WOW !! Thank you (new to group Could really use someone who understands)

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Hello Everyone,

I have to say Thank you sooooo much. I read a few post before I wrote a few

days ago. I had hoped but never thought that anyone out there would realy

understand what I am going and have gone through. So after the response to my

frustration I have to say I read alot more of the post and wow I'm not alone. I

can relate to soooooo much that is being talked about. I wrote last night but

when I hit send my computer dropped my connection. AHHHH. so I went to bed and

figured I would try again today. My husband was funny when I read him some or

the responses he was clearing his throat gooing mmm wow someone agrees with me.

He did grow up in a very healthy supportive household and is just now after my

mothers last rage starting to understand more. He did admit he use to think I

was exaggereating a bit when I would talk about my mother. We have had many

Discussions on why I react like I do to her. and now he is learning. I

definatley need to set some boundries with her. But what and how. I guess its

ahrd to think of how to do this when all my life I have always put myself last

and let her have her way and let it go. So again thank you very much for being

here. I'm sure I will talk to everyone regularly now.