Re: guilty eely80

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the only thing I can think to say is... you have to do what is best for you. If you are leaving him because of the MS alone then you are mistaken that you wont have a full life. The mistake that some people make when dealing with MS is thinking that it is a death sentence. It is not any longer that horrible disease that some people think it is. You can and many have proving to live a very rich and abundantly great life with MS. I always think that if things get bad I would want my husband to leave and find some one that doesn't have MS or anything else. But in today's medical problem-ed world you are just as likely to get hit with MS as you are with cancer or any other horrible thing like getting hit by a bus when you step off the curb. I am not putting you down, I am just saying that MS is not the worst thing that could happen to you, or to who you love. n has been DX'ed with MS since she was 19 and look at her life she is 70.... and still going

strong. Sometimes she is our strength. Sharon our fearless leader has been DX'ed for a number of years and she is doing fine too. These people have a terrible disease but you can never let that rule who you are or who your with if you do then it wins. If you truly love this man then you should stay because of love. Treat him like you would any one else with out anything wrong. If it really dampens who you want to be with then your not a strong person and should leave. I don't mean to sound hateful!!!!! Honest I don't. But you really have to look at the big picture...do you really love this man, would you walk through fire to help him??? Does he love you this same way in return? If you are leaving Solly cause of MS I think you need to read up on it and look at life with out him if his MS is cause for you to want to turn and run. Sorry to ramble. My nephew has MS and he is only 33 and his wife left right after the Dx because of MS and he thinks there is no one who will ever

love him again...I know it is not true. I just get really heated up when I hear people say MS is the reason they can't have a good life with who they love. Sorry again Love and Blessings to you. (with ie from OK)eely80 wrote: hi some months ago my boyfriend (30 year old) has been newly diagnosed multiple sclerosis patient (RR one). in the first period i've been near to him but now i have decided to leave him. i'm too afraid of our future together and i've like denied our love. i feel guilty but

i don't know what to do. please help me with some words.thanks E.