Guest guest Posted April 10, 2009 Report Share Posted April 10, 2009 I started distancing myself from nada because I was stressed, work was stressed, husband stressed, busy with kids. My nada of course didn't believe me and went crazy on me. She kept calling, why am I doing this to her? Well it's not her, it's me. Then started all the raging. I realized I can't do it anymore. I started putting even more space. Now she's got the whole family contacting, why am I doing this to her. It's all about them. So I didn't actually come out and say " I'm distancing myself but I can't stand your personality. " I didn't tell her that I think she has a PD. My counselor even agreed it would be useless. These people are so disconnected from the truth. Here's my question that I struggle with: Do I owe anyone a last communication to say your behavior is what's causing this? Honestly I fear for that rage. I feel ok just letting anyone think what they want. I'm not returning any communication anymore. Thoughts? Thanks Betty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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