Setting Boundaries....is a letter the best way?

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Greetings Friends,

(This time around) I've been NC with my nada for 10 months or so. She emerged

last week, made demands, acted out, etc. and in less than 2 hours, I was back on

her hit list, sent off with her final words: " May God Forgive You " .

My sister said it's time I tell my nada how I feel about her and " formally " set

my boundaries. I'm considering the Letter...yes, the one in which I break it

down and tell her how it's gonna' be if she wishes to have a relationship with

me and her grandsons.

Nada claims she doesn't understand my years of NC, and it's true, I've never

really stated my position. So, I think I'm ready to do it.

Do " Boundary Letters " work? (A face-to-face would be a fiasco)

Thanking you,

Kannielu