Guest guest Posted December 16, 2003 Report Share Posted December 16, 2003 WARNING: The following contains discussion about some sensitive issues (cancer death). If you do not wish to read material of this nature, please stop now and delete this e-mail! Hi All, I saw the following article in the paper yesterday...it relates to questions and issues many of us (advanced stage IVs) have here, so I thought I'd post the link & give a few rambling thoughts. http://tinyurl.com/zhbu The article is the story of a 5 year old girl and her parents difficult struggle with her brain cancer diagnosis. Brain cancer has a " worse " prognosis than colon, with a typically shorter survival time (please keep that in mind while reading!). Nonetheless, the issues raised in this article are really common to ALL " incurable " cancer patients, which is what makes it relevant to us on this Board. Having traveled many of the same paths as Molly's parents, I immediately recognized many of the things they talked about. I too explored " Sun Soup " (never ordered it though...too expensive!)...and herbs...and clinical trials.... There are almost ALWAYS " further options " in the form of clinical trials...or " alternative medicine " ....or something...which can be done for MOST patients, regardless of how many chemos or therapies they have gone through and progressed on. The question is always a cost/benefit one: Given the uncertain nature of the potential benefit, is the COST (which may be financial, or in terms of pain/suffering from side effects, or time lost from being with family, or a dozen other things) worth the LIKELY benefit, even assuming the treatment " works " ? For example, if the treatment added an extra month or two to survival time, is it worth it? How likely is the treatment to add survival time? If only a 20% chance of clinical benefit, is that " worth it " ?, etc. Sometimes you can discuss this with the oncologist, and get significant input regarding the potential benefit. Always ask for SPECIFICS such as I have mentioned here...HOW MUCH survival time do you think this treatment could give...what PERCENTAGE of patients might be expected to have tumor shrinkage....what PERCENTAGE of patients might be expected to have " severe " side effects, etc. Oftentimes I guess they can't answer these things, but sometimes will have definite opinions and it is surely worth the asking. There is, particularly within the colon cancer community, a pretty strong feeling/belief that most " alt therapies " are a waste of time, especially for advanced patients (i.e. rapidly growing disease. A particular Alt med would have its BEST chance for " working " , assuming it does " work " , in NED patients. Most honest alt med practitioners will admit that). Some very good points were made on this topic by Arlene Harder, one of the founders of the Wellness Community (cancer support group) http://www.learningplaceonline.com/stages/together/make-most.htm But the same considerations as Arlene discusses regarding alt med could also be made regarding conventional treatment or clinical trials. As previously noted (see reference in post #7860), not all clinical trials are particularly promising - especially the Phase I s which may be all that an " advanced " stage IV is eligible for after having progressed thru multiple chemo regimens. I read somewhere that only around 5% of patients actually do benefit from a Phase I trial (most drugs being tested at this phase are failures). And even many drugs being tested in Phase III trials are not that spectacular, with HUGE numbers of patients needed for the trial to show minimal " survival benefit " of a month or two. See, e.g. http://www.cancerdecisions.com/030703.html and some of my comments here http://ourworld.compuserve.com/homepages/suthercon/cca4703.htm regarding the F. Horrobin commentary in the Feb 22 2003 Lancet (prestigious peer reviewed medical journal). In time, Molly's parents began to gain a better understanding of these issues: [snip] On the train ride back to Washington, they kept Molly busy with card games, puzzles and word searches. But Ms. Trick says she and her husband also started thinking their research might not lead to a solution. They talked about whether their pursuit of more options might cost Molly what little time she had left to enjoy her life. " We had done everything we could think of, " says Mr. Foley. " Once you start looking, one thing always leads to another thing, and you just keep going down that path searching for the next thing to try. " Says Ms. Trick: " You keep going because you feel that if you're doing something -- anything -- your child won't die. " And, even though only 5 years old, Molly herself showed a wisdom far beyond her age (and beyond that of many adults). When faced with a choice of further chemo treatment (which would have clearly reduced her quality of life and had uncertain but likely minimal - if any- efficacy) vs " no more! " , she chose the second option: [snip] Enrolling Molly in the trial would mean she would have to undergo another operation in order for surgeons to install a central line in a vein in her chest to make it easier to administer chemotherapy drugs and draw blood. She would need hours of chemotherapy infusions and could suffer side effects. One of their oncologists had advised them to ask Molly what she thought. Molly was sitting on her parents' bed reading a picture book when her parents sat down beside her. They told her there was another medicine available and that she would have to go to the hospital. Molly had already told her parents that she was convinced the doctors would have fixed her already if they knew how. Now, she answered without hesitation, according to her parents, who made notes on the conversation in a journal at the time. " I don't want them to put the medicine in me, " she said. " I don't want them to do one more thing to my body. " Cancer is a very strange thing. It seems that some people with stage IV cancer can survive a very long time while doing a minimal of treatments. I suppose I myself would fall in that category. First diagnosed with stage IV cancer in March of 2001, I have never had ANY form of chemo until Nov. of this year when I started on Xeloda. This, of course, was completely against " oncologist recommendations " and " recommended treatment course " . So here we are, almost 3 years later. Why am I still here? I don't think any of my doctors expected me to be, given the choices I made. And I can't even answer the question myself! I tried some " alterative stuff " at the beginning of my " cancer journey " , but it is difficult to say whether it really contributed anything or not to my survival (which is why I don't talk a lot about it here!). I sort of think that each cancer patient has a DIFFERENT cancer from every other cancer patient. The genetic drivers (oncogenes, tumor suppressor genes) of cancer are NOT the same for everyone. Some patient's disease is of a relatively non-aggressive nature...they will do " better " than most patients REGARDLESS of what treatment they choose. And some patinets will do worse than most patients regardless of what treatment they choose because their cancer has a more aggressive bent. We may not like it, but the fact is there seems MUCH to do with cancer and the course of disease which is completely beyond our control. Having accepted this, my philosophy has always been, " I want to live as well as possible, for as long as possible " . My treatment options will always attempt to maximize QUALITY of life over quantity. I do not value hospital time and time on the ventilator or other invasive techniques if there is little or no hope of recovery following the sacrifice. And I think that most caregivers, even if not thinking along these lines while their loved one is alive, eventually come to the same conclusion when retrospectively " looking backwards " following their loved one's death. For " late " stage IVs (and by this, I mean stage IVs who have done and progressed on all of the recommended chemos, multiple oncologists at different institutions seem to have run out of treatment choices), there undoubtedly comes a time when further treatment does more harm than good. Actually, I suspect quite a few " late " stage IVs have had their lives shortened rather than extended by insisting on treatment when it was detrimental. So apparently do many oncologists - see http://bmj.bmjjournals.com/cgi/content/full/322/7297/1267/a [snip] Many patients with cancer receive chemotherapy at the end of life, even if their kind of cancer is known to be unresponsive to the drugs, according to a study reported at the recent annual meeting of the American Society of Clinical Oncologists held in San Francisco. The finding " strongly suggests overuse of chemotherapy at the end of life, " lead author Dr Ezekiel Emanuel, chairman of the department of clinical bioethics at the US National Institutes of Health, told delegates. " Many are concerned with the quality of end of life care and specifically that patients should not be overtreated with ineffective therapies that won't improve their quality of life, " he said Of course, recognizing when one is in such a situation may not always be easy. I have a lot of references in the " Death and Dying " part of the LINKS section http://tinyurl.com/zje0 which look further into many of the issues talked about here....and some that weren't (but should have been) because this post is already way too long! Death is a natural part of life, but fear of death drives many decisions we make during the course of late stage cancer. As such, it is worth looking at more closely. I have personally found that doing this has lessened my own fear, and feel that it has helped me make better decisions regarding my own treatment. Some of the ones I recommend the most are: Hospice Net - great collection of articles for both patients and caregivers http://www.hospicenet.org/ Arlene Harder - Facing the End of Life Together http://www.learningplaceonline.com/stages/together-intro.htm Arlene Harder - Spirituality (non-denominational, not associated with any organized religion) http://www.learningplaceonline.com/spirit-intro.htm Crossing the Creek - by hospice nurse Holmes http://crossingthecreek.com/ Short stories about Death and Dying http://crossingthecreek.com/finaljourney/ Dying Patients who Acknowledge Terminal Prognosis Less Depressed http://www.annieappleseedproject.org/studonterpat.html To Flee Or Not to Flee: The Problem of Denial When Dying http://www.cancerlynx.com/denial.html Dying Words: How Should Doctors Deliver Bad News? http://www.newyorker.com/fact/content/?021028fa_fact#top Widow Net - Main site http://www.fortnet.org/WidowNet/ Widow Net - Bulletin Board http://www.fortnet.org/cgi-bin/ubb/ultimatebb.cgi Widow Net - New Member Introductions (many CC widows/widowers there) http://tinyurl.com/zji1 I hope this discussion and references are of help. As with all things cancer related, no " right " answers, different paths for all of us. I do believe that discussion of these issues is of benefit and will help clarify opinions/viewpoints...and will help caregivers do what is right for THEIR loved one when the time comes. Best Wishes to All, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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