Re: Re: Kelley Re:For Mel and - comments on recent posts

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Thanks for replies on the question. My DH's son at 5 was allready manipulative,

with outbursts of anger when manipulation did not work. He cannot play games

because he has fits if he does not win. When playing with friends if things

dont go his way he invents violent scenarios such as killing them throwing them

through the window, dragging them to the dog pen and feeding them to dogs, he

also gets so mad when playing rough with next door neighbor that instead of just

realizing she is giving right back what he is dishing out that he has tried to

strangle her. He invents lies, not little white lies to keep out of trouble,

but whole great scenarios of things that just did not happen. he is sullen and

depressed one minute and a wild hyperactive idiot the next. He acts out a lot I

think to get negative attention which I think is the only kind he gets with his

ubpd mom. He is six now and cannot tell the truth to save his life, he says

whatever he thinks the person he is with wants to hear. I cant help him, mother

has refused visitation completely now, only hope is if we get custody. I know

they do not diagnose BPD in children and are even reluctant to do it in teens,

but I sure see it coming!

Hugs

kelley

Re: Kelley Re:For Mel and - comments on

recent posts

" With How young were your children when they first showed signs of

problems?

Kelley "

Thinking back, maybe all her life. But definately around 14 - 16ish.

What I thought was just difficult teens was probably the major onset,

so to speak.

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