Guest guest Posted April 29, 2005 Report Share Posted April 29, 2005 Dear Itsalison2: Perhaps rather than dumping on , you might like to tell us what your problem is. Jean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2005 Report Share Posted April 29, 2005 Kelley Do you have the addresses for those other boards? I quite honesty like " talking " to those who have BPD or have beed " cured " . It gives me a better perspective into how actually thinks. And if I can see things from her perspective it would be heloful in my reaction to her. And I feel that needed us. I have gained a good deal of insight into from seeing life from 's viewpoint. ANd she has a lot to offer this group. Jean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2005 Report Share Posted April 29, 2005 Kelley I avoid anger, however if I feel something is unjust I will respond. If " itsalison2 " wnats to share her situation with us, then I don't think having to be negative about was necessary, really do you? We are all here to listen and respond to her problem as has been doing last night and this morning. Just my opinion. Jean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2005 Report Share Posted April 29, 2005 Jean I dont think she was dumping on , this board has pretty much been personal now for over a week. When people join this group it is as parents wanting help dealing with thier BPD children, and the board has been far from it lately! A response like that is not encouraging! There are other boards for discussing BPD problems with other BPD's and nons, that are not specifically about parents of BPD's. The tone I am hearing in some of these emails borders on anger? or at least that is what I am hearing. Even agreed somewhere that it was time to get back on topic! Hugs kelley Re: Digest Number 1081 Dear Itsalison2: Perhaps rather than dumping on , you might like to tell us what your problem is. Jean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2005 Report Share Posted April 29, 2005 Wow, that was really uncalled for. If you look at the board for the past couple weeks, you will find it is dominated by you and . > Dear Itsalison2: > > Perhaps rather than dumping on , you might like to tell us what your > problem is. > > Jean > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2005 Report Share Posted April 29, 2005 Hi, PLEASE - don't unsubscribe. There can be a lot of help to be found here. Sometimes people don't realize they're monopolizing the board. And, you can always post your messages, and others will read them, and respond. I think if this happens, perhaps the group will move back closer to its original purpose. Stay with us! > In a message dated 4/29/2005 8:07:59 AM Eastern Standard Time, > WTOParentsOfBPs writes: > > > Yeah, doing fine. Just don't like being misunderstood, and then > > when I am, the other party insists they're not misunderstanding. > > > > But, enough of that. I shall say no more. It's not important. > > > > What is important, I think, is that this forum gets back on track. > > We've had a lot of folks pop in and say they're new, but we haven't > > heard back from them. I'm concerned that is because we've allowed > > ourselves to get sidetracked a bit on other issues, and because of > > that they're not feeling free to share about their bp loved ones. > > > > No matter the personalities involved, that is what this forum is all > > about--sharing about our bp loved ones and garnering support while > > we learn how to best deal with them and take our own lives back. > > > > Perhaps we all need to take a deep breath, and refocus our energies > > there? > > > > > > > > Thanks , > I am new here and am ready to unsubscribe - it seems like this is the > Hillman therapy group and nothing here makes any sense. She has taken over > the forum > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2005 Report Share Posted April 29, 2005 Alison-- I agree with Kelley. There are plenty of folks " watching in the wings " that share the things you're going through. PLEASE, ignore some of the other things, and post. I believe you will find a caring and sympathetic audience ready to give you support. > Alison > Please don't unsubscribe! Post post post and we would love to hear from you and answer you back! yes we need to get back to discussing being parents of BPD children and how to handle these things! > > Hgus > Kelley > Re: Digest Number 1081 > > > In a message dated 4/29/2005 8:07:59 AM Eastern Standard Time, > WTOParentsOfBPs writes: > > > Yeah, doing fine. Just don't like being misunderstood, and then > > when I am, the other party insists they're not misunderstanding. > > > > But, enough of that. I shall say no more. It's not important. > > > > What is important, I think, is that this forum gets back on track. > > We've had a lot of folks pop in and say they're new, but we haven't > > heard back from them. I'm concerned that is because we've allowed > > ourselves to get sidetracked a bit on other issues, and because of > > that they're not feeling free to share about their bp loved ones. > > > > No matter the personalities involved, that is what this forum is all > > about--sharing about our bp loved ones and garnering support while > > we learn how to best deal with them and take our own lives back. > > > > Perhaps we all need to take a deep breath, and refocus our energies > > there? > > > > > > > > Thanks , > I am new here and am ready to unsubscribe - it seems like this is the > Hillman therapy group and nothing here makes any sense. She has taken over > the forum > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 29, 2005 Report Share Posted April 29, 2005 Kelley-- Thanks. You said it better than I could! -- In WTOParentsOfBPs , " Kelley " <storeyk@c...> wrote: > Jean > I dont think she was dumping on , this board has pretty much been personal now for over a week. When people join this group it is as parents wanting help dealing with thier BPD children, and the board has been far from it lately! > > A response like that is not encouraging! There are other boards for discussing BPD problems with other BPD's and nons, that are not specifically about parents of BPD's. > > The tone I am hearing in some of these emails borders on anger? or at least that is what I am hearing. Even agreed somewhere that it was time to get back on topic! > > Hugs > kelley > Re: Digest Number 1081 > > > Dear Itsalison2: > > Perhaps rather than dumping on , you might like to tell us what your > problem is. > > Jean > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 1, 2005 Report Share Posted May 1, 2005 Yes I need support too for dealing with my daughter...the reason I am going through this now, is I did not do " damage control " when she was acting up, I carried on strong for her. It is hard enough for a " normal " parent to deal with a BPD child, much less a BPD parent trying to deal with one. But, I kept myself strong til she got on the road to recovery..or so I think....she is still young. so she still has a lot of coping and life skills to learn....but now that i have her taken care of, I am suffering from the stress I went through to stay strong for her during that time.... cascorsam@... wrote: Kelley Do you have the addresses for those other boards? I quite honesty like " talking " to those who have BPD or have beed " cured " . It gives me a better perspective into how actually thinks. And if I can see things from her perspective it would be heloful in my reaction to her. And I feel that needed us. I have gained a good deal of insight into from seeing life from 's viewpoint. ANd she has a lot to offer this group. Jean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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