Re: Sad Day/need support

[Guest guest]

Cassy,

I'm so sorry. I know it's hard when you love someone, but you can

only do so much for them. An alcoholic has to want to stop for

himself and nobody else. An alcoholic is always an alcoholic, just

recovering always. It's a terrible disease. My FIL had it, my BIL has

it and so does my MIL. I'm lucky that my husband doesn't. I told him

flat out when we first started going out and getting serious that I

wasn't going to be around for something like that.

Life is too short Cassy. I know you are hurt now, and he will be

sorry later about what he said to you, but if you want to be happy

you should get out of that situation.

Big Hugs to You,

Peggy

>

> Hey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breaking

up.As you know hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to a

kinsieta(sp?) and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasted

drunk.We had a huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took

the other car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took all

his clothes outa the closet and packd em up and told him I was done.I

cant believe this is happening,I am so tired and pissed.And im tired

of crying over him and worrying about him.Please pray for me to have

strength and follow threw what I should have done a long time ago.Now

he can go take that job in Reno and party as much as he wants.Thanks

for everything guys,luv ya lots, cassy

>

[Guest guest]

Cassy, ultimately, and even immediately, you will be a lot SAFER and a lot less

stressed without him. Now, just stay off those highways and freeways,say until

Wenesday, and things may be looking up for you! Love,

n Rojas5915@...

Sad Day/need support

Hey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breaking up.As you know hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to a kinsieta(sp?) and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasted drunk.We had a huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took the other car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took all his clothes outa the closet and packd em up and told him I was done.I cant believe this is happening,I am so tired and pissed.And im tired of crying over him and worrying about him.Please pray for me to have strength and follow threw what I should have done a long time ago.Now he can go take that job in Reno and party as much as he wants.Thanks for everything guys,luv ya lots, cassy

[Guest guest]

Cassy I am so sorry to hear this but it probably is the best thing for YOU. You are in our prayers as always.

Hugs

nne

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Sad Day/need support

Hey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breaking up.As you know hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to a kinsieta(sp?) and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasted drunk.We had a huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took the other car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took all his clothes outa the closet and packd em up and told him I was done.I cant believe this is happening,I am so tired and pissed.And im tired of crying over him and worrying about him.Please pray for me to have strength and follow threw what I should have done a long time ago.Now he can go take that job in Reno and party as much as he wants.Thanks for everything guys,luv ya lots, cassy

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[Guest guest]

---good luck Casey. I know you have to be strong when you dont know

if you can but you will make it

Kisses

Lorri

In MSersLife , cassandra workmn wrote:

>

> Hey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breaking

up.As you know hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to a

kinsieta(sp?) and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasted

drunk.We had a huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took the

other car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took all his

clothes outa the closet and packd em up and told him I was done.I cant

believe this is happening,I am so tired and pissed.And im tired of

crying over him and worrying about him.Please pray for me to have

strength and follow threw what I should have done a long time ago.Now

he can go take that job in Reno and party as much as he wants.Thanks

for everything guys,luv ya lots, cassy

>

[Guest guest]

Cassy, I was in the same situation about 10 years or so ago. I just got fed up with it and kicked him out. It was the hardest thing I had to do but it was the best thing for me to do too. It took a lot of pressure off of me and of course, stress. Keep your head up. You did the right thing and it won't hurt so much as time goes on. Keep strong. :)Princess Lorri wrote: ---good luck Casey. I know

you have to be strong when you dont knowif you can but you will make itKissesLorriIn MSersLife , cassandra workmn wrote:>> Hey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breakingup.As you know hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to akinsieta(sp?) and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasteddrunk.We had a huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took theother car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took all hisclothes outa the closet and packd em up and told him I was done.I cantbelieve this is happening,I am so tired and pissed.And im tired ofcrying over him and worrying about him.Please pray for me to havestrength and follow threw what I should have done a long time ago.Nowhe can go take that job in Reno and party as much as he wants.Thanksfor

everything guys,luv ya lots, cassy> The Love Of Pugs!

[Guest guest]

It seems to me that whether or not one has SSDI (Social Security Disability Insurance), that one can apply for SSI and a Medicaid card; the income limit

for one person is just under $2,000.00 per month! Love and best of luck,

n Rojas5915@...

Re: Sad Day/need support

Cassy,If you can't work can you get SSI? You may qualify because of the MS. As for continuing to give him chances, that's what he is counting on. You are not helping him by doing that. Maybe when he sees that you are truly serious this time it will snap him back to reality and make him see what is more important to him, you or drinking.As for your daughters, you don't want them to learn that this is how a woman is supposed to be treated by any man especially a man that says he loves you. If you can't do it for yourself do it for them. I'm sure your family will support you. Why wouldn't they? That's what families are for.Hugs,Peggy> >> > Hey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breaking > up.As you know hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to a > kinsieta(sp?) and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasted > drunk.We had a huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took > the other car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took all > his clothes outa the closet and packd em up and told him I was done.I > cant believe this is happening,I am so tired and pissed.And im tired > of crying over him and worrying about him.Please pray for me to have > strength and follow threw what I should have done a long time ago.Now > he can go take that job in Reno and party as much as he wants.Thanks > for everything guys,luv ya lots, cassy> >>

[Guest guest]

Oh sweetie...I wish I could offer more then just cyberhugs! Please, if you need to talk...email me privately and I'll send you my phone number. I/we are all here for you! Hugs Akiba -- Sad Day/need support Hey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breaking up.As you know hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to a kinsieta(sp?) and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasted drunk.We had a huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took the other car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took all his clothes outa the closet and packd em up and told him I was done.I cant believe this is happening,I am so tired and pissed.And im tired of crying over him and worrying about him.Please pray for me to have strength and follow threw what I should have done a long time ago.Now he can go take that job in Reno and party as much as he wants.Thanks for everything guys,luv ya lots, cassy

[Guest guest]

Cassy~

Believe me sweetie, I've been in your shoes. When ever there is a party for the children, for some reason, the men steal the party and use it as an excuse to get drunk and stupid. They do it at birthdays, quinsietas, holidays, etc... Who needs a (man?), who is going to make every event about them?

I pray that you are okay and that you will remain strong. There are REAL men out there, and you deserve the best.

God bless you...Val

----- Original Message ----- In MSersLife , cassandra workmn wrote:>> Hey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breakingup.As you know hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to akinsieta(sp?) and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasteddrunk.We had a huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took theother car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took all hisclothes outa the closet and packd em up and told him I was done.I cantbelieve this is happening,I am so tired and pissed.And im tired ofcrying over him and worrying about him.Please pray for me to havestrength and follow threw what I should have done a long time ago.Nowhe can go take that job in Reno and party as much as he wants.Thanksfor everything guys,luv ya lots, cassy>

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[Guest guest]

Cassy, Akiba is right; we all care so very much about you and the impact of all this

on you, your health, and those close to you! Love, loves,

n Rojas5915@...

Sad Day/need support

Hey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breaking up.As you know hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to a kinsieta(sp?) and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasted drunk.We had a huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took the other car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took all his clothes outa the closet and packd em up and told him I was done.I cant believe this is happening,I am so tired and pissed.And im tired of crying over him and worrying about him.Please pray for me to have strength and follow threw what I should have done a long time ago.Now he can go take that job in Reno and party as much as he wants.Thanks for everything guys,luv ya lots, cassy

[Guest guest]

Casey, please be strong about this. You have to put yourself first. I know it's hard. My husband left me last June and I've been on my own since then. But, I actually have had less pseudo flares since he left!! I didn't think I could do it. But I did. With the support of this group it sure did help me! Hang in there kiddo! x0x0x0 ShirleyPrincess Lorri wrote: ---good luck Casey. I know you have to be strong when you dont knowif you can but you will make itKissesLorriIn MSersLife , cassandra workmn wrote:>> Hey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breakingup.As you know hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to akinsieta(sp?) and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasteddrunk.We had a huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took theother car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took all hisclothes outa the closet and packd em up and told him I was done.I cantbelieve this is happening,I am so tired and pissed.And im tired ofcrying over him and worrying about him.Please pray for me to havestrength and follow threw what I should have done a long time ago.Nowhe can go take that job in Reno and

party as much as he wants.Thanksfor everything guys,luv ya lots, cassy>

[Guest guest]

Thanks so much . I am at my breaking point,I cannot take all this.He was

sober 4 yrs! I think he relapsed wile working in Reno,the mini-city of sin. So

id say at least a few months.He sucks,makes me wana vomit.He knew id leave him

ive told him so many times we are over if he relapses,so he did and now im

done.I am disapointed to no end.told him in his drunken stupor last night he

said he didnt care,I said you might not now but you will when you realize what

you have lost.He threw it all in my face,everything he pays for and way to

much.You know,pretty much his true feelings came out last night and now today

hes tryn to guilt me so ill let him stay.To late,no more chances for him,im

really beginning to hate him.Thanks for listening.Lots of luv, cassy

[desmarais7@...] wrote:

Cassy,

I was in the same situation about 10 years or so ago. I just got fed up with

it and kicked him out. It was the hardest thing I had to do but it was the best

thing for me to do too. It took a lot of pressure off of me and of course,

stress. Keep your head up. You did the right thing and it won't hurt so much

as time goes on. Keep strong.

Princess Lorri wrote:

---good luck Casey. I know you have to be strong when you dont know

if you can but you will make it

Kisses

Lorri

In MSersLife , cassandra workmn wrote:

>

> Hey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breaking

up.As you know hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to a

kinsieta(sp?) and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasted

drunk.We had a huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took the

other car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took all his

clothes outa the closet and packd em up and told him I was done.I cant

believe this is happening,I am so tired and pissed.And im tired of

crying over him and worrying about him.Please pray for me to have

strength and follow threw what I should have done a long time ago.Now

he can go take that job in Reno and party as much as he wants.Thanks

for everything guys,luv ya lots, cassy

>

The Love Of Pugs!

[Guest guest]

Thankyou Lorri.Im sure ill be fine,with the support of all my family here and

here at home.I think its harder cuz we have been together awile and are use to

eachother and our life.I really never thought he would relapse,I guess we arnt

as important to him as Id thought we were.It sickens me,if I were a violent

person I coulda beat the crap outta him He has destroyed us and now I get to

start over.Great.ugh.well,no men for me with me and my girls we will be

happy.Maybe poor but happy.Lots of luv, cassy

[lps619@...] wrote:

---good luck Casey. I know you have to be strong when you dont know

if you can but you will make it

Kisses

Lorri

In MSersLife , cassandra workmn wrote:

>

> Hey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breaking

up.As you know hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to a

kinsieta(sp?) and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasted

drunk.We had a huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took the

other car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took all his

clothes outa the closet and packd em up and told him I was done.I cant

believe this is happening,I am so tired and pissed.And im tired of

crying over him and worrying about him.Please pray for me to have

strength and follow threw what I should have done a long time ago.Now

he can go take that job in Reno and party as much as he wants.Thanks

for everything guys,luv ya lots, cassy

>

[Guest guest]

Thanks Peggy. I dont have ms,so they say.I dont have any diagnosis.I have

arthritis in my neck,spondylosis,and scoliosis documented.So I will try with

those and maybe once they speak to my docs and see i use assisted devices maybe

they will approve me.We dont know the main source of my illness so im hoping the

little ones will help.He says he wont leave us hanging guess we will see.He

knows we are done.I hated him when he drank,I was so proud when he quit and so

many yrs. Went by and I told him and he knows I mean it that if he ever drank

again I was leaving him.Obviously he wasnt thinking about that when he was

pounding his liquior.Im so grateful I have all you.My family is being supportive

but I do feel like they dont get it.I knew Id get some reasurance here,knowing

im doing the right thing. lots of luv,cassy

[spazman222@...] wrote:

Cassy,

If you can't work can you get SSI? You may qualify because of the MS.

As for continuing to give him chances, that's what he is counting on.

You are not helping him by doing that. Maybe when he sees that you

are truly serious this time it will snap him back to reality and make

him see what is more important to him, you or drinking.

As for your daughters, you don't want them to learn that this is how

a woman is supposed to be treated by any man especially a man that

says he loves you. If you can't do it for yourself do it for them.

I'm sure your family will support you. Why wouldn't they? That's what

families are for.

Hugs,

Peggy

> >

> > Hey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breaking

> up.As you know hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to

a

> kinsieta(sp?) and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasted

> drunk.We had a huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took

> the other car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took

all

> his clothes outa the closet and....

[Guest guest]

My father was an alcoholic, and both sisters, and my mother. How I managed to miss the curse I don't know. I *do* drink, a beer or two now and then, but I know the signs and I'm not *hooked* Nor is Rob TG. I KNOW what you're going through. My father was a suicide from the booze, and one sister passed from liver disease. All due to alcohol. email me at akyba@... and I'll send you my number. we're ALL here for you, as the emails testify... HUGS Akiba -- Re: Sad Day/need support Thanks Akiba.I will email you privately and get your number soon.I am such a wreck.Barely got to bed at 5 am.Me and my mom went looking for him cuz he drove outa here like a maniac drunk as hell.Couldnt find him,and he had hid my car a few blocks away.I will never forgive him for this.Last night he told me he has helped me all he can and cant anymore.What the hell! Im so done.My eyes are swollen so bad I can hardly see im just a complete mess.My family is here and im waiting for him to leave.I packed up alot of his crap and told him to go,he asked if he could sleep first,u know cuz the hangover.ughh.Then he got up cuz i told him to go back to Reno and sleep it off there.Now hes jus here and pissing me off cuz he aint leavn yet.He is tryn to make me feel bad so I will let him stay,I wont do it.I look at him and he discusts me I cant believe this.I luv u lots and thanks so much everyone for walking me threw this.I luv ya all,cassy[akyba@...] wrote:Oh sweetie...I wish I could offer more then just cyberhugs! Please, if youneed to talk...email me privately and I'll send you my phone number. I/weare all here for you!HugsAkiba-------Original Message-------From: cassandra workmnDate: 05/27/07 14:16:34To: MSersLife Subject: Sad Day/need supportHey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breaking up.As youknow hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to a kinsieta(sp?)and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasted drunk.We had a huge fighthe took the car and hid it and then took the other car(driving wasted!) saidalot of mean things,so i took all his clothes outa the closet and packd emup and told him I was done.I cant believe this is happening,I am so tiredand pissed.And im tired of crying over him and worrying about him.Pleasepray for me to have strength and follow threw what I should have done a longtime ago.Now he can go take that job in Reno and party as much as he wantsThanks for everything guys,luv ya lots, cassy

[Guest guest]

Cassy:Don't forget to get the SSDI tape from Lynn, our smilin' librarian! That tape really did help me when I applied. I got approved over the phone the first time I applied. Just email Lynn and she'll send it right out to you. love...Sharon Re: Re: Sad Day/need support

Thanks Peggy. I dont have ms,so they say.I dont have any diagnosis.I have arthritis in my neck,spondylosis, and scoliosis documented.So I will try with those and maybe once they speak to my docs and see i use assisted devices maybe they will approve me.We dont know the main source of my illness so im hoping the little ones will help.He says he wont leave us hanging guess we will see.He knows we are done.I hated him when he drank,I was so proud when he quit and so many yrs. Went by and I told him and he knows I mean it that if he ever drank again I was leaving him.Obviously he wasnt thinking about that when he was pounding his liquior.Im so grateful I have all you.My family is being supportive but I do feel like they dont get it.I knew Id get some reasurance here,knowing im doing the right thing. lots of luv,cassy

[spazman222verizon (DOT) net] wrote:

Cassy,

If you can't work can you get SSI? You may qualify because of the MS.

As for continuing to give him chances, that's what he is counting on.

You are not helping him by doing that. Maybe when he sees that you

are truly serious this time it will snap him back to reality and make

him see what is more important to him, you or drinking.

As for your daughters, you don't want them to learn that this is how

a woman is supposed to be treated by any man especially a man that

says he loves you. If you can't do it for yourself do it for them.

I'm sure your family will support you. Why wouldn't they? That's what

families are for.

Hugs,

Peggy

> >

> > Hey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breaking

> up.As you know hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to

a

> kinsieta(sp? ) and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasted

> drunk.We had a huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took

> the other car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took

all

> his clothes outa the closet and....

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Cassy, Just a note......He won't stop trying. He knows he messed up. If you can't live like that anymore, you have to stick to it. He will play on your emotions so just a heads up. He will try to make you think it's all your fault that he is drinking again and that you just don't understand. Please don't fall for it. I fell for those things way too many times. Fortunately I am in a great relationship. I met my husband soon after the relationship I described to you to you the first time I wrote. I didn't want to go out bcs I just got out of that relationship that hurt so many times but I took the chance. We went out on our first date 9 years ago and just had our 6Th wedding anniversary this month. What was funny is that when we entered the relationship we just thought we would live together if it turned out good. We did that. We even had everything in both names

and we just said one day that we were already living like we were married so let's get married. It was the best decision I ever made. So, the point I am trying to make is that something good will come out of this bad. I promise! Just keep the faith and stick to your decision. You are probably at the point that you know you deserve better and you'll find it. Don't give up. You deserve much better and with that attitude you will find someone who respects you and loves you for you and you won't go back to that kind of life again. Hang in there girl!!!!!!! We are all behind you and will be here to support you. p.s. I know we really don't know each other but I know what you are going through and am sure many in this group do so to. I feel that I should and want to be there for you bcs no one was there for me and it's such a hard thing to go through alone. :) :)cassandra workmn wrote: Thanks so much . I am at my breaking point,I cannot take all this.He was sober 4 yrs! I think he relapsed wile working in Reno,the mini-city of sin. So id say at least a few months.He sucks,makes me wana vomit.He knew id leave him ive told him so many times we are over if he relapses,so he did and now im done.I am disapointed to no end.told him in his drunken stupor last night he said he didnt care,I said you might not now but

you will when you realize what you have lost.He threw it all in my face,everything he pays for and way to much.You know,pretty much his true feelings came out last night and now today hes tryn to guilt me so ill let him stay.To late,no more chances for him,im really beginning to hate him.Thanks for listening.Lots of luv, cassy[desmarais7sbcglobal (DOT) net] wrote:Cassy,I was in the same situation about 10 years or so ago. I just got fed up with it and kicked him out. It was the hardest thing I had to do but it was the best thing for me to do too. It took a lot of pressure off of me and of course, stress. Keep your head up. You did the right thing and it won't hurt so much as time goes on. Keep strong. :)Princess Lorri <lps619> wrote:---good luck Casey. I know you have to be strong when you dont knowif you can but you

will make itKissesLorriIn MSersLife , cassandra workmn wrote:>> Hey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breakingup.As you know hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to akinsieta(sp?) and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasteddrunk.We had a huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took theother car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took all hisclothes outa the closet and packd em up and told him I was done.I cantbelieve this is happening,I am so tired and pissed.And im tired ofcrying over him and worrying about him.Please pray for me to havestrength and follow threw what I should have done a long time ago.Nowhe can go take that job in Reno and party as much as he wants.Thanksfor everything guys,luv ya lots, cassy>

:)The Love Of Pugs! The Love Of Pugs!

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I called and said I wanted to apply for disability and was told she could

mail me the application papers or I could apply over the phone.

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> Thanks Sharon.How do you go about applying over the phone?I had never

heard about that till you told me.Hugz,cassy

>

> [wobbletowalk@...] wrote:

> Cassy:

>

> Don't forget to get the SSDI tape from Lynn, our smilin' librarian!

That tape really did help me when I applied. I got approved over the phone

the first time I applied. Just email Lynn and she'll send it right out

to you.

>

> love...

>

> Sharon

[Guest guest]

not at first but after a while I did

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> Thanks a,Im gonna call them tomorow.Did you have to go meet with a

worker after your application was recieved?Thanks bunches.Lots of luv,

cassy

>

> [paulacoon@...] wrote:

> I called and said I wanted to apply for disability and was told she could

> mail me the application papers or I could apply over the phone.

>

> a Coon

> www.farmfreshsoapsandcandles.com

> farmfresahsoapsandcandles@...

>

[Guest guest]

Cassy, I'm praying for you. Your doing the right thing. You need someone who can love you even when your sick and help you when you are down. 'cassandra workmn wrote: Thankyou Lorri.Im sure ill be fine,with the support of all my family here and here at home.I think its harder cuz we have been together awile and are use to eachother and our

life.I really never thought he would relapse,I guess we arnt as important to him as Id thought we were.It sickens me,if I were a violent person I coulda beat the crap outta him He has destroyed us and now I get to start over.Great.ugh.well,no men for me with me and my girls we will be happy.Maybe poor but happy.Lots of luv, cassy[lps619] wrote:---good luck Casey. I know you have to be strong when you dont knowif you can but you will make itKissesLorriIn MSersLife , cassandra workmn wrote:>> Hey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breakingup.As you know hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to akinsieta(sp?) and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasteddrunk.We had a huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took

theother car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took all hisclothes outa the closet and packd em up and told him I was done.I cantbelieve this is happening,I am so tired and pissed.And im tired ofcrying over him and worrying about him.Please pray for me to havestrength and follow threw what I should have done a long time ago.Nowhe can go take that job in Reno and party as much as he wants.Thanksfor everything guys,luv ya lots, cassy>' in Texas Courage is not being fearless, courage is facing your fears and not running for cover!

[Guest guest]

Thanks .I dont even want a man right now.And I do hope when the time comes

he can accept my illness and be good to me and my girls.Thankyou for the prayers

I really need them right now,I feel so lost and depressed.Luv ya,cassy

[dixmstx@...] wrote:

Cassy,

I'm praying for you. Your doing the right thing. You need someone who can love

you even when your sick and help you when you are down.

'

cassandra workmn wrote:

Thankyou Lorri.Im sure ill be fine,with the support of all my family

here and here at home.I think its harder cuz we have been together awile and are

use to eachother and our life.I really never thought he would relapse,I guess we

arnt as important to him as Id thought we were.It sickens me,if I were a violent

person I coulda beat the crap outta him He has destroyed us and now I get to

start over.Great.ugh.well,no men for me with me and my girls we will be

happy.Maybe poor but happy.Lots of luv, cassy

[lps619@...] wrote:

---good luck Casey. I know you have to be strong when you dont know

if you can but you will make it

Kisses

Lorri

In MSersLife , cassandra workmn wrote:

>

> Hey guys,most awful day of my life.Me and my fiance are breaking

up.As you know hes a recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to a

kinsieta(sp?) and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasted

drunk.We had a huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took the

other car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took all his

clothes outa the closet and packd em up and told him I was done.I cant

believe this is happening,I am so tired and pissed.And im tired of

crying over him and worrying about him.Please pray for me to have

strength and follow threw what I should have done a long time ago.Now

he can go take that job in Reno and party as much as he wants.Thanks

for everything guys,luv ya lots, cassy

>

' in Texas

Courage is not being fearless, courage is facing your fears and not running

for cover!

[Guest guest]

Cassy~ Hey sweetie, listen, I've been worried about you for awhile, and feeling as though you need and deserve a stronger, more supportive, more nurturing boyfriend/partner...I think this in some way, is God's hand in your life, although it probably feels pretty crappy right this moment...Take care and know you are in prayer, as well as your kids...Know I am thinking of you, and as much as I feel bad this happened--better now, than a year down the road when you were married...yes? love and blessings, kate> Dear Cassy:> > I'm so, SO sorry this has happened. You know you have our > support no matter what happens. I'm sorry I didn't read this > until just now. I've been behind on reading for several days > (just doing moderator stuff mostly). My heart really goes out > to you. I left my husband when I was 3 months pregnant with my > youngest child (he just turned 35) and never looked back. It > was something I had to do for my own well-being as well as my > kids. He was a drinker/doper and wanted the party life instead > of settling down with his family. He was also abusive. I > didn't want my kids to grow up with him so I left. It wasn't > always easy but it was absolutely the right thing to do. But no > one can tell you what to do. You must follow your own heart and > listen to your own mind. > > I'll also email you privately. > > love...> > Sharon> > > Hey guys,most awful day of my > life.Me and my fiance are breaking up.As you know hes a > recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to a kinsieta(sp? ) > and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasted drunk.We had a > huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took the other > car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took all his > clothes outa the closet and packd em up and told him I was > done.I cant believe this is happening,I am so tired and > pissed.And im tired of crying over him and worrying about > him.Please pray for me to have strength and follow threw what I > should have done a long time ago.Now he can go take that job in > Reno and party as much as he wants.Thanks for everything > guys,luv ya lots, cassy> > >

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Thanks Kate.It is tough but I am stayn as strong as I can and sticking to my

word.I told him many times if he ever started again even if for 1 night I was

done.He knew.His plan was not getting busted,to bad for him im not stupid! I

dont know what I will do,he is back in Reno this week so it will give me time to

think and hopefully come up with a plan.It has all been since Reno,our

relationship went even more downhill.Boy,am I glad I didnt move there with him.I

wish Id never have got sick cuz then id still be working and independent,I cant

help but think if it were that way I woulda booted his ass out a long time ago.I

depend on him for so much it will take alot of adjustment thats for sure.He is

begging and begging for a second chance.I am so disapointed in him.For saying to

hell with 4 yrs.of sobriety and showing me the monster he once was and also for

the kids.It is so crushing,I really never thought he would relapse and now if I

did give him a second chance I would only

be thinkn the worse.hugz,cassy

[katelloydkidz@...] wrote:

Cassy~ Hey sweetie, listen, I've been worried about you for awhile, and feeling

as though you need and deserve a stronger, more supportive, more nurturing

boyfriend/partner...I think this in some way, is God's hand in your life,

although it probably feels pretty crappy right this moment...Take care and know

you are in prayer, as well as your kids...Know I am thinking of you, and as much

as I feel bad this happened--better now, than a year down the road when you were

married...yes? love and blessings, kate

> Dear Cassy:

>

> I'm so, SO sorry this has happened. You know you have our

> support no matter what happens. I'm sorry I didn't read this

> until just now. I've been behind on reading for several days

> (just doing moderator stuff mostly). My heart really goes out

> to you. I left my husband when I was 3 months pregnant with my

> youngest child (he just turned 35) and never looked back. It

> was something I had to do for my own well-being as well as my

> kids. He was a drinker/doper and wanted the party life instead

> of settling down with his family. He was also abusive. I

> didn't want my kids to grow up with him so I left. It wasn't

> always easy but it was absolutely the right thing to do. But no

> one can tell you what to do. You must follow your own heart and

> listen to your own mind.

>

> I'll also email you privately.

>

> love...

>

> Sharon

>

>

> Hey guys,most awful day of my

> life.Me and my fiance are breaking up.As you know hes a

> recovering alcoholic,well yesterday he went to a kinsieta(sp? )

> and didnt get home till 1:15 am,and he was wasted drunk.We had a

> huge fight he took the car and hid it and then took the other

> car(driving wasted!) said alot of mean things,so i took all his

> clothes outa the closet and packd em up and told him I was

> done.I cant believe this is happening,I am so tired and

> pissed.And im tired of crying over him and worrying about

> him.Please pray for me to have strength and follow threw what I

> should have done a long time ago.Now he can go take that job in

> Reno and party as much as he wants.Thanks for everything

> guys,luv ya lots, cassy

>

>

>

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I sent my app and then had a phone interview. Maybe that's a good sign ' My unemployment was approved because of the way they fired me. I just have to say I'm able to work and I am, as long as I have my wheelchair.Sharon Marsden wrote: I should have said I sent in my application

and then had a phone interview. Sharon Re: Re: Sad Day/need support I called and said I wanted to apply for disability and was told she couldmail me the application papers or I could apply over the phone.a Coonwww.farmfreshsoapsa ndcandles. comfarmfresahsoapsandc andles@earthlink .net> Thanks Sharon.How do you go about applying over the phone?I had neverheard about that till you told me.Hugz,cassy>> [wobbletowalk@ yahoo.com] wrote:> Cassy:>> Don't forget to get the SSDI tape from Lynn, our smilin' librarian! That tape really did help me when I applied. I got approved over the phonethe first time I applied. Just email Lynn and she'll send it right outto you. >> love...>> Sharon Looking for a deal? Find great prices on flights and hotels with Yahoo! FareChase. ' in Texas Courage is not being fearless, courage is facing your fears and not running for cover!