my older brother. He was playing football, for school, and had hurt is upper leg. My dad thought it was a hamstring and had him down on the floor every night lifting weights with that leg. After about a week, when it wasn't getting any better he finally had my mom take him to the Dr., it turned out he had fractured one of the bones. After that, it didn't matter how slight the injury was, he had my mom taking any of us to the emergency room.

At a birthday party I had at Mc's for my daughter, one of the boys hurt his arm, don't remember how, but it also turned out to be a fracture. She didn't take him to the Dr. for 3 days.

The point is none of us are perfect as parents and these things are going to happen, again and again. I know it makes us all feel gulty, believe me, I feel guilty about a number of things with my daughter, including being a terrible mother. She's almost 24 now, and we were talking one day and I asked her about it, wanting her to be totally honest, and told her so, she said I did the best I could under the circumstances, which is an under-statement. She went on to say that the only thing I didn't teach her was how to save money.

She's turned out to be a beautiful, caring and loving person. And, that's just not my opinion. She used to work at a Texaco, and one time an older lady wrote a check for her bill. She had a ckeck that had bounced, and couldn't take another check from her. made sure that none of the other customers could hear what they were talking about so she wouldn't be further embarrassed and paid for her check. This was one of her regular customers, and as soon as she had the money, went back and repaid her. I happened to be there both times and introduced me the second time. The woman told me what a kind daughter I had raised, and also a number of other customers said the same thing, as well as how she was their favorite clerk and hated to see her go when she got a better job.

Let those feelings of guilt go, it's hard I know, I still have moments of doubt about how I raised my daughter. We just do the best we can and pray that it's enough. Fortunately, it ususally does.

Love and blessings,

Tina

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Kate, I'm real sorry to hear that. What a way to start off Spring break. Let your daughter know that I am praying that she heals quickly, and soon she'll be doing all she used to do.

And Kate, I am lifting you too. I know what this does to mothers. As if we don't have enough caos to deal with.. I guess we can be thankful that it wasn't any more serious than breaking her humorous. She could have broken her neck!

Love and blessings to you all...

Valene

MS and BPD Awareness

From: "katelloydkidz@ optonline. net" <katelloydkidz@ optonline. net>To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.comSent: Wednesday, March 18, 2009 4:09:58 PMSubject: my daughter...

Hi all, My 20 year old, daughter, Kara, no sooner came home from college(Arcadia U.,Philly),

and went to play with her siblings on our trampoline. She fell through a hole in the net onto

our driveway.. I rushed her to the ER. She has a broken humerous. Though they think it

should heal with a hard plastic shell, after 1 wk. of a splint, it may need surgery, if it doesn't

heal properly.

We are trying to remain calm, and keep our wits.. So our 2 funnies are these: she's put the

'break' in spring break; and having a broken humerous is not very humorous! She won't be able

to drive for 3 mos., and I'll need to drive back and forth once a week or every 2 wks. to have

it checked and x-rayed. Life is so unpredicatable. I know this is terrible trauma for her, but

as a mother, it did a number on me emotionally also. Just filling ya all in on my household drama...love, Kate

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Oh, now I understand! Thank you for the explanation.Kara's is a clean break right in the center.Glad your son's healed well. hugs, Kate my daughter...> > > > > > > > Hi all,> > > > My 20 year old, daughter, Kara, no sooner came home from> > college(Arcadia U.,Philly),> > > > and went to play with her siblings on our trampoline. She fell > > through a> > hole in the net onto> > > > our driveway. I rushed her to the ER. She has a broken > humerous. > > Though they> > think it> > > > should heal with a hard plastic shell, after 1 wk. of a > splint, > > it may need> > surgery, if it doesn't> > > > heal properly.> > > > We are trying to remain calm, and keep our wits. So our 2 > > funnies are these:> > she's put the> > > > 'break' in spring break; and having a broken humerous is not > > very humorous!> > She won't be able > > > > to drive for 3 mos., and I'll need to drive back and forth > once > > a week or> > every 2 wks. to have> > > > it checked and x-rayed. Life is so unpredicatable. I know this > > is terrible> > trauma for her, but> > > > as a mother, it did a number on me emotionally also. Just > > filling ya all in> > on my household drama...love, Kate> > > > > > > > > > > >

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Thank you, Val, I, and she, appreciate your prayers!Yes, we have all thought on what if...it had been herback or neck, or leg...I have to be thankful for thefor things like these! hugs and love, Kate my daughter...> > > Hi all, >      My 20 year old, daughter, Kara, no sooner came home from > college(Arcadia U.,Philly),> and went to play with her siblings on our trampoline. She fell > through a hole in the net onto> our driveway. I rushed her to the ER. She has a broken humerous. > Though they think it> should heal with a hard plastic shell, after 1 wk. of a splint, > it may need surgery, if it doesn't> heal properly.> We are trying to remain calm, and keep our wits. So our 2 > funnies are these: she's put the> 'break' in spring break; and having a broken humerous is not > very humorous! She won't be able > to drive for 3 mos., and I'll need to drive back and forth once > a week or every 2 wks. to have> it checked and x-rayed. Life is so unpredicatable. I know this > is terrible trauma for her, but> as a mother, it did a number on me emotionally also. Just > filling ya all in on my household drama...love, Kate> > > >

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Wow Cassy; a 14 hr. drive and then to be stuck therewith a little one with a broken collarbone! How hardthat must have been on you and on Pay.Yet you madeit through; and that is what matters--we all muddle through these situations and make it.love you and all here, Kate my daughter...> >> >> >> > Hi all, My 20 year old, daughter, Kara, no sooner came home> > from> > college(Arcadia U.,Philly),and went to play with her > siblings on> > our> > trampoline. She fell through a hole in the net ontoour driveway.> > I> > rushed her to the ER. She has a broken humerous. Though they> > think> > itshould heal with a hard plastic shell, after 1 wk. of a> > splint, it> > may need surgery, if it doesn'theal properly.We are trying to> > remain> > calm, and keep our wits. So our 2 funnies are these: she's put> > the'break' in spring break; and having a broken humerousis not> > very> > humorous! She won't be ableto drive for 3 mos., and I'll > need to> > drive> > back and forth once a week or every 2 wks. to haveit > checked and> > x-rayed. Life is so unpredicatable. I know this is terrible> > trauma for> > her, butas a mother, it did a number on me emotionally also.> > Just> > filling yaall in on my household drama...love, Kate> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> >> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >

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Thank you for this story, Tina. It really warmed my heart.Your daughter really is a lovely, caring person, and youshould not only be proud of her, but proud of yourselfin the way you raised her, and obviously instilled greatqualities and morals. The story with your brother isamazing. Your dad was clueless, and then did a 180 and took you kids at the drop of a hat afterwards.Thanks again for relating. blessings, Kate my daughter...> > > > Hi all, >      My 20 year old, daughter, Kara, no sooner came home from > college(Arcadia U.,Philly),> and went to play with her siblings on our trampoline. She fell > through a hole in the net onto> our driveway. I rushed her to the ER. She has a broken humerous. > Though they think it> should heal with a hard plastic shell, after 1 wk. of a splint, > it may need surgery, if it doesn't> heal properly.> We are trying to remain calm, and keep our wits.. So our 2 > funnies are these: she's put the> 'break' in spring break; and having a broken humerous is not > very humorous! She won't be able > to drive for 3 mos., and I'll need to drive back and forth once > a week or every 2 wks. to have> it checked and x-rayed. Life is so unpredicatable. I know this > is terrible trauma for her, but> as a mother, it did a number on me emotionally also. Just > filling ya all in on my household drama...love, Kate> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >

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You're welcome Kate, I hoped they helped.

Are you from NY? I was just wondering because my dad's family is from upstate NY, Glens Falls area. And if so, how far are you from that area. I also have 2 cousins in NY with MS.

Blessings to you and your family,

Tina

> > > From: Valene L. > Subject: Re: my daughter...> To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.com> Date: Wednesday, March 18, 2009, 9:37 PM> > > > > > > > > > Kate, I'm real sorry to hear that. What a way to start off > Spring break. Let your daughter know that I am praying that she > heals quickly, and soon she'll be doing all she used to do.> And Kate, I am lifting you too. I know what this does to > mothers. As if we don't have enough caos to deal with. I guess > we can be thankful that it wasn't any more serious than breaking > her humorous. She could have broken her neck!> > Love and blessings to you all...>

Valene> > > > MS and BPD Awareness> > > > > > > > > From: "katelloydkidz@ optonline. net" > To: MSersLife@yahoogrou ps.com> Sent: Wednesday, March 18, 2009 4:09:58 PM> Subject: my daughter...> > > > Hi all, > My 20 year old, daughter, Kara, no sooner came home from > college(Arcadia U.,Philly),> and went to play with her siblings on our trampoline. She fell > through a hole in the net onto> our driveway. I rushed her to the ER. She has a broken humerous. > Though they think it> should heal with a hard plastic shell, after 1 wk. of a splint, > it may need surgery, if it doesn't> heal properly.> We are trying to remain calm, and keep our wits.. So our 2 > funnies are these: she's put

the> 'break' in spring break; and having a broken humerous is not > very humorous! She won't be able > to drive for 3 mos., and I'll need to drive back and forth once > a week or every 2 wks. to have> it checked and x-rayed. Life is so unpredicatable. I know this > is terrible trauma for her, but> as a mother, it did a number on me emotionally also. Just > filling ya all in on my household drama...love, Kate> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >

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Sorry to learn of your daughter's accident on the trampoline. 3 months is FOREVER for a 20 yr old. This is a lot of work for you, too, driving back and forth every week.

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Hi Kate! Ya. It was aweful. You are right though, we do muddle through

and make it dont we? I hope Kara is feeling a lil better today. Poor

girl, I feel so bad for her. Im glad she is at home though and not away

at school. Luv ya lots

cassy

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Wow Cassy; a 14 hr. drive and then to be stuck therewith a little one

with a broken collarbone! How hardthat must have been on you and on

Pay.Yet you madeit through; and that is what matters--we all

muddlethrough these situations and make it.love you and all here, Kate

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& gt; & gt; remain

& gt; & gt; calm, and keep our wits. So our 2 funnies are these: she's put

& gt; & gt; the'break' in spring break; and having a broken humerousis not

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& gt; & gt; humorous! She won't be ableto drive for 3 mos., and I'll

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& gt; & gt; her, butas a mother, it did a number on me emotionally also.

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I have an uncle and a cousin that live in Glens Falls. I am down statein Westchester County, in Ossining, NY. my daughter...> > > > > > > > Hi all, > >      My 20 year old, daughter, Kara, no sooner came home from > > college(Arcadia U.,Philly),> > and went to play with her siblings on our trampoline. She fell > > through a hole in the net onto> > our driveway. I rushed her to the ER. She has a broken > humerous. > > Though they think it> > should heal with a hard plastic shell, after 1 wk. of a > splint, > > it may need surgery, if it doesn't> > heal properly.> > We are trying to remain calm, and keep our wits.. So our 2 > > funnies are these: she's put the> > 'break' in spring break; and having a broken humerous is not > > very humorous! She won't be able > > to drive for 3 mos., and I'll need to drive back and forth > once > > a week or every 2 wks. to have> > it checked and x-rayed. Life is so unpredicatable. I know this > > is terrible trauma for her, but> > as a mother, it did a number on me emotionally also. Just > > filling ya all in on my household drama...love, Kate> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >

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Thank you. She may get some help from some girlfriends,thank goodness in the ride dept.! 3 mos., as she wasjust saying tonight is going to be a long time!blessings, Kate RE: my daughter...To: mserslife > <br>> Sorry to learn of your daughter's accident on the trampoline. 3 > months is FOREVER for a 20 yr old. This is a lot of work for > you, too, driving > back and forth every week.> > > Dan U > dao_nguu@...> > > > > > > > > _________________________________________________________________> Express your personality in color! Preview and select themes for > Hotmail®. > http://www.windowslive-hotmail.com/LearnMore/personalize.aspx?ocid=TXT_MSGTX_WL_HM_express_032009#colortheme

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