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In a message dated 7/17/2001 10:39:55 PM Central Daylight Time,

rennie@... writes:

>

> Enjoy your vacation, Cheryl!

>

> (even though it's not in August *g*)

>

Thanks Rennie>

Opps....it is getting late, isn't it. I better quit while I am ahead before

I give a PSA to a female patient or something...yikes. Trisha...if I told

you 08/20-08/27...I meant

07/20--07/27.....zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

Cheryl, CMT

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Enjoy your vacation, Cheryl!

(even though it's not in August *g*)

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----- Original Message -----

> Trish...your the best. I leave about noon on Friday 8/20 and will be back

in

> my office on Friday afternoon 8/27. Thanks for taking care of this for

me.

> You are a great monitor/queen of

> NMTC/buddy/consultant/colleague/friend...(enough?)

>

> Seriously, I really appreciate the service you are providing. Can you

pick

> up my newspaper too? :)

>

> Think of me this weekend when I am swatting mosquitos the size of 747s up

in

> the great Northern Michigan....

>

> Cheryl, cmt

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Sorry you had such a rough time of it! Have you ever

sent them the " Holiday letter " ??

I thankfully don't live that close to my in-laws so I

have no worries of visiting them they come here and I

get to control the terms....:)!

--- Amy Plucker wrote:

> I joined this list and then went on vacation so this

> is my first chance to chat.

>

> Actually it was a vacation to visit my in-laws. Why

> do

> I do these things to myself! My husband is the only

> child of an only child - talk about spoiled. Also

> these people fight all the time. They stay up until

> 2

> in the morning and then want to sleep til noon. No

> regard for my kids or their schedules or anything.

> We

> only see them once a year but even that has gotten

> to

> be too much!

>

> They don't know anything about my son's autism,

> although they think they do. Everything is a crisis

> for them. And if they tell my oldest son (who does

> not

> have autism) about what a " poor kid " he is, I'm

> going

> to scream! They keep telling us we neglect him

> because

> we spend all this time with . Mind you, we

> never

> see them so what do they know? This summer alone

>

> is in T-ball, swimming, a play and summer reading at

> the library. I don't think he's neglected!

>

> Then they are all worried about 's attraction

> to

> knives, swords, etc. and even went so far as to tell

> me that we really needed to watch that or he'll

> become

> a serial killer! Who are these people?!

>

> They have all kinds of breakable things sitting

> around

> and won't put them up but will yell when he touches

> them.

>

> It rained all but one day -- we couldn't even go

> outside.

>

> They had to watch their soaps so the kids couldn't

> even watch their movies most of the day.

>

> And it's like as soon as my husband walks in the

> door

> he loses all responsibilities to the kids and I. So

> I

> end up doing all the cooking, cleaning, dishes and

> watch the kids.

>

> Then they complain because we have to deadbolt the

> doors at all times. They're concerned about getting

> out in case of fire. Let's see, the chance of fire

> verses the zillion times a day escapes

> outside

> and disappears without the door being locked!

>

> They won't play with him or just enjoy him. It makes

> me so angry.

>

> And it was the one break I'll get all year and it

> was

> so awful I wanted to come back home after the first

> day.

>

> Okay, done whining now.

>

> The yard looks like we've been gone a year so I best

> get out there and do that and get the laundry done.

>

> Thanks for letting me vent,

> Amy

>

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Welcome Amy

Your vacation sure didn't sound like much of a vacation...people who just don't

get it (or even bother to try and get it) are the pits to be around IMHO...pull

up a chair and join us - We ALL " get it " !!

(inAus)

Mum to:

Matt 14yrs (Adjustment disorder/anxiety/depression)

10yrs (SLD???)

Jayden 4yrs (Autism)

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vacation

I joined this list and then went on vacation so this

is my first chance to chat.

Actually it was a vacation to visit my in-laws. Why do

I do these things to myself!

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Hi Amy:

I don't think I have introduced myself yet. I have five kids: Enrique, 15,

AS; , 13, very depressed about living with Enrique, 15; Sophie, 8,

very irritated with her two older brothers but she is pretty NT; Xavier who

is always known as Putter, 6, moderately autistic and majorly cute and

intelligent; Robbie, 3, and filled with mischief.

>

> Actually it was a vacation to visit my in-laws. Why do

> I do these things to myself! My husband is the only

> child of an only child - talk about spoiled. Also

> these people fight all the time. They stay up until 2

> in the morning and then want to sleep til noon. No

> regard for my kids or their schedules or anything. We

> only see them once a year but even that has gotten to

> be too much!

>

This is a vacation?

> They don't know anything about my son's autism,

> although they think they do. Everything is a crisis

> for them. And if they tell my oldest son (who does not

> have autism) about what a " poor kid " he is, I'm going

> to scream!

That is SUCH a poor way of dealing with your family's situation. What on

earth do they think THAT will teach your oldest?

They keep telling us we neglect him because

> we spend all this time with . Mind you, we never

> see them so what do they know? This summer alone

> is in T-ball, swimming, a play and summer reading at

> the library. I don't think he's neglected!

Well, what are you supposed to do? Get rid of ? Obviously you are

doing the best you can with the situation you have. No one can expect any

more, except, apparently, your in-laws. Sorry.

> Then they are all worried about 's attraction to

> knives, swords, etc. and even went so far as to tell

> me that we really needed to watch that or he'll become

> a serial killer! Who are these people?!

Sheesh.

>

> They have all kinds of breakable things sitting around

> and won't put them up but will yell when he touches

> them.

Idiots!

>

> It rained all but one day -- we couldn't even go

> outside.

>

> They had to watch their soaps so the kids couldn't

> even watch their movies most of the day.

Sounds like the visit from hell.

>

> And it's like as soon as my husband walks in the door

> he loses all responsibilities to the kids and I. So I

> end up doing all the cooking, cleaning, dishes and

> watch the kids.

My inlaws are both dead and anyway I am separated from my husband. But I

think I am glad when I read this kind of thing.

>

> Then they complain because we have to deadbolt the

> doors at all times. They're concerned about getting

> out in case of fire. Let's see, the chance of fire

> verses the zillion times a day escapes outside

> and disappears without the door being locked!

Um, are they afraid they won't be able to open a deadbolt in time? Do you

have windows? Does it require a key or something for both sides. You made

the choice you needed to make and it is your house anyway. A pity they

can't understand better.

>

> They won't play with him or just enjoy him. It makes

> me so angry.

I'm sorry. Putter is so much fun; it is a pity that people can't always

recognize the pleasure of a really different sort of person.

>

> Thanks for letting me vent,

Hey, that's what we're here for!

Salli

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