Guest guest Posted May 29, 2001 Report Share Posted May 29, 2001 Blankhi all, just wanted to tell you my latest. i called the therapist today and told her what i did friday. she got really scared and told me to call the surgeon. i called the surgeon and told his nurse and i told her that when she was turning my neck and my stomach got sick, i said at first i thought it was because i hadn't eaten yet. she went to talk to the dr. and when she came back she told me, the dr. said it was cause i didn't eat, that if it was from the surgery it would have made me loose my balance when she first turned my head. i was sitting down. i give up on this dr. i will find me another dr. just venting guys. take care deb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 7, 2010 Report Share Posted April 7, 2010 (((())))) Oh,your post really made me smile!! I'm so happy to hear you found a therapist who deals with bereavement...and that you found one you're comfortable with.I sincerely hope you get much benefit from seeing this therapist. My therapy (that I began Octoberish,I'm so bad with dates lol) has helped me more than I ever thought possible.I wish the same for you. It was hot and a bit humid here too today,a bit early for that right,but lovely in a gentle breezy way just the same.I felt uplifted by the weather today too; the goodness of no longer having to hunker down with the winter cold.I think this time of year is perfect for new beginnings or starting something new like therapy--the season sort of supports it,it seems.I'm glad you felt some pleasure today seeing beauty in the sky. > > Hello, > I just wanted to relate that I started therapy today. While it is not directly > related to the BPD issues in my family, those issues color everything and every > part of me, so I am sure it will come up. > My main reason for going is that I was losing my ability to function and I felt the > world shrinking in on me, and a total lack of joy, just sadness. > This therapist deals with bereavement, and after our initial meeting I do feel comfortable > with her. > > After the session I walked into the parking lot to my car. The air was hot and breezy, > and I felt that breeze against my face and a bit of pleasure came to me; as I drove > home I noticed the clouds on high purple blue shelves in the sky and I felt uplifted by > the site. That is a good sign, I think. Because the world has offered me no pleasure for > many many months now. > I appreciate all the emails that come through this list; I wish I could add my comments > to every one, but there are so many! > thanks for listening > ~patricia > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 7, 2010 Report Share Posted April 7, 2010 (((())))) Oh,your post really made me smile!! I'm so happy to hear you found a therapist who deals with bereavement...and that you found one you're comfortable with.I sincerely hope you get much benefit from seeing this therapist. My therapy (that I began Octoberish,I'm so bad with dates lol) has helped me more than I ever thought possible.I wish the same for you. It was hot and a bit humid here too today,a bit early for that right,but lovely in a gentle breezy way just the same.I felt uplifted by the weather today too; the goodness of no longer having to hunker down with the winter cold.I think this time of year is perfect for new beginnings or starting something new like therapy--the season sort of supports it,it seems.I'm glad you felt some pleasure today seeing beauty in the sky. > > Hello, > I just wanted to relate that I started therapy today. While it is not directly > related to the BPD issues in my family, those issues color everything and every > part of me, so I am sure it will come up. > My main reason for going is that I was losing my ability to function and I felt the > world shrinking in on me, and a total lack of joy, just sadness. > This therapist deals with bereavement, and after our initial meeting I do feel comfortable > with her. > > After the session I walked into the parking lot to my car. The air was hot and breezy, > and I felt that breeze against my face and a bit of pleasure came to me; as I drove > home I noticed the clouds on high purple blue shelves in the sky and I felt uplifted by > the site. That is a good sign, I think. Because the world has offered me no pleasure for > many many months now. > I appreciate all the emails that come through this list; I wish I could add my comments > to every one, but there are so many! > thanks for listening > ~patricia > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 good for you !! I hope she can help :-) Jackie Hello, I just wanted to relate that I started therapy today. While it is not directly related to the BPD issues in my family, those issues color everything and every part of me, so I am sure it will come up. My main reason for going is that I was losing my ability to function and I felt the world shrinking in on me, and a total lack of joy, just sadness. This therapist deals with bereavement, and after our initial meeting I do feel comfortable with her. After the session I walked into the parking lot to my car. The air was hot and breezy, and I felt that breeze against my face and a bit of pleasure came to me; as I drove home I noticed the clouds on high purple blue shelves in the sky and I felt uplifted by the site. That is a good sign, I think. Because the world has offered me no pleasure for many many months now. I appreciate all the emails that come through this list; I wish I could add my comments to every one, but there are so many! thanks for listening ~patricia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 good for you !! I hope she can help :-) Jackie Hello, I just wanted to relate that I started therapy today. While it is not directly related to the BPD issues in my family, those issues color everything and every part of me, so I am sure it will come up. My main reason for going is that I was losing my ability to function and I felt the world shrinking in on me, and a total lack of joy, just sadness. This therapist deals with bereavement, and after our initial meeting I do feel comfortable with her. After the session I walked into the parking lot to my car. The air was hot and breezy, and I felt that breeze against my face and a bit of pleasure came to me; as I drove home I noticed the clouds on high purple blue shelves in the sky and I felt uplifted by the site. That is a good sign, I think. Because the world has offered me no pleasure for many many months now. I appreciate all the emails that come through this list; I wish I could add my comments to every one, but there are so many! thanks for listening ~patricia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 That's wonderful, . Is it your first time ever in therapy? I remember when I started, how guilty I felt talking about my mother! But how necessary it was. Like you said, the BPD colors everything...maybe even stains it! Good luck!! > > Hello, > I just wanted to relate that I started therapy today. While it is not directly > related to the BPD issues in my family, those issues color everything and every > part of me, so I am sure it will come up. > My main reason for going is that I was losing my ability to function and I felt the > world shrinking in on me, and a total lack of joy, just sadness. > This therapist deals with bereavement, and after our initial meeting I do feel comfortable > with her. > > After the session I walked into the parking lot to my car. The air was hot and breezy, > and I felt that breeze against my face and a bit of pleasure came to me; as I drove > home I noticed the clouds on high purple blue shelves in the sky and I felt uplifted by > the site. That is a good sign, I think. Because the world has offered me no pleasure for > many many months now. > I appreciate all the emails that come through this list; I wish I could add my comments > to every one, but there are so many! > thanks for listening > ~patricia > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 That's wonderful, . Is it your first time ever in therapy? I remember when I started, how guilty I felt talking about my mother! But how necessary it was. Like you said, the BPD colors everything...maybe even stains it! Good luck!! > > Hello, > I just wanted to relate that I started therapy today. While it is not directly > related to the BPD issues in my family, those issues color everything and every > part of me, so I am sure it will come up. > My main reason for going is that I was losing my ability to function and I felt the > world shrinking in on me, and a total lack of joy, just sadness. > This therapist deals with bereavement, and after our initial meeting I do feel comfortable > with her. > > After the session I walked into the parking lot to my car. The air was hot and breezy, > and I felt that breeze against my face and a bit of pleasure came to me; as I drove > home I noticed the clouds on high purple blue shelves in the sky and I felt uplifted by > the site. That is a good sign, I think. Because the world has offered me no pleasure for > many many months now. > I appreciate all the emails that come through this list; I wish I could add my comments > to every one, but there are so many! > thanks for listening > ~patricia > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 Thanks Jackie, I hope so too...I hope i can get some perspective and healing both of which I lack right now. ~patricia Re: therapy good for you !! I hope she can help :-) Jackie Hello, I just wanted to relate that I started therapy today. While it is not directly related to the BPD issues in my family, those issues color everything and every part of me, so I am sure it will come up. My main reason for going is that I was losing my ability to function and I felt the world shrinking in on me, and a total lack of joy, just sadness. This therapist deals with bereavement, and after our initial meeting I do feel comfortable with her. After the session I walked into the parking lot to my car. The air was hot and breezy, and I felt that breeze against my face and a bit of pleasure came to me; as I drove home I noticed the clouds on high purple blue shelves in the sky and I felt uplifted by the site. That is a good sign, I think. Because the world has offered me no pleasure for many many months now. I appreciate all the emails that come through this list; I wish I could add my comments to every one, but there are so many! thanks for listening ~patricia ------------------------------------ Problems? Ask our friendly List Manager for help at @.... SEND HER ANY POSTS THAT CONCERN YOU; DO NOT Respond ON THE GROUP. To order the KO bible " Stop Walking on Eggshells, " call 888-35-SHELL () for your copy. We also refer to " Understanding the Borderline Mother " (Lawson) and " Surviving the Borderline Parent, " (Roth) which you can find at any bookstore. Welcome to the WTO community! From Randi Kreger, Owner BPDCentral, WTO Online Community and author SWOE and the SWOE Workbook. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 Thanks Fiona, I have been in therapy for years and years before, starting when I was around 26 or 27. I felt guilty talking about my mom back then too. I have also gone to different therapists on and off and sort of got cynical about it, thinking, there is nothing else I can get from that venue. But right now, I need someone to help me to grieve because I am messed up in that way, and I really have no one close to me around me anymore. So yeah, BPD does stain things, that's a good way to put it. ~patricia Re: therapy That's wonderful, . Is it your first time ever in therapy? I remember when I started, how guilty I felt talking about my mother! But how necessary it was. Like you said, the BPD colors everything...maybe even stains it! Good luck!! > > Hello, > I just wanted to relate that I started therapy today. While it is not directly > related to the BPD issues in my family, those issues color everything and every > part of me, so I am sure it will come up. > My main reason for going is that I was losing my ability to function and I felt the > world shrinking in on me, and a total lack of joy, just sadness. > This therapist deals with bereavement, and after our initial meeting I do feel comfortable > with her. > > After the session I walked into the parking lot to my car. The air was hot and breezy, > and I felt that breeze against my face and a bit of pleasure came to me; as I drove > home I noticed the clouds on high purple blue shelves in the sky and I felt uplifted by > the site. That is a good sign, I think. Because the world has offered me no pleasure for > many many months now. > I appreciate all the emails that come through this list; I wish I could add my comments > to every one, but there are so many! > thanks for listening > ~patricia > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2010 Report Share Posted April 8, 2010 Thanks Fiona, I have been in therapy for years and years before, starting when I was around 26 or 27. I felt guilty talking about my mom back then too. I have also gone to different therapists on and off and sort of got cynical about it, thinking, there is nothing else I can get from that venue. But right now, I need someone to help me to grieve because I am messed up in that way, and I really have no one close to me around me anymore. So yeah, BPD does stain things, that's a good way to put it. ~patricia Re: therapy That's wonderful, . Is it your first time ever in therapy? I remember when I started, how guilty I felt talking about my mother! But how necessary it was. Like you said, the BPD colors everything...maybe even stains it! Good luck!! > > Hello, > I just wanted to relate that I started therapy today. While it is not directly > related to the BPD issues in my family, those issues color everything and every > part of me, so I am sure it will come up. > My main reason for going is that I was losing my ability to function and I felt the > world shrinking in on me, and a total lack of joy, just sadness. > This therapist deals with bereavement, and after our initial meeting I do feel comfortable > with her. > > After the session I walked into the parking lot to my car. The air was hot and breezy, > and I felt that breeze against my face and a bit of pleasure came to me; as I drove > home I noticed the clouds on high purple blue shelves in the sky and I felt uplifted by > the site. That is a good sign, I think. Because the world has offered me no pleasure for > many many months now. > I appreciate all the emails that come through this list; I wish I could add my comments > to every one, but there are so many! > thanks for listening > ~patricia > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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