Guest guest Posted September 25, 2000 Report Share Posted September 25, 2000 Hi Shireen Just when a family should be sticking together someone always has to make matters worse. My aunt did a similar thing to my family after my grandmother died. It takes real strength not to go crazy. It's your mother and you should not let her push you around. Discuss the problem with your family and then remember she was a daughter-in-law and not intitled to anything. You shouldn't have to explain yourself more than once. . Isn't it such a shame that stuff can cause such a problem. If you know your right then don't fight, that takes too much energy, just let it be know what is yours. I am very sorry for your loss. Joan Claffey susan johnson wrote: > > > Hi all, > > I need to vent. It has nothing to do with liver disease. > > My Mom passed away about a month ago. She told me that the cars, the > furniture and her dishes and jewlry were to be mine. Now, though, my > sister-in-law is making claim to things. She says my Mom gave her the car > and that everything else belongs to the estate. I have two married > brothers. The thing my mom most worried about before she died is that > people would squabble over her belongings. My one sister-in-law is the only > one doing this. She has taken from my mom as long as my mom has known her - > thousands of dollars over the years. I thought that would stop now that my > Mom is dead, but no, she is still trying to take from her. I have no > problem with my brothers or my other sister-in-law. I want to tell her off, > but I dread to do that because it would cause a major problem in the family. > I also want to punch her lights out!!!! > > I feel like she is trying to steal my belongings right out from under me. > Got any ideas what I should do? > > Thanks for letting me vent. > > Shireen > > >From: gefox@... > >Reply- egroups > > egroups > >CC: egroups > >Subject: RE: [ ] JERRY > >Date: Sun, 24 Sep 2000 00:44:40 -0400 (EDT) > >MIME-Version: 1.0 > >Received: from [208.50.144.68] by hotmail.com (3.2) with ESMTP id > >MHotMailBB96D1C3005340042A25D0329044067115; Sat Sep 23 21:45:01 2000 > >Received: from [10.1.10.35] by cj. with NNFMP; 24 Sep 2000 > >04:44:44 -0000 > >Received: (EGP: mail-6_0_2); 24 Sep 2000 04:44:41 -0000 > >Received: (qmail 3239 invoked from network); 24 Sep 2000 04:44:40 -0000 > >Received: from unknown (10.1.10.142) by m1.onelist.org with QMQP; 24 Sep > >2000 04:44:40 -0000 > >Received: from unknown (HELO mailsorter-105-2.iap.bryant.webtv.net) > >(209.240.198.118) by mta3 with SMTP; 24 Sep 2000 04:44:40 -0000 > >Received: from storefull-294.iap.bryant.webtv.net > >(storefull-294.iap.bryant.webtv.net [209.240.198.24]) by > >mailsorter-105-2.iap.bryant.webtv.net (WebTV_Postfix) with ESMTP id > >455D42D093 for < egroups>; Sat, 23 Sep 2000 21:44:40 > >-0700 (PDT) > >Received: (from production@localhost) by storefull-294.iap.bryant.webtv.net > >(8.8.8-wtv-e/mt.gso.26Feb98) id VAA11729; Sat, 23 Sep 2000 21:44:40 -0700 > >(PDT) > >From sentto-165537-22536-969770681-shireen42 Sat Sep 23 21:45:30 2000 > >X-eGroups-Return: > >sentto-165537-22536-969770681-shireen42=hotmail.comreturns (DOT) onelist.com > >X-Sender: GEFOX@... > >X-Apparently- egroups > >X-WebTV-Signature: 1 > >ETAtAhQtWm0XRcSwc8QKeAa2++gHi1EtAAIVALRJR+mcCD5ga3ABIRZCkM3Lkqzd > >Message-ID: <18894-39CD86B8-4070@...> > >In-Reply- " Don Hanson " <donhanson@...>'s message of Sat, 23 Sep > >2000 12:26:56 -0500 > >X-eGroups-From: GEFOX@... (GERALD FOX) > >Mailing-List: list egroups; contact > > -owneregroups > >Delivered-mailing list egroups > >Precedence: bulk > >List-Unsubscribe: <mailto: -unsubscribeegroups> > > > >Thanks Don but I made a decision awhile ago that didn`t really need it > >I really had reached an elevated state of serenity. I just had forgotten > >how I had gotten there. > >Sincere prayer.. All I had to do was return to this simple method. I did > >last night. I`ve offered my apologies the best I`m able, gave up and > >moved on. I can`t change other people only myself. Nor can I take back > >the past I choose to live in the moment, for my future is unkown and > >doubtul to say the least. Hence when I feel emotions of anger and > >resentment coming out pred. induced or not I will try to take a moment > >to meditate and pray, before I say things I really don`t mean. > >Your advice is not going to be entirely disregarded though cause I like > >to leave > >options.Also your advise and grasp of my feelings is greatly > >appreciated. I just for a moment had forgotten how I had reached this > >point in the 1st pl. > >Keep the wisdom coming.... jerry > > > ><< Message5.txt >> > > _________________________________________________________________________ > Get Your Private, Free E-mail from MSN Hotmail at http://www.hotmail.com. > > Share information about yourself, create your own public profile at > http://profiles.msn.com. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2000 Report Share Posted September 25, 2000 Hi all, I need to vent. It has nothing to do with liver disease. My Mom passed away about a month ago. She told me that the cars, the furniture and her dishes and jewlry were to be mine. Now, though, my sister-in-law is making claim to things. She says my Mom gave her the car and that everything else belongs to the estate. I have two married brothers. The thing my mom most worried about before she died is that people would squabble over her belongings. My one sister-in-law is the only one doing this. She has taken from my mom as long as my mom has known her - thousands of dollars over the years. I thought that would stop now that my Mom is dead, but no, she is still trying to take from her. I have no problem with my brothers or my other sister-in-law. I want to tell her off, but I dread to do that because it would cause a major problem in the family. I also want to punch her lights out!!!! I feel like she is trying to steal my belongings right out from under me. Got any ideas what I should do? Thanks for letting me vent. Shireen >From: gefox@... >Reply- egroups > egroups >CC: egroups >Subject: RE: [ ] JERRY >Date: Sun, 24 Sep 2000 00:44:40 -0400 (EDT) >MIME-Version: 1.0 >Received: from [208.50.144.68] by hotmail.com (3.2) with ESMTP id >MHotMailBB96D1C3005340042A25D0329044067115; Sat Sep 23 21:45:01 2000 >Received: from [10.1.10.35] by cj. with NNFMP; 24 Sep 2000 >04:44:44 -0000 >Received: (EGP: mail-6_0_2); 24 Sep 2000 04:44:41 -0000 >Received: (qmail 3239 invoked from network); 24 Sep 2000 04:44:40 -0000 >Received: from unknown (10.1.10.142) by m1.onelist.org with QMQP; 24 Sep >2000 04:44:40 -0000 >Received: from unknown (HELO mailsorter-105-2.iap.bryant.webtv.net) >(209.240.198.118) by mta3 with SMTP; 24 Sep 2000 04:44:40 -0000 >Received: from storefull-294.iap.bryant.webtv.net >(storefull-294.iap.bryant.webtv.net [209.240.198.24]) by >mailsorter-105-2.iap.bryant.webtv.net (WebTV_Postfix) with ESMTP id >455D42D093 for < egroups>; Sat, 23 Sep 2000 21:44:40 >-0700 (PDT) >Received: (from production@localhost) by storefull-294.iap.bryant.webtv.net >(8.8.8-wtv-e/mt.gso.26Feb98) id VAA11729; Sat, 23 Sep 2000 21:44:40 -0700 >(PDT) >From sentto-165537-22536-969770681-shireen42 Sat Sep 23 21:45:30 2000 >X-eGroups-Return: >sentto-165537-22536-969770681-shireen42=hotmail.comreturns (DOT) onelist.com >X-Sender: GEFOX@... >X-Apparently- egroups >X-WebTV-Signature: 1 >ETAtAhQtWm0XRcSwc8QKeAa2++gHi1EtAAIVALRJR+mcCD5ga3ABIRZCkM3Lkqzd >Message-ID: <18894-39CD86B8-4070@...> >In-Reply- " Don Hanson " <donhanson@...>'s message of Sat, 23 Sep >2000 12:26:56 -0500 >X-eGroups-From: GEFOX@... (GERALD FOX) >Mailing-List: list egroups; contact > -owneregroups >Delivered-mailing list egroups >Precedence: bulk >List-Unsubscribe: <mailto: -unsubscribeegroups> > >Thanks Don but I made a decision awhile ago that didn`t really need it >I really had reached an elevated state of serenity. I just had forgotten >how I had gotten there. >Sincere prayer.. All I had to do was return to this simple method. I did >last night. I`ve offered my apologies the best I`m able, gave up and >moved on. I can`t change other people only myself. Nor can I take back >the past I choose to live in the moment, for my future is unkown and >doubtul to say the least. Hence when I feel emotions of anger and >resentment coming out pred. induced or not I will try to take a moment >to meditate and pray, before I say things I really don`t mean. >Your advice is not going to be entirely disregarded though cause I like >to leave >options.Also your advise and grasp of my feelings is greatly >appreciated. I just for a moment had forgotten how I had reached this >point in the 1st pl. >Keep the wisdom coming.... jerry > ><< Message5.txt >> _________________________________________________________________________ Get Your Private, Free E-mail from MSN Hotmail at http://www.hotmail.com. Share information about yourself, create your own public profile at http://profiles.msn.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2000 Report Share Posted September 25, 2000 shireen, did your mom leave a will? my mother in law passed away in jan 2000, leave my ex spouse as execuator of the will. he is dumb as a stone and has been dragging his feet on getting the home place sold. i told him i dont want anything out of it, but he wont cheat our daughter, even though she is a grown woman i will fight for her. sometimes sisters in laws can be a real pain in the $$##%%. good luck in keeping what is yours. she is an outlaw and not a true daughter. linda satx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2000 Report Share Posted September 25, 2000 I went through a similar situation when my dad died. Left me all the household belongings in his will, my mom had died about 6 years previous. The day of the funeral, we had the typical open house. My son was only 5 at the time so I left the home (which I lived in) to take him to dinner and a movie. When I returned my neighbor met me at my car and told me that she had witnessed my family taking furniture and boxes out to their cars while I was away. I was outraged to say the least! I wish I had called the police and had them arrested for stealing. Instead I threw them all out (they all said that my parents had promised them these things years ago when I was a child). I have not spoken to my brother and sister since then. its been some 10 years now. I still hurt over it. I doubt I will ever speak to them again. Every now and then I run into extended family at resturants etc.... they all ask if we patched things up. Even the Estee Lauder clerk asks when I make my purchases..... as my sister and I were both clients. Its hard to decide what to do. I think in black and white terms " violate me once.....and your no longer in my life " . Its how I protect myself from allowing anyone to hurt me more then once. My husband dogs me for it, says I'm not forgiving. I say " it works for me " . Good luck and I am so sorry this happened. Jen On Mon, 25 Sep 2000 19:57:43 -0300, egroups wrote: > Hi Shireen > Just when a family should be sticking together someone always has to > make matters worse. My aunt did a similar thing to my family after my > grandmother died. It takes real strength not to go crazy. It's your > mother and you should not let her push you around. Discuss the problem > with your family and then remember she was a daughter-in-law and not > intitled to anything. You shouldn't have to explain yourself more than > once. . Isn't it such a shame that stuff can cause such a problem. > If you know your right then don't fight, that takes too much energy, > just let it be know what is yours. > I am very sorry for your loss. > Joan Claffey > > susan johnson wrote: > > > > > > Hi all, > > > > I need to vent. It has nothing to do with liver disease. > > > > My Mom passed away about a month ago. She told me that the cars, the > > furniture and her dishes and jewlry were to be mine. Now, though, my > > sister-in-law is making claim to things. She says my Mom gave her the car > > and that everything else belongs to the estate. I have two married > > brothers. The thing my mom most worried about before she died is that > > people would squabble over her belongings. My one sister-in-law is the only > > one doing this. She has taken from my mom as long as my mom has known her - > > thousands of dollars over the years. I thought that would stop now that my > > Mom is dead, but no, she is still trying to take from her. I have no > > problem with my brothers or my other sister-in-law. I want to tell her off, > > but I dread to do that because it would cause a major problem in the family. > > I also want to punch her lights out!!!! > > > > I feel like she is trying to steal my belongings right out from under me. > > Got any ideas what I should do? > > > > Thanks for letting me vent. > > > > Shireen > > > > >From: gefox@... > > >Reply- egroups > > > egroups > > >CC: egroups > > >Subject: RE: [ ] JERRY > > >Date: Sun, 24 Sep 2000 00:44:40 -0400 (EDT) > > >MIME-Version: 1.0 > > >Received: from [208.50.144.68] by hotmail.com (3.2) with ESMTP id > > >MHotMailBB96D1C3005340042A25D0329044067115; Sat Sep 23 21:45:01 2000 > > >Received: from [10.1.10.35] by cj. with NNFMP; 24 Sep 2000 > > >04:44:44 -0000 > > >Received: (EGP: mail-6_0_2); 24 Sep 2000 04:44:41 -0000 > > >Received: (qmail 3239 invoked from network); 24 Sep 2000 04:44:40 -0000 > > >Received: from unknown (10.1.10.142) by m1.onelist.org with QMQP; 24 Sep > > >2000 04:44:40 -0000 > > >Received: from unknown (HELO mailsorter-105-2.iap.bryant.webtv.net) > > >(209.240.198.118) by mta3 with SMTP; 24 Sep 2000 04:44:40 -0000 > > >Received: from storefull-294.iap.bryant.webtv.net > > >(storefull-294.iap.bryant.webtv.net [209.240.198.24]) by > > >mailsorter-105-2.iap.bryant.webtv.net (WebTV_Postfix) with ESMTP id > > >455D42D093 for < egroups>; Sat, 23 Sep 2000 21:44:40 > > >-0700 (PDT) > > >Received: (from production@localhost) by storefull-294.iap.bryant.webtv.net > > >(8.8.8-wtv-e/mt.gso.26Feb98) id VAA11729; Sat, 23 Sep 2000 21:44:40 -0700 > > >(PDT) > > >From sentto-165537-22536-969770681-shireen42 Sat Sep 23 21:45:30 2000 > > >X-eGroups-Return: > > >sentto-165537-22536-969770681-shireen42=hotmail.comreturns (DOT) onelist.com > > >X-Sender: GEFOX@... > > >X-Apparently- egroups > > >X-WebTV-Signature: 1 > > >ETAtAhQtWm0XRcSwc8QKeAa2++gHi1EtAAIVALRJR+mcCD5ga3ABIRZCkM3Lkqzd > > >Message-ID: <18894-39CD86B8-4070@...> > > >In-Reply- " Don Hanson " <donhanson@...>'s message of Sat, 23 Sep > > >2000 12:26:56 -0500 > > >X-eGroups-From: GEFOX@... (GERALD FOX) > > >Mailing-List: list egroups; contact > > > -owneregroups > > >Delivered-mailing list egroups > > >Precedence: bulk > > >List-Unsubscribe: <mailto: -unsubscribeegroups> > > > > > >Thanks Don but I made a decision awhile ago that didn`t really need it > > >I really had reached an elevated state of serenity. I just had forgotten > > >how I had gotten there. > > >Sincere prayer.. All I had to do was return to this simple method. I did > > >last night. I`ve offered my apologies the best I`m able, gave up and > > >moved on. I can`t change other people only myself. Nor can I take back > > >the past I choose to live in the moment, for my future is unkown and > > >doubtul to say the least. Hence when I feel emotions of anger and > > >resentment coming out pred. induced or not I will try to take a moment > > >to meditate and pray, before I say things I really don`t mean. > > >Your advice is not going to be entirely disregarded though cause I like > > >to leave > > >options.Also your advise and grasp of my feelings is greatly > > >appreciated. I just for a moment had forgotten how I had reached this > > >point in the 1st pl. > > >Keep the wisdom coming.... jerry > > > > > ><< Message5.txt >> > > > > _________________________________________________________________________ > > Get Your Private, Free E-mail from MSN Hotmail at http://www.hotmail.com. > > > > Share information about yourself, create your own public profile at > > http://profiles.msn.com. > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 25, 2000 Report Share Posted September 25, 2000 Shireen, She is the sister in law I don't feel she has the right to make ANY claims this is a matter between the blood relatives which she is not. I would talk with your brother get his reaction and input. If it isn't in writing this golddigger should be SOL. Tell her no that is your right and go by the original wishes of your mother. Your sister in law needs to back off, she sounds very selfish. gayle/trans.6-99 galye@... ^0^ ` Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest guest Posted March 23, 2009 Report Share Posted March 23, 2009 Thanks for your response .I think I may give it a try as I feel I need to try something.I have not had a period for months so this may be what can help. Kind regards xxxxxxxxxxxxx Margaret From: <juliamoonrock@...>thyroid treatment Sent: Monday, 23 March, 2009 11:52:15Subject: Serenity Hi Margaret, I don't think that the Serenity gave me any negative effects , my period was just really late the first month I used it and then really early the second month.... that's why I have stopped using it. I didn't get my sex hormones tested prior to starting which was silly... so I was probably using it inappropriately. After the second said period I felt very tearful and weird, as if bereaved. I felt fab whilst I was on it.... really happy,no pmt and no (absolutely none) period pain. The only slight neggy that I've read about it was on the IC site I'm a member of. One of the practitioners there (US) said that contrary to the instructions, Serenity should be put on areas of the body where skin is thinner (ankles,wrists etc) so that it is used promptly.If put on 'fatty' areas (thighs,stomach etc) excess amounts can build up,unused to create problems later ( I assume she means after menopause ?) . I have no idea of the validity of what she says.... but I though that it was interesting. Maybe give it a go and see how you get along. julia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 23, 2009 Report Share Posted March 23, 2009 What does he mean, the sex hormones are high? Has he actually measured them? Are oestrogen and progesterone both high? Usually at menopause oestrogen drops a little and (in the West) progesterone drops too much. Incidentally the NHS blood test does not measure the same thing as the saliva test, so I would have the saliva test done if you can afford it. As a rough rule, the more weight you carry, the more likely you are to have plenty of oestrogen. In my case the Genova Diagnostics saliva test showed I was deficient in both oestrogen and progesterone. If oestrogen is high you should begin using Serenity with caution. Progesterone causes oestrogen receptors to become more sensitive and oestrogen causes progesterone receptors to become more sensitive. So when you start using Serenity it can initially cause symptoms of oestrogen excess. So you could try a dab, wait a day or two and see how it goes. If your oestrogen is high - (is it?) - then I would proceed with caution. However, if that is the case it is even more important to balance it with sufficient progesterone as the excess oestrogen blocks thyroid utilisation. In my case the only thing I can attribute to the Serenity cream alone is the improved sleep. It is worth it for that alone as far as I am concerned. I never had any adverse effects, but then I was oestrogen deficient as well as progesterone deficient. Best wishes, Miriam > Mararet here I have just ordered Serenity cream and am most interested in your comments.I have not had period for 9 months and endo keeps telling me I�have high sex hormones so am going through " THE CHANGE " . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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