Re: HELP - Anger violent behaviour dont know what to do

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It sounds like your son may have been exposed to strep and may have PANDAS. Go to the website www.pandasnetwork.org and review the symptoms. He could also have a bacterial infection which causes rage behaviors. Do you have a DAN doctor?Subject: HELP - Anger violent behaviour dont know what to doTo: mb12 valtrex Date: Thursday, October 14, 2010, 9:47 AM

Hi Everyone,

I hope someone can help me.... My son is 5 and has Autism . He started Kindergarten in September. He started at a new school transfering from preschool for 2 years in a special education class. ( about 7 students 1 teacher and 1 aide)

He seemed to love first school at first but 3 weeks ago my fiancee and I broke up after 3 years. He was the father figure in his life and about 2 days after he left ( when my son wasnt home) my son started acting very angry. throwing toys spitting yelling etc....

It has been getting worse and is now hitting and kicking his fellow classmates and aides. ( at this school he has an Autism classroom with 4 other kids but they spend the majority of time in regular ed each having an aide with them the whole time )

I'm at the point where I dontknow what to do ...I dont know if he's getting picked on in school ( his teacher says no) or if this is strictly from the breakup... He has always been so happy and docile and now he is balling up his fists in rages. He is currently on supplements and is on the GFCFSF diet and has been for years. My ex and I talked and he suggested he spend time with him like visitation and I dont know if this would help or not. I am a single parent and am running out of ideas:(

Any suggestions are welcomed.

Thank you

Dunn

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he may need to process the change

HELP - Anger violent behaviour dont know what to do

Hi Everyone,I hope someone can help me.... My son is 5 and has Autism . He started Kindergarten in September. He started at a new school transfering from preschool for 2 years in a special education class. ( about 7 students 1 teacher and 1 aide) He seemed to love first school at first but 3 weeks ago my fiancee and I broke up after 3 years. He was the father figure in his life and about 2 days after he left ( when my son wasnt home) my son started acting very angry. throwing toys spitting yelling etc.... It has been getting worse and is now hitting and kicking his fellow classmates and aides. ( at this school he has an Autism classroom with 4 other kids but they spend the majority of time in regular ed each having an aide with them the whole time ) I'm at the point where I dontknow what to do ...I dont know if he's getting picked on in school ( his teacher says no) or if this is strictly from the breakup... He has always been so happy and docile and now he is balling up his fists in rages. He is currently on supplements and is on the GFCFSF diet and has been for years. My ex and I talked and he suggested he spend time with him like visitation and I dont know if this would help or not. I am a single parent and am running out of ideas:(Any suggestions are welcomed.Thank you Dunn

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I'm so sorry, that must be so hard...I would definitely get your son checked out biomedically w/ your DAN doc. The timing could be a coincidence, but your son may just be having a hard time dealing with the loss of his " dad " . He may have no idea how to vent what he's feeling other than to act out. What a stressful situation for all of you. Whether your son's actions are because of the breakup or not, I'm sure continuing to see the only father he's known is something he needs right now. 

 

Hi Everyone,

I hope someone can help me.... My son is 5 and has Autism . He started Kindergarten in September. He started at a new school transfering from preschool for 2 years in a special education class. ( about 7 students 1 teacher and 1 aide)

He seemed to love first school at first but 3 weeks ago my fiancee and I broke up after 3 years. He was the father figure in his life and about 2 days after he left ( when my son wasnt home) my son started acting very angry. throwing toys spitting yelling etc....

It has been getting worse and is now hitting and kicking his fellow classmates and aides. ( at this school he has an Autism classroom with 4 other kids but they spend the majority of time in regular ed each having an aide with them the whole time )

I'm at the point where I dontknow what to do ...I dont know if he's getting picked on in school ( his teacher says no) or if this is strictly from the breakup... He has always been so happy and docile and now he is balling up his fists in rages. He is currently on supplements and is on the GFCFSF diet and has been for years. My ex and I talked and he suggested he spend time with him like visitation and I dont know if this would help or not. I am a single parent and am running out of ideas:(

Any suggestions are welcomed.

Thank you

Dunn

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Hi there. I am a single mom as well. I do think it is very important to maintain that connection for your son's sake. It isn't always easy and often it is like you are still connected with your ex..which ultimately you are b/c of your child. You have to be able to completely separate yourself from your personal feelings and only focus on your son's feelings. The child still has the right and the need to love the other parent and we can't deny that. It's hard sometimes but that is what it takes being a parent. If you make the commitment to let your ex be involved both of you have to stay committed to the agreement otherwise this same cycle will happen over and over again. If your ex is truly a good, positive figure for your son then you

must consider this without persoanl feelings involved. If your ex is of questionable character then perhaps you need to let your son go through the grief cycle (it is a loss of a loved one) now with a clean break. You will know in heart what is the right answer. Good luck. : )

Becky

To: mb12 valtrex Sent: Thu, October 14, 2010 6:47:55 AMSubject: HELP - Anger violent behaviour dont know what to do

Hi Everyone,I hope someone can help me.... My son is 5 and has Autism . He started Kindergarten in September. He started at a new school transfering from preschool for 2 years in a special education class. ( about 7 students 1 teacher and 1 aide) He seemed to love first school at first but 3 weeks ago my fiancee and I broke up after 3 years. He was the father figure in his life and about 2 days after he left ( when my son wasnt home) my son started acting very angry. throwing toys spitting yelling etc.... It has been getting worse and is now hitting and kicking his fellow classmates and aides. ( at this school he has an Autism classroom with 4 other kids but they spend the majority of time in regular ed each having an aide with them the whole time ) I'm at the point where I dontknow what to do ...I dont know if he's getting picked on in school ( his teacher says no) or if this is strictly from the breakup... He has

always been so happy and docile and now he is balling up his fists in rages. He is currently on supplements and is on the GFCFSF diet and has been for years. My ex and I talked and he suggested he spend time with him like visitation and I dont know if this would help or not. I am a single parent and am running out of ideas:(Any suggestions are welcomed.Thank you Dunn

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, This was my daughter after a month on ketonozole when she came down with clostridia---which a mother told me to sock culturrelle to it

Subject: HELP - Anger violent behaviour dont know what to doTo: mb12 valtrex Date: Thursday, October 14, 2010, 9:47 AM

Hi Everyone,I hope someone can help me.... My son is 5 and has Autism . He started Kindergarten in September. He started at a new school transfering from preschool for 2 years in a special education class. ( about 7 students 1 teacher and 1 aide) He seemed to love first school at first but 3 weeks ago my fiancee and I broke up after 3 years. He was the father figure in his life and about 2 days after he left ( when my son wasnt home) my son started acting very angry. throwing toys spitting yelling etc.... It has been getting worse and is now hitting and kicking his fellow classmates and aides. ( at this school he has an Autism classroom with 4 other kids but they spend the majority of time in regular ed each having an aide with them the whole time ) I'm at the point where I dontknow what to do ...I dont know if he's getting picked on in school ( his teacher says no) or if this is strictly from the breakup... He has

always been so happy and docile and now he is balling up his fists in rages. He is currently on supplements and is on the GFCFSF diet and has been for years. My ex and I talked and he suggested he spend time with him like visitation and I dont know if this would help or not. I am a single parent and am running out of ideas:(Any suggestions are welcomed.Thank you Dunn

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Are you using any new supplements, especially any high phenol supplements?

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Sorry --hopefully yor ex will help no matter what the issues are between you two. I would check for bacteria and have Dad participate--------there are many single parents out there in the ASD community--these groups are very helpful

Hi Everyone,I hope someone can help me.... My son is 5 and has Autism . He started Kindergarten in September. He started at a new school transfering from preschool for 2 years in a special education class. ( about 7 students 1 teacher and 1 aide) He seemed to love first school at first but 3 weeks ago my fiancee and I broke up after 3 years. He was the father figure in his life and about 2 days after he left ( when my son wasnt home) my son started acting very angry. throwing toys spitting yelling etc.... It has been getting worse and is now hitting and kicking his fellow classmates and aides. ( at this school he has an Autism classroom with 4 other kids but they spend the majority of time in regular ed each having an aide with them the whole time ) I'm at the point where I dontknow what to do ...I dont know if he's getting picked on in school ( his teacher says no) or if this is strictly from the breakup... He has

always been so happy and docile and now he is balling up his fists in rages. He is currently on supplements and is on the GFCFSF diet and has been for years. My ex and I talked and he suggested he spend time with him like visitation and I dont know if this would help or not. I am a single parent and am running out of ideas:(Any suggestions are welcomed.Thank you Dunn