Re: Fw: Sending love and hope to each and every one of you:

[Guest guest]

Lea ~

God Bless you and . Your daughter is just poisen right now. She sends huge mixed messages to you. On one hand she is ugly, rude, and controlling, and on the other hand she wants you to hold on to things she holds as precious. She is still living in denial, and she cant think of anything more than, i dont like the way you live, how pathetic ! These are all words to control you and s emotions, and jerk them around, then she wants to be sure you are holding onto part of her by keeping her precious belongings. Worse than rat poisen ! ! Until you are strong enough to stand up to her BS, please stay away from her. She and her behavior make you sick, and set you back, and you need your strength to heal.

You cannot help her, change her, or fix her. This she has to do this herself. None of this is your fault, it is all self-induced, she creates all this herself. Please dont fall victom to her any longer. Love her from afar, and just pray for her to heal.

Lea ~

I am sorry she is such poisen right now. I know it is very painful. God Bless you all, you are in my prayers. Know we all love you and Superman, and you both mean so much to us all !

Love, Hugs, Prayers and Hope ~ Dede

PS my daughter told me she has the paddles now, but not quite in the boat yet.......she is working thru all her bs and making progress and felt good enough about it to tell me. Baby steps......I pray one day your daughter will wake up and start her babysteps.......See what's free at AOL.com.

[Guest guest]

We love you Dede..thank you for your love and support. Lea and Superman

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~````````````

Re: Fw: Sending love and hope to each and every one of you:

Lea ~

God Bless you and . Your daughter is just poisen right now. She sends huge mixed messages to you. On one hand she is ugly, rude, and controlling, and on the other hand she wants you to hold on to things she holds as precious. She is still living in denial, and she cant think of anything more than, i dont like the way you live, how pathetic ! These are all words to control you and s emotions, and jerk them around, then she wants to be sure you are holding onto part of her by keeping her precious belongings. Worse than rat poisen ! ! Until you are strong enough to stand up to her BS, please stay away from her. She and her behavior make you sick, and set you back, and you need your strength to heal.

You cannot help her, change her, or fix her. This she has to do this herself. None of this is your fault, it is all self-induced, she creates all this herself. Please dont fall victom to her any longer. Love her from afar, and just pray for her to heal.

Lea ~

I am sorry she is such poisen right now. I know it is very painful. God Bless you all, you are in my prayers. Know we all love you and Superman, and you both mean so much to us all !

Love, Hugs, Prayers and Hope ~ Dede

PS my daughter told me she has the paddles now, but not quite in the boat yet.......she is working thru all her bs and making progress and felt good enough about it to tell me. Baby steps......I pray one day your daughter will wake up and start her babysteps.......

See what's free at AOL.com.

[Guest guest]

Oh Lea,

I am just heartsick for you and your husband at how difficult this

relationship with your daughter has become. I am so sorry. It's so

hard...we love our children and it is so hard to see them treat us

badly.

But you must move forward. Keep praying for your daughter. Truly,

she must be hurting as much as you and are. She just doesn't

realize how hurtful it is, and someday she will regret her actions.

God's plan didn't include this kind of disharmony, and when our

lives come to their end, we will all have regrets over things we

have done. The hope is that the realization of our actions will

occur in time for us to make amends before it is too late. I hope

your daughter will reflect on life soon and come to you and

with love.

Stay positive and hopeful....we must for our health.

Love,

Patty

>

> Oh, Dede, things have not been good here. I called my daughter,

because I wanted to know what to do with all of her things. She

wanted me to keep many precious things, such as her cat collection,

etc. All she said was " Keep them! " She blamed us for her unhappy

visit, and told me that they will never come to our home again. She

told me that she does not like the way we live! The letter that

sent to her was hateful in her opinion, and she will never

speak to him again. Please give me a few day to recover from this

hateful call.

>

> Honey, we are glad that you like the balloons, and we hope that

you had a wonderful birthday. How are you coping with all of your

problems? I am sorry that I have not been helping with the support,

but time will help...I hope.

>

> My wish is that every lady on this site gets her life back. It

is heartbreaking to see so many women suffering.

>

> Sending love always........Lea

> ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~```````````

> Re: Fw: Bilateral Mammograms &

Bilateral Ultrasound

>

>

>

> Lea ~

> God Bless YOU ! I just hope they are on the right track for

getting you well ! ! You so deserve to have some time in life that

you feel like a Queen ! ! Love and Hugs ~ Dede

>

>

>

>

>

> -------------------------------------------------------------------

---------

> See what's free at AOL.com.

>

[Guest guest]

Darling Patty:

Thank you for your loving support. I really feel sad today, especially after speaking to Dr. Blais. Surgery is the last thing that I want, but if it will improve my health it must be done. The first thing that I wanted to do was to call my daughter, but she would just make a joke out of it. We hope that one day she will regret how much she has hurt us.

is very angry at her and would love to write to her; however, she would just delete it. We must move on and get this surgery done, but we will not tell our children. Dr. Blais told me that I have no choice, this garbage must come out.

I must fax some of my records to Dr. Blais, he is such a good friend.

Sending love to you honey....Lea

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~```````

Re: Fw: Bilateral Mammograms & Bilateral Ultrasound> > > > Lea ~ > God Bless YOU ! I just hope they are on the right track for getting you well ! ! You so deserve to have some time in life that you feel like a Queen ! ! Love and Hugs ~ Dede> > > > > > -------------------------------------------------------------------> See what's free at AOL.com.>

[Guest guest]

Lea,

I am so glad you talked to Dr. Blais....yes, that garbage must be

removed from your body. I hope you receive the best care possible

for this surgery. They will have to be careful, but they will need

to get all of it out. Your body will be so relieved to get rid of

all the junk that is left.

Do you know who will do the surgery? Having Dr. Blais to go to bat

for you and help you with getting this done is going to be a

blessing. He is such a sweet, dedicated man. I wish he were not

treated so poorly by those other hotshots who think so highly of

themselves. He's made sacrifices for us; your are lucky to be able

to call him your friend.

Sending love back to you, sweet Lea, take care,

Patty

>

> Darling Patty:

>

> Thank you for your loving support. I really feel sad today,

especially after speaking to Dr. Blais. Surgery is the last thing

that I want, but if it will improve my health it must be done. The

first thing that I wanted to do was to call my daughter, but she

would just make a joke out of it. We hope that one day she will

regret how much she has hurt us.

>

> is very angry at her and would love to write to her;

however, she would just delete it. We must move on and get this

surgery done, but we will not tell our children. Dr. Blais told me

that I have no choice, this garbage must come out.

>

> I must fax some of my records to Dr. Blais, he is such a good

friend.

>

> Sending love to you honey....Lea

> ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~```````

> Re: Fw: Bilateral Mammograms &

> Bilateral Ultrasound

> >

> >

> >

> > Lea ~

> > God Bless YOU ! I just hope they are on the right track for

> getting you well ! ! You so deserve to have some time in life

that

> you feel like a Queen ! ! Love and Hugs ~ Dede

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > ----------------------------------------------------------

> ---------

> > See what's free at AOL.com.

> >

>

[Guest guest]

Honey, yes we have the name of the surgeon, not a plastic. His name is Dr. Callahan, he works our of Cross Cancer, and he is a friend of my doctor from Cross. We pray that it all works out...I will keep you all in the loop.

Love you so...........Lea

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~```````````````````

Re: Fw: Bilateral Mammograms & > Bilateral Ultrasound> > > > > > > > Lea ~ > > God Bless YOU ! I just hope they are on the right track for > getting you well ! ! You so deserve to have some time in life that > you feel like a Queen ! ! Love and Hugs ~ Dede> > > > > > > > > > > > ----------------------------------------------------------> ---------> > See what's free at AOL.com.> >>

[Guest guest]

Dear Lea,

I wasn't able to find your original message regarding the surgery,

but wanted to wish you the best and I'll pray that the doctor's

hands will be guided by a much higher power so that you can dance

again.

Love you,

Sis

> > >

> > > Oh, Dede, things have not been good here. I called my

> daughter,

> > because I wanted to know what to do with all of her things.

> She

> > wanted me to keep many precious things, such as her cat

> collection,

> > etc. All she said was " Keep them! " She blamed us for her

> unhappy

> > visit, and told me that they will never come to our home

> again. She

> > told me that she does not like the way we live! The letter

> that

> > sent to her was hateful in her opinion, and she will

> never

> > speak to him again. Please give me a few day to recover from

> this

> > hateful call.

> > >

> > > Honey, we are glad that you like the balloons, and we hope

> that

> > you had a wonderful birthday. How are you coping with all of

> your

> > problems? I am sorry that I have not been helping with the

> support,

> > but time will help...I hope.

> > >

> > > My wish is that every lady on this site gets her life

back.

> It

> > is heartbreaking to see so many women suffering.

> > >

> > > Sending love always........Lea

> > >

> ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~```````````

> > > Re: Fw: Bilateral Mammograms &

> > Bilateral Ultrasound

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > Lea ~

> > > God Bless YOU ! I just hope they are on the right track

for

> > getting you well ! ! You so deserve to have some time in

life

> that

> > you feel like a Queen ! ! Love and Hugs ~ Dede

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > ----------------------------------------------------------

> > ---------

> > > See what's free at AOL.com.

> > >

> >

>

[Guest guest]

Lea ~

I think I am on the right road, so I am happy. Taking one day at a time.

I hope it is pretty out tomorrow so we can see your BIG deck ! !

Awe, a sweet little angel, eating your marigolds, how cute ! I have a rabbit that comes around, and has for a couple years. I have watched it grow !

I dont have a garden or flowers right now, only house plants, and lots of them ! I just havent been able to do it this last few years. I plan to though. You are in my thoughts and prayers ! Love you bunches ! DedeSee what's free at AOL.com.

[Guest guest]

Thank you, Sis, you are an angel. We are not sure if this surgeon will agree to do the surgery. He is one of the best, but he has not seem me yet. I have many health issues, and he might be afraid to do the surgery.

Honey, I will let you all know when we have some answers. This morning we see my doctor who knows this surgeon well. I will ask him to examine the lump in my right breast, because he might get moving on setting up an appointment with the surgeon.

Sending love...always....Lea

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~``````

Re: Fw: Bilateral Mammograms & > > Bilateral Ultrasound> > > > > > > > > > > > Lea ~ > > > God Bless YOU ! I just hope they are on the right track for > > getting you well ! ! You so deserve to have some time in life > that > > you feel like a Queen ! ! Love and Hugs ~ Dede> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ----------------------------------------------------------> > ---------> > > See what's free at AOL.com.> > >> >>

[Guest guest]

Dede, thank you for your support. I am so sorry that you have to carry these toxics bags around with you. We are all praying that you will be well enough soon to have them removed.

Sweet Dede, we have not taken any pictures of our big deck yet, but if it is nice tomorrow we will take some. We have a rabbit who keeps eating our marigolds, but he/she can eat all of them, if it makes them happy. I will just keep planting more.

We will let you know what happens regarding the surgery...I want it today!

Love you....Lea and Superman

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~````````

Re: Fw: Sending love and hope to each and every one of you:

Lea ~

I am so happy you are gonna be able to get this mess out of you. I believe that it will be a new life for you. I will look like a man too when done, unless these big boobs grew breast tissue, but I had all my breast tissue removed in the 90's, all of it ! , so I dont know where these huge boobs came from this last 2 years, i presume it is fat and swelling. I did look like a man for 5 years, so this wont be new for me, and to be honest, I would rather be flat than them hanging down to my naval, and so heavy ! !

I cant wait to hear the details for your new venture ! !

Love you bunches ! Dede

See what's free at AOL.com.

[Guest guest]

Dede, thank you for being there for everyone, you are a blessing. I have to go out and paint our deck before it gets too hot. I love the sun, but it kills me.

I will write more later, if I am not too tired...love you so....Lea

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~````````

Re: Fw: Sending love and hope to each and every one of you:

Lea ~

I think I am on the right road, so I am happy. Taking one day at a time.

I hope it is pretty out tomorrow so we can see your BIG deck ! !

Awe, a sweet little angel, eating your marigolds, how cute ! I have a rabbit that comes around, and has for a couple years. I have watched it grow !

I dont have a garden or flowers right now, only house plants, and lots of them ! I just havent been able to do it this last few years. I plan to though. You are in my thoughts and prayers ! Love you bunches ! Dede

See what's free at AOL.com.

[Guest guest]

Hello Lea ~

How are you feeling? Did you get some more painting done? Please be careful of this heat. You and your health is what is the most important ! You are so special Lea, and you do so much for so many, and mean so much to so many people, just think the number of lives you have touched and made special ! We all love you so much ! Hope you are feeling better. Blessings and lots of love ~ DedeSee what's free at AOL.com.

[Guest guest]

Darling Dede:

That darned deck nearly killed me, why did have to have such a big deck? I was so red, and my clothes were wet. I had a shower and went to bed in a long white cotton nightie. The big deck is still not finished, but tomorrow I will keep painting....it looks beautiful. I had such a cramp in my left foot, and my toes were all gnarled...I have not had this symptom for a few years. My fingers used to look like claws, and would have to straighten them out. I am as stubborn as a mule, and there is no stopping me; however, I ran out of paint....that made me mad.

Honey, you have touched so many lives in the short time that you have been in this group. I could never keep up with you, but thank you for being Dede.

Back to bed for me, before I fall off my chair. Sending you tons of love..........Lea

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~``

Re: Fw: Sending love and hope to each and every one of you:

Hello Lea ~

How are you feeling? Did you get some more painting done? Please be careful of this heat. You and your health is what is the most important ! You are so special Lea, and you do so much for so many, and mean so much to so many people, just think the number of lives you have touched and made special ! We all love you so much ! Hope you are feeling better. Blessings and lots of love ~ Dede

See what's free at AOL.com.