Guest guest Posted March 20, 2005 Report Share Posted March 20, 2005 My daughter's husband pulls out his hair. She says while he was in jail he would tell her he kept pulling it out in handfuls. How do 2 bps in a relationship work out? Jean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2005 Report Share Posted March 26, 2005 I just reread your post re the bps sense of personal power by pushing people away and how you said her keeping my grandchildren away from me gives her a sense of power. I think she is going to move out of state. His father and grandparents live in New Hampshire. My son and I went out to breakfast this morning. He told me that last summer when the dirtbag was in vio;ation on about 4 counts of his probation, I guess I told her I was going to report him if she didn't stop supporting him with my money. My son says that she told me if I turned him in she would take the boysm and move out of state and I would never see them again. I guess she has been threatening me with that for a while. I can't help but wonder if I haven't been set up. I told my son maybe I should not have turned him in, but my son reminded me that she was already not letting me see the kids, JUST BECAUSE. It was like I was being prodded so she could do this and have her excitement. I feel that I played right into her hands. I hate coming back to my house. I was out all day till now and I was ok. After breakfast, my son did things he had to do. I went shopping for myself and then I had to come back here. I am going to redo this house, get back to work and in a year I am going to sell this house and buy another one without the memories. Today I am packing away all pictures of the boys and all their toys, books, puzzles, and movies. I cannot stand to look at any of those things. This was the first time I have ever taken a stand against her and I see how lethal she really is. I'm not sure I can ever have anything to do with her again. Jean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2005 Report Share Posted April 27, 2005 How are things going with your daughter? Is no news, good news? Jean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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