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Janet,

> I am pleased that this list follows its claim of respect for choices.

> I am a complete advocate of language first, speech second (if ever).

I am also pleased with this and respect your position. However, I have

concerns about this statement:

> I think CI choosers are making a big mistake in not using a combination of

>auditory and manual communication esp with young children. If the CI is a

>success, and your child can communicate fully orally, the signs will fade

away >from non-use. Knowing and using sign will NOT cause your child's

speech >to be less. In fact not only is it time to put that myth to rest,

but to see the >research that shows kids have better speech, if they have

been exposed to >sign.

I am NOT going to get into a debate about the validity of this statement

(this is certainly NOT the place for this), but please recognize that this

is a highly controversial decision and can " push the buttons " of people such

as me.

I admire the decisions made by all of us. I respectfully request that we

all continue to respect that none of us is making a " big mistake. " I know

this posting was not intended to wound and it is in that friendly spirit

that I make the request :-)

Cheryl