Guest guest Posted January 7, 2000 Report Share Posted January 7, 2000 " pete watts " wrote: original article:/group/12-step-free/?start=11086 > Hi All > > no surprise on that Myers-Briggs thingy I come out mostly INTP but a > fair bit of ENTJ too. I think that alot of us 12sf types are likely to > be NT because the NT combo links an ability to make intuitive leaps > based on an analytical approach to the evidence. This works pretty > well as a bullshit detector. There are a lot of people who don't test neatly into any of the 16 M-B types, but one of the four main types does end up predominating--I have a xSxJ friend who is one of the most incredibly complex people I know, and I probably will never quite be able to " figure him out " . The heavily NT tendency of 12sf didn't surprise me at all. I had been thinking about it a few months back. AA has a strictly delineated set of rules as well as a core text (authority), and has been around for 50+ years (implying stability and tradition) that is fundamentally appealing to most SJs. The high regard the general public seems to have for AA, and its institutionalization, are also appealing for SJ's. (Matt, I know you're an ESFJ, but don't get mad at me for this! Not yet!) The SP's tend to like slogans, catchphrases, buzzwords, what have you. It isn't lack of intelligence by any means; my non-AA father and great- uncle are both ESTPs, both intelligent men, and both have their own stocks of little phrases they use all the time. The person who gives you a stock phrase-- " Take the cotton outta your ears and put it in your mouth " -- is more than likely an SP. They really tend to believe in such phrases; common- or " horse- " sense generally appeals to them. And, typical of Sensors, they like steps, being concrete, practical thinkers. Any DIY or self-help book that has a lot of bulleted or numbered lists of steps to take towards the desired result was no doubt written by a Sensor. The Extraverted SP's no doubt do better than the Introverts--in fact, Extraversion (or the ability to simulate it) is very much needed to function " well " within AA. Speaking at meetings, reaching out to newcomers, engaging in the social aspects of the fellowship, taking on multiple sponsees--Extraversion (or at least the ability to fake it) --is necessary. The insistence that one should not " isolate " ; that you should " use the phone " and call up other members when faced with difficulties--not to mention attend group meetings--skews AA in favor of Extraverts. The NF types might chafe under the strictness of the " rules " , but get so absorbed in helping others, or performing minute psychic self-examination, or both, that they manage to " tune out " a lot of the parts of AA they don't like or don't want to deal with. The ones I knew in AA were most upset by issues such as power struggles within AA groups, or people who violated the " spiritual principles " of the program and thus hurt others. They were the ones most likely to react strongly against abusive people in the program. Of the four basic types, NFs seemed the most capable of ignoring the Christian emphasis of the program and substituting another path. The Lord's Prayer and Serenity prayer were seen as troublesome by some NFs, but most managed to reconcile them with their own beliefs, usually with the rationale that " God is god, however we seek him/her/it. " NFs were the most likely to remain happily in AA by rejecting aspects of the " spiritual program " that did not fit their ideal, and substituting others. On the other hand, they also seemed to have the toughest time with the ruthless self-examination demanded by the program; not because they did it poorly, but rather because they did it too well. The Feeling types in general are likely to beat themselves up over their percieved failings--NFs may see themselves as not compassionate enough, or forgiving enough, and SFJs in particular have lists of " shoulds " and " musts " that can lead them into real trouble. As essentially nurturing types, SFJs are wonderful at any area that requires caring for other people --teaching, nursing, etc.--but they also carry more than their share of self-inflicted guilt. Usually among the people with the fewest reasons to beat themselves up, they are the most prone to it. The NTs were the most likely to have trouble in AA, mainly as a result of the NT desire for logical consistency. Pete said it right when describing intuitive leaps made alongside analytical approaches to given evidence. I'm an INTx, and though the program made no logical sense to me, I was so beat down from the booze and drugs that I couldn't think clearly. After I had been clean for awhile, and my mental faculties cleared,I began to be disturbed by the inconsistencies I saw, and eventually set to work to try and reconcile them--which was logically impossible. If NTs beat themselves up in the program, it seems, it is because they cannot reconcile program doctrine with what they see as logical. Sometimes an NT decides that the program *must* make sense, which often causes terrible misery--I've seen that. All of this, or some of it, may sound like complete horseshit. But I've been using Myers-Briggs for quite awhile, and find it fascinating when applied to " real-life " situations. I'm a student, and as the quarter goes on, I end up " typing " my fellow classmates. I'd be interested in anyone's comments/questions/enlargements upon or additions to anything I've written... Cheers, . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2000 Report Share Posted January 7, 2000 " pete watts " wrote: original article:/group/12-step-free/?start=11086 > Hi All > > no surprise on that Myers-Briggs thingy I come out mostly INTP but a > fair bit of ENTJ too. I think that alot of us 12sf types are likely to > be NT because the NT combo links an ability to make intuitive leaps > based on an analytical approach to the evidence. This works pretty > well as a bullshit detector. There are a lot of people who don't test neatly into any of the 16 M-B types, but one of the four main types does end up predominating--I have a xSxJ friend who is one of the most incredibly complex people I know, and I probably will never quite be able to " figure him out " . The heavily NT tendency of 12sf didn't surprise me at all. I had been thinking about it a few months back. AA has a strictly delineated set of rules as well as a core text (authority), and has been around for 50+ years (implying stability and tradition) that is fundamentally appealing to most SJs. The high regard the general public seems to have for AA, and its institutionalization, are also appealing for SJ's. (Matt, I know you're an ESFJ, but don't get mad at me for this! Not yet!) The SP's tend to like slogans, catchphrases, buzzwords, what have you. It isn't lack of intelligence by any means; my non-AA father and great- uncle are both ESTPs, both intelligent men, and both have their own stocks of little phrases they use all the time. The person who gives you a stock phrase-- " Take the cotton outta your ears and put it in your mouth " -- is more than likely an SP. They really tend to believe in such phrases; common- or " horse- " sense generally appeals to them. And, typical of Sensors, they like steps, being concrete, practical thinkers. Any DIY or self-help book that has a lot of bulleted or numbered lists of steps to take towards the desired result was no doubt written by a Sensor. The Extraverted SP's no doubt do better than the Introverts--in fact, Extraversion (or the ability to simulate it) is very much needed to function " well " within AA. Speaking at meetings, reaching out to newcomers, engaging in the social aspects of the fellowship, taking on multiple sponsees--Extraversion (or at least the ability to fake it) --is necessary. The insistence that one should not " isolate " ; that you should " use the phone " and call up other members when faced with difficulties--not to mention attend group meetings--skews AA in favor of Extraverts. The NF types might chafe under the strictness of the " rules " , but get so absorbed in helping others, or performing minute psychic self-examination, or both, that they manage to " tune out " a lot of the parts of AA they don't like or don't want to deal with. The ones I knew in AA were most upset by issues such as power struggles within AA groups, or people who violated the " spiritual principles " of the program and thus hurt others. They were the ones most likely to react strongly against abusive people in the program. Of the four basic types, NFs seemed the most capable of ignoring the Christian emphasis of the program and substituting another path. The Lord's Prayer and Serenity prayer were seen as troublesome by some NFs, but most managed to reconcile them with their own beliefs, usually with the rationale that " God is god, however we seek him/her/it. " NFs were the most likely to remain happily in AA by rejecting aspects of the " spiritual program " that did not fit their ideal, and substituting others. On the other hand, they also seemed to have the toughest time with the ruthless self-examination demanded by the program; not because they did it poorly, but rather because they did it too well. The Feeling types in general are likely to beat themselves up over their percieved failings--NFs may see themselves as not compassionate enough, or forgiving enough, and SFJs in particular have lists of " shoulds " and " musts " that can lead them into real trouble. As essentially nurturing types, SFJs are wonderful at any area that requires caring for other people --teaching, nursing, etc.--but they also carry more than their share of self-inflicted guilt. Usually among the people with the fewest reasons to beat themselves up, they are the most prone to it. The NTs were the most likely to have trouble in AA, mainly as a result of the NT desire for logical consistency. Pete said it right when describing intuitive leaps made alongside analytical approaches to given evidence. I'm an INTx, and though the program made no logical sense to me, I was so beat down from the booze and drugs that I couldn't think clearly. After I had been clean for awhile, and my mental faculties cleared,I began to be disturbed by the inconsistencies I saw, and eventually set to work to try and reconcile them--which was logically impossible. If NTs beat themselves up in the program, it seems, it is because they cannot reconcile program doctrine with what they see as logical. Sometimes an NT decides that the program *must* make sense, which often causes terrible misery--I've seen that. All of this, or some of it, may sound like complete horseshit. But I've been using Myers-Briggs for quite awhile, and find it fascinating when applied to " real-life " situations. I'm a student, and as the quarter goes on, I end up " typing " my fellow classmates. I'd be interested in anyone's comments/questions/enlargements upon or additions to anything I've written... Cheers, . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2000 Report Share Posted January 7, 2000 Hi everyone - Back from a FANTASTIC time in Orlando, FLA. Anyway, I don't know a whole helluva lot about this Myers-Briggs business, but I've always been the type of person that never seems to fit " neatly " into one catagory. High school was a bunch of b.s. to me because of the " cliques " - I really didn't fall into any one of them. When a " friend " of mine started hanging with a bunch of (what I felt were self righteous snobs) I wrote her a long letter about what a bunch of crap I thought she was full of - well that ended the friendship. I've always felt on the " outside " of the mainstream. I have never worked at a job longer than about a year and a half and here I am now, almost 38 years old and I dye my hair into a rainbow of various colors and listen to (and LOVE) quirky off-the-wall music, especially the B-52's. For ages people kept telling me to go to A.A. because, yes, I have had my share of heavy drinking. But I always felt like it was a bunch of preachy bull doo-doo. There were times when I really had to bite my tongue at meetings or in TX centers because I either thought it was incredibly stupid or hysterically funny because I felt it was so ludicrious. Also, felt very WARY of the " Orwellian " concepts in 12-step meetings. I've always had kind of a strange interest in the concept of " brainwashing " , either portrayed in fiction such as Orwell's or the " real mccoy " like covert CIA mind control (a.k.a " Machurian Candidate " experiments). So...I guess what I'm wondering is, what kind of a " Myers-Brigg " catagory to I fall into, if any? (And yes, Jim Hankins makes me fall off my chair onto the floor in hysterics!! I appreciate absurd humor-or basically anything absurdly quirky - I do my best to dress like a fashion disaster and I love campy off the wall movies [i.e. Waters flicks].) ~Trixxi (even my nickname is bizarre!) > > no surprise on that Myers-Briggs thingy I come out mostly INTP but a > > fair bit of ENTJ too> > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2000 Report Share Posted January 7, 2000 This is a most interesting post, and thank you for it. Your description of NT reactions fits me (an ENTP) to a T. Krakatoa Re: Pete is xNTx > " pete watts " wrote: > original article:/group/12-step-free/?start=11086 > > Hi All > > > > no surprise on that Myers-Briggs thingy I come out mostly INTP but a > > fair bit of ENTJ too. I think that alot of us 12sf types are likely > to > > be NT because the NT combo links an ability to make intuitive leaps > > based on an analytical approach to the evidence. This works pretty > > well as a bullshit detector. > > There are a lot of people who don't test neatly into any of the 16 M-B > types, but one of the four main types does end up predominating--I have > a > xSxJ friend who is one of the most incredibly complex people I know, > and I > probably will never quite be able to " figure him out " . > > The heavily NT tendency of 12sf didn't surprise me at all. I had been > thinking about it a few months back. AA has a strictly delineated set > of rules as well as a core text (authority), and has been around for > 50+ > years (implying stability and tradition) that is fundamentally > appealing > to most SJs. The high regard the general public seems to have for AA, > and > its institutionalization, are also appealing for SJ's. (Matt, I know > you're > an ESFJ, but don't get mad at me for this! Not yet!) > > The SP's tend to like slogans, catchphrases, buzzwords, what have you. > It isn't lack of intelligence by any means; my non-AA father and great- > uncle are both ESTPs, both intelligent men, and both have their own > stocks > of little phrases they use all the time. The person who gives you a > stock phrase-- " Take the cotton outta your ears and put it in your > mouth " -- > is more than likely an SP. They really tend to believe in such phrases; > common- or " horse- " sense generally appeals to them. And, typical > of Sensors, they like steps, being concrete, practical thinkers. Any > DIY > or self-help book that has a lot of bulleted or numbered lists of steps > to take towards the desired result was no doubt written by a Sensor. > > The Extraverted SP's no doubt do better than the Introverts--in fact, > Extraversion (or the ability to simulate it) is very much needed to > function " well " within AA. Speaking at meetings, reaching out to > newcomers, engaging in the social aspects of the fellowship, taking > on multiple sponsees--Extraversion (or at least the ability to fake it) > --is necessary. The insistence that one should not " isolate " ; that > you should " use the phone " and call up other members when faced with > difficulties--not to mention attend group meetings--skews AA in favor > of Extraverts. > > The NF types might chafe under the strictness of the " rules " , but get so > absorbed in helping others, or performing minute psychic > self-examination, > or both, that they manage to " tune out " a lot of the parts of AA they > don't > like or don't want to deal with. The ones I knew in AA were most upset > by > issues such as power struggles within AA groups, or people who violated > the " spiritual principles " of the program and thus hurt others. They > were > the ones most likely to react strongly against abusive people in the > program. Of the four basic types, NFs seemed the most capable of > ignoring the > Christian emphasis of the program and substituting another path. The > Lord's Prayer and Serenity prayer were seen as troublesome by some NFs, > but most managed to reconcile them with their own beliefs, usually with > the rationale that " God is god, however we seek him/her/it. " NFs were > the > most likely to remain happily in AA by rejecting aspects of the > " spiritual > program " that did not fit their ideal, and substituting others. On the > other hand, they also seemed to have the toughest time with the > ruthless > self-examination demanded by the program; not because they did it > poorly, > but rather because they did it too well. > > The Feeling types in general are likely to beat themselves up over their > percieved failings--NFs may see themselves as not compassionate enough, > or forgiving enough, and SFJs in particular have lists of " shoulds " > and " musts " that can lead them into real trouble. As essentially > nurturing > types, SFJs are wonderful at any area that requires caring for other > people > --teaching, nursing, etc.--but they also carry more than their share > of self-inflicted guilt. Usually among the people with the fewest > reasons > to beat themselves up, they are the most prone to it. > > The NTs were the most likely to have trouble in AA, mainly as a result > of the NT desire for logical consistency. Pete said it right when > describing intuitive leaps made alongside analytical approaches to given > evidence. I'm an INTx, and though the program made no logical sense to > me, I was so beat down from the booze and drugs that I couldn't think > clearly. After I had been clean for awhile, and my mental faculties > cleared,I began to be disturbed by the inconsistencies I saw, and > eventually set to work to try and reconcile them--which was logically > impossible. If NTs beat themselves up in the program, it seems, > it is because they cannot reconcile program doctrine with what they see > as logical. Sometimes an NT decides that the program *must* make > sense, which often causes terrible misery--I've seen that. > > All of this, or some of it, may sound like complete horseshit. But I've > been using Myers-Briggs for quite awhile, and find it fascinating when > applied to " real-life " situations. I'm a student, and as the quarter > goes on, I end up " typing " my fellow classmates. I'd be interested in > anyone's comments/questions/enlargements upon or additions to anything > I've written... > > Cheers, > . > > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Toys, Books, Software. Save $10 on any order of $25 or more at > SmarterKids.com. 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Guest guest Posted January 7, 2000 Report Share Posted January 7, 2000 " melissa mabee " wrote: original article:/group/12-step-free/?start=11222 > " pete watts " wrote: > original article:/group/12-step-free/?start=110 86 > > Hi All > > > > no surprise on that Myers-Briggs thingy I come out mostly INTP but a > > fair bit of ENTJ too. I think that alot of us 12sf types are likely > to > > be NT because the NT combo links an ability to make intuitive leaps > > based on an analytical approach to the evidence. This works pretty > > well as a bullshit detector. > <snips> > The NTs were the most likely to have trouble in AA, mainly as a result > of the NT desire for logical consistency. Pete said it right when > describing intuitive leaps made alongside analytical approaches to given > evidence. I'm an INTx, and though the program made no logical sense to > me, I was so beat down from the booze and drugs that I couldn't think > clearly. After I had been clean for awhile, and my mental faculties > cleared,I began to be disturbed by the inconsistencies I saw, and > eventually set to work to try and reconcile them--which was logically > impossible. If NTs beat themselves up in the program, it seems, > it is because they cannot reconcile program doctrine with what they see > as logical. Sometimes an NT decides that the program *must* make > sense, which often causes terrible misery--I've seen that. > > All of this, or some of it, may sound like complete horseshit. But I've > been using Myers-Briggs for quite awhile, and find it fascinating when > applied to " real-life " situations. I'm a student, and as the quarter > goes on, I end up " typing " my fellow classmates. I'd be interested in > anyone's comments/questions/enlargements upon or additions to anything > I've written... > > Cheers, > . > As an INTP I completely agree with your analysis of the NT's difficulty with the program, and need to point out too that for me, at least, the program doesn't only violate logic, but also what I see going on in the world. I also agree that Es will have the least problem with the social aspects of the program. But do you need a meeting to do that? As someone (Matt?) just pointed out, the meetings are the most boring inane part of it all. When I first heard of AA meetings I kind of thought they would be like a party without booze, where people mixed around and talked to each other and compared experiences. More like the coffee hour afterwards. Speaking as an I who scores pretty equally on the I and E scales, I must also say that the behavior of tx counselors pretty well ruined any value I might ever have gotten out of meetings by critiquing our performance at meetings at subsequent " group therapy " sessions. Pete's remark about the bullshit detector abilities of NTs is also right on the mark. It's very difficult to reconcile what people say in meetings with what you know about their real life behavior. For me, at least, that alone makes the value of being there virtually nil. Other people seem to be able to overlook these discrepancies. I am reminded of a gay German Jewish professor I once had who had fled Nazi Germany when his (undoubtedly NTP) partner saw the writing on the wall. He hadn't seen any particular danger in the Nazis at the time, but much later, when student demonstrations were taking place in the US, he would have taken the most stringent steps available to curtail them, if it had been up to him. He said that they were dangerous because they reminded him too much of Nazi Germany. I never really understood how he could think that Nazis and demonstrating students were the same until I heard about Meyers-Briggs categories. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2000 Report Share Posted January 7, 2000 butterbean-@... wrote: original article:/group/12-step-free/?start=11223 > Hi everyone - > Back from a FANTASTIC time in Orlando, FLA. > Anyway, I don't know a whole helluva lot about this Myers-Briggs business, > but I've always been the type of person that never seems to fit " neatly " > into one catagory. High school was a bunch of b.s. to me because of the > " cliques " - I really didn't fall into any one of them. As to categories, I couldn't say, but beware of thinking you are always an outsider. I sure did until college, when one of my classmates filed an official complaint with our house (read " dorm " ) president, saying that I and five other girls were cliquish and excluded others from our company. After the uproar had died down, and the house president had interviewed us all and decided there was nothing to it, I still felt like an outsider, but realized it is more a state of mind than a status. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2000 Report Share Posted January 7, 2000 Kayleigh S wrote: > > butterbean-@... wrote: > original article:/group/12-step-free/?start=11223 > > Hi everyone - > > Back from a FANTASTIC time in Orlando, FLA. > > Anyway, I don't know a whole helluva lot about this Myers-Briggs > business, > > but I've always been the type of person that never seems to fit > " neatly " > > into one catagory. High school was a bunch of b.s. to me because of > the > > " cliques " - I really didn't fall into any one of them. > > As to categories, I couldn't say, but beware of thinking you are always > an outsider. I sure did until college, when one of my classmates filed > an official complaint with our house (read " dorm " ) president, saying > that I and five other girls were cliquish and excluded others from our > company. After the uproar had died down, and the house president had > interviewed us all and decided there was nothing to it, I still felt > like an outsider, but realized it is more a state of mind than a status. > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Toys, Books, Software. Save $10 on any order of $25 or more at > SmarterKids.com. Hurry, offer expires 1/15/00. > http://click./1/646/1/_/4324/_/947278344/ > > -- Create a poll/survey for your group! > -- /vote?listname=12-step-free & m=1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 7, 2000 Report Share Posted January 7, 2000 > I am reminded of a gay German Jewish professor I once had who had fled > Nazi Germany when his (undoubtedly NTP) partner saw the writing on the > wall. He hadn't seen any particular danger in the Nazis at the time, > but much later, when student demonstrations were taking place in the > US, he would have taken the most stringent steps available to curtail > them, if it had been up to him. He said that they were dangerous > because they reminded him too much of Nazi Germany. I never really > understood how he could think that Nazis and demonstrating students > were the same until I heard about Meyers-Briggs categories. > Jim here. I don't know anything about the Meyer's Britches inventory, except I took the test in an outpatient program but don't recall how I rated. It's easy for me to understand how all that turmoil of the '60s could give him a Nazi flashback, though. There was a lot of instability in Germany and the rest of Europe before the Nazis came to power -- commies fighting Nazis fighting anarchists fighting vegetarians fighting unionists etc. Lots of protests, riots, bombings. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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