Re: Re: Restraining Order

[Guest guest]

My daughter had a restraining order issued agains me.. In it she maintains

that she is in " imminent fear for her safety " from me. The order is on behalf

or her and the 3 children. That I would " send my cousin after her " whatever

that means. The date of the " incident " coincidentally is March 16, 2005, the

day I went and filed the police report that she was keepimng the boys locked in

their rooms and at the same time she told me if I sent dirtbag back to jail

she would " slash my throat " which is all in the police report.

I have to go to court on May 25th to dispute it. She also claims the boys

are afraid of me because I " pull their pants down to spank them, pull their hair

and pull their ears:. If she weren't so pathetiv it would be laughable. She

also claims < " she feels guilty trying to get her mother out of their lives

but she has to think of herself first.

I am concerned that she is brainwashing the kids and she will make me look

like some type of weirdo. And I am sick of all this. I am not emotional about

it anymore, just sick of it.

Her latest sentence in the complaint is that she " just wants to be left

alone " .. I haven't laid eyes on her since we were in court on April 19th. Oh,

she

also " shakes all day after seeing me because she's so fearful of me and that

since she has a heart defect it is affecting her health. Having 3 pregancies

that the doctors advised against, didn't concern her though.

I was planting in my garden this AM and thought to myself. I am having a

yard sale and selling all the toys anf clothes I have for the boys. They are

all

big yard toys:slides, swings, seesaws, etc I will take the money and buy

myself something.

I am not having her lie about my integrity about the kids, implying that I am

an abuser, when she's the one who is. ANd if she brainwashes the kids who

knows what they will say. She is beneath nothing. She is pure and simple white

trash. I just don't need any ot this in my life anymore.

Jean

[Guest guest]

I'm so sorry like I told you, about all this. She is so much in need

of help. I think she knows it is herself that is the problem, but doesn't

want anyone else to know that so she is turning it around and blaming you. I

don't think you will have any problem in court. Keep your chin up and go in

with confidence, and like I said, bring along that fat folder of yours,

documents of all you have paid for and done for her. Even bring the police

reports

showing her threats. Bring everything. ALSO, I'm thinking, about the yard

sale, put in an ad in the local paper one that she would see, also flyers

maybe in stores she frequents, and DEFINITELY listing all the childrens' items.

That should get her. She's wacked, I wouldn't put any merit to what she

wrote in the RO, they really are meaningless and pitiful, no real threats at

all

on your part. I think based on her reasons, the RO won't stick. Good luck

to you, I will be keeping you and the boys in my thoughts and prayers.

Actually, it might not be a bad idea to bring along the people who know you best

and who are totally aware of all the care and concern you have shown the boys

all these years. People who knew you were taking the kids to daycare/school,

doctors, whatever. They would be a tremendous help.

Hugs,

Debbie