Re: Prednisone/Deneen

[Guest guest]

Abruptly stopping prednisone is a VERY dangerous. It could also cause the

severe flare that you are having now. Just please be careful and at least

call and talk to your doctor.

When you separate or divorce, I thought it was also important to run an ad

in the local paper stating that you are no longer responsible for any debt

incurred by your spouse. This protects you if he goes and runs up bills on

credit cards that were in both your names.

I agree with what someone else said, that you are at least entitled to half

the equity in your home and child support. I hope that you got those.

Gentle hugs,

Fern

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Fern.... Since I had already established credit in my name before I

married my ex, I kept my maiden name and all my own credit cards. In my

divorce the attorney ran ad but it didn't stop my ex from already taking

out DUPLICATE cards that were in my name. For two years I had no idea

he was using my credit cards until he stopped paying on them. The bills

for more than $25,000. were bounced back to me. That's when #$%^ hit

the fan, if you know what I mean. Since he was using the cards a year

before and a year after our divorce the credit card companies felt I was

responsible for the debt because I should have known. Plus he signed my

name, very well I might add. We went to one court hearing after

another. Now, 11 yrs later, I still get my credit reports every 6

months to make sure he hasn't done anything. That little add in the

paper doesn't do diddley squat all by itself!

Another friend of mine who has moved out of the state of Calif. decided

after 5 yrs of being divorced to check her credit report. I got a call

from her and she was blazing mad. Her ex was using one of her cards,

and had run up $10,000. Had she not taken the time to check her credit

report she would have never known. And her ex is a Highway Patrol man.

Deneen, just cover your fanny....

Vicki

[Guest guest]

Vicki, that's terrible!!!!!!!!! I have a feeling you've really been through a lot of "experiences." But look at you now......I'd say you're definitely a survivor.

Take care,

Connie

Re: Prednisone/Deneen

Fern.... Since I had already established credit in my name before Imarried my ex, I kept my maiden name and all my own credit cards. In mydivorce the attorney ran ad but it didn't stop my ex from already takingout DUPLICATE cards that were in my name. For two years I had no ideahe was using my credit cards until he stopped paying on them. The billsfor more than $25,000. were bounced back to me. That's when #$%^ hitthe fan, if you know what I mean. Since he was using the cards a yearbefore and a year after our divorce the credit card companies felt I wasresponsible for the debt because I should have known. Plus he signed myname, very well I might add. We went to one court hearing afteranother. Now, 11 yrs later, I still get my credit reports every 6months to make sure he hasn't done anything. That little add in thepaper doesn't do diddley squat all by itself!Another friend of mine who has moved out of the state of Calif. decidedafter 5 yrs of being divorced to check her credit report. I got a callfrom her and she was blazing mad. Her ex was using one of her cards,and had run up $10,000. Had she not taken the time to check her creditreport she would have never known. And her ex is a Highway Patrol man. Deneen, just cover your fanny.... Vicki

[Guest guest]

LOL... Your right Connie... I've come from the land of hard knocks.....

but you live and learn. My friends tell me I'm too much a softy.... I'm

the one who will help any one at any time... then can't figure out why I

got walked all over.

I've only had one individual that I tried to help really take advantage

of me in the wrong way.....she tried to steal one of my horses.... Now,

you can do anything to me but you touch my animals and I go NUTS! I was

calling the police as I was driving down the road looking for the

trailer. It takes a lot for me to get mad but she really pushed me.

I got my mare back and she went to jail. This gal was going to sell my

baby for $500. HA! She was sentenced to 5 yrs in the pokey.

I would like to say I'm much wiser now but than again, I don't live in

an area where people come and go. I'm a hermit now and I love it.

Take care,

Vicki

[Guest guest]

I've always heard that being a horse thief is about as low as someone can go, Vicki!

I was right.........I knew you had lots of stories to tell :-)

Enjoy! Hope you have a great day tomorrow.

--Connie

Re: Prednisone/Deneen

LOL... Your right Connie... I've come from the land of hard knocks.....but you live and learn. My friends tell me I'm too much a softy.... I'mthe one who will help any one at any time... then can't figure out why Igot walked all over. I've only had one individual that I tried to help really take advantageof me in the wrong way.....she tried to steal one of my horses.... Now,you can do anything to me but you touch my animals and I go NUTS! I wascalling the police as I was driving down the road looking for thetrailer. It takes a lot for me to get mad but she really pushed me.I got my mare back and she went to jail. This gal was going to sell mybaby for $500. HA! She was sentenced to 5 yrs in the pokey.I would like to say I'm much wiser now but than again, I don't live inan area where people come and go. I'm a hermit now and I love it. Take care,Vicki