A strange twist in the story

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Hi, yesterday my bpd dgter called me around noon adn asked how I was, Is aid

very stressed with my job but otehrwise fine, short chat good bye. I went home

from work early and ahd a nap, it was a stressful day. She calls around 5, " what

are you doing?, having a npa, that's strange she says, I agree but said I was

tired and just needed a nap, end of conversation. I got up, had dinner and went

to my parent program. I knew my cell was going off like crazy while I was there

but I don't and won't check so let it go. As I was leaving she calls and is

ahving a fit, " Mom where are you, are you OK, I am so worried..... " blah blah

She was having apanic attacke just because I told her I was stressed and now

wou;n't anser the phone. She ahd actually gone to my apt and called me from my

house phone trying to get me to answer....

I was stunned and amuzed. My letting go must be working so well that she feels

the need to try and rope me back in and " keep me in line "

I jsut listened and apologized for having worried her and told her I have a life

and if I don;t answer to just know that I am out having a life.

She actually calmed down and said she knew she couln't control me but she

worries....

Anyway, a new twist and I am sure the twisits will increase this next weekas

court draws near, she meets witht ehr lawyer Tuesday so I am beginning to

emotionally prepare myself for what may lie ahead if the DAd gets custody of my

gradn dgter. that will be a huge trigger for her.

Take care all

Elaine

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