a character asset, misused on nada?

[Guest guest]

As I now finally see nada as the person I need to protect myself

from, I am slowly learning to have good boundaries. I am back to a

study of unconditional love, but the recipient is for now, mainly me

and my family at home.

Unconditional love is, thankfully, not a feeling. It is action.

Toxic people, like nada, are my biggest challenge. I have had to

learn to stop trying to nada's fingers from the bridge of mutual

respect... when all she wants to do is trash it. Or is it that she

really wants to jump from the bridge, and I kept trying to tell her,

" hold on, hold on " ?

It's not long ago that I gave up. Really, it is just days before

Christmas. It is sad, but giving up feels also peaceful. The journey

to self-love requires sacrifices, sometimes.