Guest guest Posted January 20, 2003 Report Share Posted January 20, 2003 The guy who did this is such a total jerk. I mean really...who's grown up? OMG I can't believe someone would be like that. I don't know you at all, but let me tell you, you have many reasons to live. You were given this gift of life, and it's yours to live...not the guy who started in on you. He has no control over you. Let him go and let him deal with his own demons. I hope you are feeling better. allison > I really need your help everyone. I was downtown today doing some > shopping and I ran into one of the guys from my high school who used > to torment me about my weight. He started to torment me again and I > felt like I was in high school again *crying* > If anyone reads this please help me, I can't take it anymore. I > really need to talk to someone now *crying harder* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 21, 2003 Report Share Posted January 21, 2003 ignore the jerk from high school i had the same thing happen to me. and i met up with a guy that did that to me a few weeks ago, he saw me at the grocery store today and he commented that it looked like i lost weight and he was sorry. he looked in my cart too he said you must really being doing good. i'm sorry for everything. so maybe someday you'll get to see him again and he'llnotice your progressand apologize. whatever you do do not give up on your life. think of all the people that would miss you let alone how much pain you'll be in untill it actually goes through. i was in the hospital one year for attempting. i am glad it didn't work, because i really enjoy my life now. i have come through a lot and survived through a lot and i know that i'm strong and i can overcome things that come my way again. i have been raped, i have been molested as a child, i have come through four miscarriages. i have been beaten by my ex, but i am still living and i m proud of that. i really regret every trying to take my life. things can and will get better. please remember that. you can change how you feel, you can make this better and we are here to help and listen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 21, 2003 Report Share Posted January 21, 2003 , How old are you? Please don't take this the wrong way but, seriously, how old are you? Why did you let the jerk go on for 15 minutes? Walk away! Tell him to f#@* off and get a life. I can tell you this, it is not about you! Somebody who does that has personal problems and is trying to make himself feel better by making other miserable. It's not you! He would find something negative to say to any one! Feel sorry for him. He is soo insecure and feels soo lousy about himself that he has to harass others to feel better. That is sad. You are not in school any more! Your weight is not who you are. It does not matter what others think of you. Be the best person you can be for you. Are you honest? Law abiding? Kind to others? A hard worker? Only you have to live with who you are. It does not matter what somebody else " thinks " of you. Just tell them well at least I don't have to make others feel bad to feel good about myself. You may be over weight but at least you aren't rude and cruel to others! Dr Phil, says all the time, we teach people how to treat us. Don't just stand there and take it. Tell them you don't like it and you don't want to hear it any more and then walk away. Nothing and I mean nothing is worth suicide!!!!! It is really a very selfish thing to do. If you succeed, you are dead, it is the living that have to deal with the pain. Think about how that feels? Nothing is worth that! If you are not happy with your situation then only you can change that. You can NOT solve it with food. Now you just feel awful about eating all that right? Next time you need to find non food ways to deal with things. Write in a journal, go for a walk, anything NON FOOD! Food is not your friend and will not solve anything. I don't mean to sound harsh. Just telling it how I see it. I hope something made sense here. Take care and know that we care. Hugs, Gena On Monday, January 20, 2003, at 02:22 PM, wrote: > I really need your help everyone. I was downtown today doing some > shopping and I ran into one of the guys from my high school who used > to torment me about my weight. He started to torment me again and I > felt like I was in high school again *crying* > > He finally stopped after 15 minutes. After that I went to the > grocery store and bought a package of chocolate bars, cookies & > chips. I came home and ate it all in 1 hour. Please help me as > whenever I feel sad I eat *crying* > > Sometimes I just want to slit my wrists and just die. I don't know > why I bother even going on. Life isn't worth living anymore. I have > been sitting here since 3pm thinking of reason's to live & so far I > can't think of any. > > If anyone reads this please help me, I can't take it anymore. I > really need to talk to someone now *crying harder* > > > <image.tiff> > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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