not wanting to see my BPD mother but feel guilty

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Does anyone have advice about not wanting to see your borderline parent? I have

been visiting my mother for the past 6months every sunday but was feeling more

and more drained, resentful and angry. she is very needy and i felt responsible

for her. there was a conflict on mothers day between my mom myself and my

sister. that was the last straw for me i just cant take the emotional roller

coaster anymore. my sister told mom she is through with her. i wrote my mom a

letter explaining i needed a break, the letter i got back was the usual cold,

uncaring and she is the victim.i feel guilty for not wanting to see her but feel

a lot of relief for not having to deal with her. any advice?