Re: I am sssssssooooooo LIVID*!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Guest guest]

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Just let it slide right off of you... what she said makes no sense at all!

Ok, so just because you've conceived and lost the baby makes you better off than her? She's just rambling... think of it this way... IF is making her brain mush!

{{{HUGS}}}

PS: The drink may make you feel better!

[Guest guest]

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Whoa momma - I would need a drink too (but it would have to be gingerale). There are some pretty insensitive people out there. Ok, so she was a real b*tch...I hate you had to have contact with her and that you got so upset (which you had every right too). Sounds like you put her in her place, and maybe she will learn from the experience.

Dana

[Guest guest]

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Sorry to tell her, but a loss is a loss. OF COURSE you know exactly

how that feels - three times as much as she does! Sorry she made you

livid, but know that we all understand. Now about having Bob take you

out for a drink...

Dominique

[Guest guest]

What a terrible experience. Like you said its not a discussion on who

has gone through more.

Pam

[Guest guest]

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Some people are so stupid when they say things like that! Maybe she

should be careful what she wishes for, duh, no-one would wish to loose a

baby! I'd be p.o.'d too!

Vicki

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> Hello*!!!!! OMG I could just spit fire right now and need you guys to help

> calm me down. I am in my normal chat area (fertile thoughts) and this lady

> asked what I have been diagnosed with as far as infertilty and I say well

> PCOS and thyroid disease and most likely some sort of pg related problem

> because with 3 pg's I have lost all 3 and well she said at least you have

> hope to even get pg in the first place and one they clear up the loss problem

> you will be fine....and of course at this point I am confused. I say thanks

> I will remember that every time I think of my losses.....and then she says

> what is that supposed to mean?? She said she would be happy to even just get

> pg for 3 days....and I say well I guess you don't know the feeling when the

> DR says Sorry Mrs Bucala but it looks like you have had another loss.......So

> then she says she thopught she was pg one and had an early m/c and then found

> out she wasn't even pg...imagine how that would feel...HELLO I DO KNOW WHAT

> THAT FEELS LIKE......oh I am jkust so hot and upset right now I think I need

> a DRINK.......

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[Guest guest]

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She obviously doesn't know what she is talking about. I can't stand one person tries to make it seem like their pain is so much worse. Anyone who has suffered a loss would understand that. My advise - ignore her!

Love & hugs,

Jo-Ann

I am sssssssooooooo LIVID*!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hello*!!!!! OMG I could just spit fire right now and need you guys to help calm me down. I am in my normal chat area (fertile thoughts) and this lady asked what I have been diagnosed with as far as infertilty and I say well PCOS and thyroid disease and most likely some sort of pg related problem because with 3 pg's I have lost all 3 and well she said at least you have hope to even get pg in the first place and one they clear up the loss problem you will be fine....and of course at this point I am confused. I say thanks I will remember that every time I think of my losses.....and then she says what is that supposed to mean?? She said she would be happy to even just get pg for 3 days....and I say well I guess you don't know the feeling when the DR says Sorry Mrs Bucala but it looks like you have had another loss.......So then she says she thopught she was pg one and had an early m/c and then found out she wasn't even pg...imagine how that would feel...HELLO I DO KNOW WHAT THAT FEELS LIKE......oh I am jkust so hot and upset right now I think I need a DRINK.......

[Guest guest]

, this woman sounds like she was just looking for someone to pick a fight with or at least refused to believe that someone else could be hurting as much as she is. If she is ever in there again just ignore her... I know that doesn't help the frustration you feel right now, but maybe it could be avoided later. Amy 17w5d I am sssssssooooooo LIVID*!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hello*!!!!! OMG I could just spit fire right now and need you guys to help calm me down. I am in my normal chat area (fertile thoughts) and this lady asked what I have been diagnosed with as far as infertilty and I say well PCOS and thyroid disease and most likely some sort of pg related problem because with 3 pg's I have lost all 3 and well she said at least you have hope to even get pg in the first place and one they clear up the loss problem you will be fine....and of course at this point I am confused. I say thanks I will remember that every time I think of my losses.....and then she says what is that supposed to mean?? She said she would be happy to even just get pg for 3 days....and I say well I guess you don't know the feeling when the DR says Sorry Mrs Bucala but it looks like you have had another loss.......So then she says she thopught she was pg one and had an early m/c and then found out she wasn't even pg...imagine how that would feel...HELLO I DO KNOW WHAT THAT FEELS LIKE......oh I am jkust so hot and upset right now I think I need a DRINK.......

[Guest guest]

, Some people just don't use their brain!! I am sorry she upset you. Re: I am sssssssooooooo LIVID*!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ,Sorry to tell her, but a loss is a loss. OF COURSE you know exactly how that feels - three times as much as she does! Sorry she made you livid, but know that we all understand. Now about having Bob take you out for a drink...Dominique