Guest guest Posted May 12, 2009 Report Share Posted May 12, 2009 I'm guessing this is a pretty typical BPD trait...my nada can't be happy for anyone esp. me. Years ago when I was pg with #3 she actually said " F--- YOU! " I stood there shocked and *she* got upset with *me* and said " Gawd, I'm kidding. Can't you take a joke? I just don't feel emotionally ready to go thru this (pg) with you again. " ???? She also seems to have some kind of radar that either lets her know when we are particularly happy and content and she pops into try to ruin it, and she also seems to pop in when things are particularly difficult. For example, I have been trying to get 1 of my children with ASD into a res. program. He has been hospitalized several times in the last year. It has been incredibly difficult for us in the last month or so and that is when she has upped the anti and is now suing us. Like I don't have enough on my plate, she needs to heap it on. Okay. Vent over. It just seems that nada has some innate sense of how and when to make my life unbearable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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