Re: Nikki

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Nikki I am new to the group but I am going to put my two cents in

here. I was married to a man for 18 years and he only threw things

at me and pushed me at first when we had an argument. It was not

such a big thing and his parents told me that I needed to back off

and leave the room when I " pushed his buttons " ! I did every time and

one day I did not leave quick enough and even though he never made

contact with his punches he did this time. That was about 5 years

into the marriage. By the time I left the marriage I was being

physically, mentally and verbally abused. He always made sure the

bruises were in places that no one would see and the abuse never

happened in public except toward the very end. If I was slapped

around before we went somewhere I was told to put on my happy face

when we went out or I knew what would happen when we got home. I

hated him for that!!

The last time he hit me I had enough and when he had me on the floor

choking me and threatening to kill me I begged him to and when I saw

my son there I came with a left hook that knocked him out cold!! I

am still proud of that......

Anyway to make a long story short girl if he is doing that he will go

much further!! I know a lot of us have been there and totally

support your decision. STAND FIRM AND STAND TALL!!! HOLD YOUR HEAD

HIGH AND DO WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT NOT WHAT OTHERS WANT YOU TO DO!!

Jimmie.....you are welcome to email me privately if you wish

> > Nikki Stand your ground DO what YOU think is Right we will stand

> behind you

> > and be here for you.. I think to let them do that once they will

> try again..

> > I Have been Raped and so I say Make him suffer but thats because

I

> think

> > those men are sick and need help

> > need some ears

> >

> >

> > > well the crap has now hit the fan i got inlaws and my parents

> > > pressuring me to drop charges and have no idea what to do

> anymore. i

> > > am sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo tired of hearing get

> marriage

> > > counseling and if i hear it one more time i swear i will throw

up.

> > > all i want to know is when is enough enough. for those of you

that

> > > dont know my husband cant say dh anymore i am too mad is in

county

> > > jail for attempted rape and assault. we have been fighting for a

> > > month now all verbal and i wanted to leave friday for a break.

> well

> > > tony didnt think this was a good idea and a serious battle of

> wills

> > > came into play. yes he stopped before he did the deed (more than

> > > likely cause i was beating his ass sorry for the language)but

> still

> > > my pride is gone. and the assault stems from a glass of soda

> getting

> > > thrown at me so mind you maybe i am over reacting. but what if

> next

> > > time it dont stop with ripped panties and pop all over me.

please

> > > just help me

> > > love to you all

> > > nikki

> > >

> > >

> > >