Re: something to think about

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a B. It is easy to tell you care! And You are the sweetest

person to worry so much.... Here's forgiveness and understanding for

any future blunders! (I can't remember any past ones) Take it from a

fellow tact gene lacker... You can only do your best! How people

take your words says more about them than it does about your tact (or

lack therof...) Hugs..................Deb

> Does this look purple to you? I guess it is a matter of opinion as

is most stuff in life. And, isn't it nice that we are allowed to

have an opinion. Being as I'm an opinionated person it is fortunate

for me that it is OK to think as I do about certain stuff. Now TACT

is another thing. My Mother says she was born tactless. In this

modern time we'd say she was born void of a tack gene. Me? I look

and act a lot like her and inherited her lack of tact and then some.

Often times I'll be sitting home minding my own business and somebody

will call saying they just saw my mouth streak by on 4th south and

center street. Could have fooled me. I thought I was in control of

my mouth the whole time and then I find out it has gone a run off

again. Seems as though I am always a running off at the mouth.

Which leads me finally (bet yer relieved) to the main theme of my

little ditty here. Have you ever said something just to have

somebody else misunderstand what it was you said? Have you ever had

your feelings hurt by something someone said or what's worse hurt

someone else's feelings by something you said? It happens. Happens

all the time even in the best of intended feelings of the person who

blundered and said the wrong thing. I'm an expert at shooting off my

mouth only to have what I've said come back to haunt me days, weeks

or months later. It's that dang gene I don't have that's the cause

of my problem. It isn't that I don't care, cuz I do...in fact the

trouble usually comes because of how much I do care. I'm a

fixer...someone's hurtin' then we best fix them right now. Life

doesn't work that way, and that doesn't sit well with me.

> I've been a member of this group for a couple two, three or so

months now and so far as I know I haven't caused too much of a fuss

and I haven't heard that I have hurt anyone's feelings by something I

may have said. So, in all seriousness let me say that I really do

care. Collectively I think we have pretty much as a group experience

all there is in life that's bad and good. Your experiences and

feelings about what you have experienced helps me when I go through

something similar. I hope it works both ways. And I also hope that

if there's ever a time you read something I've written to you or to

someone else and it hurts your feelings or makes your toes curl with

anger - - that you'll remember I didn't do it on purpose. I think

that's how it is with every member of this group.

> If you are sitting there reading this wondering what on earth

prompted me to spend the time at 2:30 in the morning writing

this...well, it isn't worth wondering over. I'm writing this because

I care and want you all to know that I am not as tactful as I should

be sometimes, but I try. And I think that caring and trying in life

is what's important, don't you? Goodnight

Mrs. Haberdash where ever you are!

> Hugs- a B.

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Whew, I hope she went to bed!! She sure sounds sleep deprived to me!

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that's what I was thinking poor thing. I know that's rough, and thank God my Ambien works!

a

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a B. I just want to let you know that you have never hurt my feelings. You have given me a lot to think about last night. and I'm sorry I had to leave. It took about 30 mins to just work that cramp out of my back... I was afraid that if I did not get the pain stopped then it would move up too my neck. then I would never get to sleep...lol may we can chat sometime to night. Love ya.

May God Bless you today and Always. Love and prayers Carol

something to think about

Does this look purple to you? I guess it is a matter of opinion as is most stuff in life. And, isn't it nice that we are allowed to have an opinion. Being as I'm an opinionated person it is fortunate for me that it is OK to think as I do about certain stuff. Now TACT is another thing. My Mother says she was born tactless. In this modern time we'd say she was born void of a tack gene. Me? I look and act a lot like her and inherited her lack of tact and then some. Often times I'll be sitting home minding my own business and somebody will call saying they just saw my mouth streak by on 4th south and center street. Could have fooled me. I thought I was in control of my mouth the whole time and then I find out it has gone a run off again. Seems as though I am always a running off at the mouth. Which leads me finally (bet yer relieved) to the main theme of my little ditty here. Have you ever said something just to have somebody else misunderstand what it was you said? Have you ever had your feelings hurt by something someone said or what's worse hurt someone else's feelings by something you said? It happens. Happens all the time even in the best of intended feelings of the person who blundered and said the wrong thing. I'm an expert at shooting off my mouth only to have what I've said come back to haunt me days, weeks or months later. It's that dang gene I don't have that's the cause of my problem. It isn't that I don't care, cuz I do...in fact the trouble usually comes because of how much I do care. I'm a fixer...someone's hurtin' then we best fix them right now. Life doesn't work that way, and that doesn't sit well with me.

I've been a member of this group for a couple two, three or so months now and so far as I know I haven't caused too much of a fuss and I haven't heard that I have hurt anyone's feelings by something I may have said. So, in all seriousness let me say that I really do care. Collectively I think we have pretty much as a group experience all there is in life that's bad and good. Your experiences and feelings about what you have experienced helps me when I go through something similar. I hope it works both ways. And I also hope that if there's ever a time you read something I've written to you or to someone else and it hurts your feelings or makes your toes curl with anger - - that you'll remember I didn't do it on purpose. I think that's how it is with every member of this group.

If you are sitting there reading this wondering what on earth prompted me to spend the time at 2:30 in the morning writing this...well, it isn't worth wondering over. I'm writing this because I care and want you all to know that I am not as tactful as I should be sometimes, but I try. And I think that caring and trying in life is what's important, don't you? Goodnight Mrs. Haberdash where ever you are!

Hugs- a B.

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Hi Carol, I already wrote a post here this morning. It somehow

disappeared. So now what I want you to do is just close your eyes

and think hard. You should get my message by telepathy, if not -

well I don't remember what I said but I'm sure it was nice

Hugs- a B.

> a B. I just want to let you know that you have never hurt my

feelings. You have given me a lot to think about last night. and I'm

sorry I had to leave. It took about 30 mins to just work that cramp

out of my back... I was afraid that if I did not get the pain stopped

then it would move up too my neck. then I would never get to

sleep...lol may we can chat sometime to night. Love ya.

> May God Bless you today and Always.

> Love and prayers Carol

> something to think about

>

>

> Does this look purple to you? I guess it is a matter of opinion

as is most stuff in life. And, isn't it nice that we are allowed to

have an opinion. Being as I'm an opinionated person it is fortunate

for me that it is OK to think as I do about certain stuff. Now TACT

is another thing. My Mother says she was born tactless. In this

modern time we'd say she was born void of a tack gene. Me? I look

and act a lot like her and inherited her lack of tact and then some.

Often times I'll be sitting home minding my own business and somebody

will call saying they just saw my mouth streak by on 4th south and

center street. Could have fooled me. I thought I was in control of

my mouth the whole time and then I find out it has gone a run off

again. Seems as though I am always a running off at the mouth.

Which leads me finally (bet yer relieved) to the main theme of my

little ditty here. Have you ever said something just to have

somebody else misunderstand what it was you said? Have you ever had

your feelings hurt by something someone said or what's worse hurt

someone else's feelings by something you said? It happens. Happens

all the time even in the best of intended feelings of the person who

blundered and said the wrong thing. I'm an expert at shooting off my

mouth only to have what I've said come back to haunt me days, weeks

or months later. It's that dang gene I don't have that's the cause

of my problem. It isn't that I don't care, cuz I do...in fact the

trouble usually comes because of how much I do care. I'm a

fixer...someone's hurtin' then we best fix them right now. Life

doesn't work that way, and that doesn't sit well with me.

> I've been a member of this group for a couple two, three or

so months now and so far as I know I haven't caused too much of a

fuss and I haven't heard that I have hurt anyone's feelings by

something I may have said. So, in all seriousness let me say that I

really do care. Collectively I think we have pretty much as a group

experience all there is in life that's bad and good. Your

experiences and feelings about what you have experienced helps me

when I go through something similar. I hope it works both ways. And

I also hope that if there's ever a time you read something I've

written to you or to someone else and it hurts your feelings or makes

your toes curl with anger - - that you'll remember I didn't do it on

purpose. I think that's how it is with every member of this group.

> If you are sitting there reading this wondering what on

earth prompted me to spend the time at 2:30 in the morning writing

this...well, it isn't worth wondering over. I'm writing this because

I care and want you all to know that I am not as tactful as I should

be sometimes, but I try. And I think that caring and trying in life

is what's important, don't you? Goodnight

Mrs. Haberdash where ever you are!

> Hugs- a B.

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>

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lol.. paula B.. I got it clear as a bell and for got what you said too...lol love Carol

something to think about> > > Does this look purple to you? I guess it is a matter of opinion as is most stuff in life. And, isn't it nice that we are allowed to have an opinion. Being as I'm an opinionated person it is fortunate for me that it is OK to think as I do about certain stuff. Now TACT is another thing. My Mother says she was born tactless. In this modern time we'd say she was born void of a tack gene. Me? I look and act a lot like her and inherited her lack of tact and then some. Often times I'll be sitting home minding my own business and somebody will call saying they just saw my mouth streak by on 4th south and center street. Could have fooled me. I thought I was in control of my mouth the whole time and then I find out it has gone a run off again. Seems as though I am always a running off at the mouth. Which leads me finally (bet yer relieved) to the main theme of my little ditty here. Have you ever said something just to have somebody else misunderstand what it was you said? Have you ever had your feelings hurt by something someone said or what's worse hurt someone else's feelings by something you said? It happens. Happens all the time even in the best of intended feelings of the person who blundered and said the wrong thing. I'm an expert at shooting off my mouth only to have what I've said come back to haunt me days, weeks or months later. It's that dang gene I don't have that's the cause of my problem. It isn't that I don't care, cuz I do...in fact the trouble usually comes because of how much I do care. I'm a fixer...someone's hurtin' then we best fix them right now. Life doesn't work that way, and that doesn't sit well with me.> I've been a member of this group for a couple two, three or so months now and so far as I know I haven't caused too much of a fuss and I haven't heard that I have hurt anyone's feelings by something I may have said. So, in all seriousness let me say that I really do care. Collectively I think we have pretty much as a group experience all there is in life that's bad and good. Your experiences and feelings about what you have experienced helps me when I go through something similar. I hope it works both ways. And I also hope that if there's ever a time you read something I've written to you or to someone else and it hurts your feelings or makes your toes curl with anger - - that you'll remember I didn't do it on purpose. I think that's how it is with every member of this group.> If you are sitting there reading this wondering what on earth prompted me to spend the time at 2:30 in the morning writing this...well, it isn't worth wondering over. I'm writing this because I care and want you all to know that I am not as tactful as I should be sometimes, but I try. And I think that caring and trying in life is what's important, don't you? Goodnight Mrs. Haberdash where ever you are!> Hugs- a B.> > >